What does the hand holding mean to Sai? - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yeah exactly...she knows he will stay in this marriage because he likes her normally and can move on with her since he is ot going to be with pakhi and she does not want to be his rebound or get him as her husband out of pity...

Yesterday and many episodes before also, Ayesha potrayed this emotion of underlying love for him but not letting it surface to the T. She is a fierce woman when it comes to her husband and the way she scoffed pakhi yesterday when she spoke about her not letting her in the hospital room is 👏. She cant let pakhi take her place. She treasures it, but doesnt show it like how pakhi is flaunting her false relationship. Yesterday the right with which she said, it is her duty to look after her husband(patient) was brilliant.

Sai and Ayesha both rocked yesterday. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: _charu_

I didn't say he did the right thing by hiding the truth from samrat. But I believe it's understandable that he will preserve pakhis image infront of everyone bec it's attached to his image too. He can be questioned on eloping part . Pakhi wont suggest this out of the blue unless he encouraged her . Pakhi can also turn the tables on him . Anyways, the fact that they were holding hands is known to all. it was kept open to interpretation . Samrat trusted virat . But sai didn't. I don't blame her for that..

Sai knows Virat womt cross the limit. Her problem that she keeps raising is that he hasnt truly moved on from pp despite making such an announcement. She thinks he is lying. And imo she has ample reason to believe that Virat harbors a soft corner/feelings for pp that he doesn't endorse openly. She doesn't want to force him to love her/treat her as a "wife" if he has someone else in his heart. And thats that.

Virat only gets angry at pp's mention but never cares to understand WHY Sai keeps bringing it up. He has decided he wont give his wife an explanation because shes too "stubborn" anyway. Well his stubbornness to not say things clearly is going to cost them both. Both are miserable, upset n Sai will get physically hurt again. N virat will freak out, cry buckets but the status quo hasnt changed.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Agree. I always said he defends pakhi when someone questions about her equation with virat because it is linked to him & his character also will be dragged in this. People think he do things to protect pakhi image or to support her. No he do things for himself. He desperately wants samrakhi to happen because he will be guilty infront of everyone had samrakhi divorce happened. But as a brother he failed there.

These days he comes across very selfish, yes. But yes he might be thinking that Pakhi has to spend some time with Samrat to know his worth. I dont want anyone to end up with Pakhi, until unless she realizes her mistakes which seems impossible now.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

this is something I believe too! But I don’t understand why he can’t say it to sai. Atleast tell her that pakhi was unable to move on and cried. He just consoled her. Need not reveal all the crap she said so not to be misunderstood but that much atleast he could.

Well it cud be anything. Sai may misunderstand further and she can bring it up anytime .. at this point I don't understand what exactly will satisfy her.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

yeah Thats what...the same man who went on to present his side about the kiss on the Kurta and about valentine's day..But for his wife he wants to give no explanations...

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well it cud be anything. Sai may misunderstand further and she can bring it up anytime .. at this point I don't understand what exactly will satisfy her.

I think thats what Virat is thinking also. He thinks he cannot convince her in any way so giving up. He is not even trying. A heart to heart talk with him taking her close and explaining to her would do but not sure. I think the story establishes this fact that Sai is unable to clear her mental block.

Only self realization is the way! That is where the story is headed to.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Because then he was bound by vaada😂. He don't want pakhi to believe that he was not being true to her vaada. Now he is not even comfortable in talking about his past with sai because he wants to erase whatever he & pakhi shared in past🤣. And if he says pakhi still didn't move on then sai may blame him first for letting pakhi lead on him for which he has no answers. As far I understood he is extremely uncomfortable in talking about his past with anyone & he closes the topic with just one sentence like 'that was all in past not now 'be it to sai or samrat. Somewhere I feel he is ashamed of the equation he shared with pakhi in past. He regrets everything he did. After college fest track during sairat nok jok over ajinkya virat in his monologue says 'wish I never told u the things(commitment,no umeed) which I told u on the marriage day'. During his manipulation infront of family after cafe incident he said wish I met sai earlier when he talked about hiding truth from samrat. He regrets his past is what all I understood. I might be wrong too.

Then how is Sai at fault here...when she is getting jo clarity at all...and in all this We should wait for her to realise her love ...baba...

The clarification for this kiss was on their first night after marriage I suppose, ain't it? That time Virat himself thought he loved Pakhi and so was it during Valentines. At least he hadn't moved on by then... It was only later. So he felt obligated to explain to Pakhi. Now he is not explaining to Sai ( I feel) because he feels if he reveals Pakhis truth to Sai, Sai is bound to misunderstand. Not only misunderstand but also Sai is quite capable of announcing this to Samrat, the complete CN and the neighbours also. So keeping in mind Pakhis reputation (I feel he is still has guilt over the turn of events in Pakhis life and the fact she hasn't been able to move on) I feel he hasn't revealed anything to Sai. Because he still feels he owes that much to Pakhi his friend.

This is my perspective. And I don't think he ia entirely wrong, that too knowing Sais nature and her lover for sacchai and truth.

Originally posted by: laksh

Actually, she wants to believe him but something happens that pushes her back to square one and this time even worse since she has some feelings which she herself is not aware of.

When she spoke to Pulkit, she was also saying that Pakhi is making him feel bad. She thinks that Virat is trying to move on but Pakhi is not letting it happen.

Her feelings for him which she hasn’t realised yet is a big problem because had she realised it, she would have come clean with him as why it is bothering her. As she had herself said at the lovers point that she would confess her feelings if she loves someone. So if she even knows why she is feeling this way, why she is getting affected so much, she would tell it directly to him and even confess her feelings to him.

@bold That is the root of the problem for Sai! It is the cause for all the confusion and turmoil she is experiencing. She built a fort around her heart that the marriage is only a deal- and it is all crumbling and bringing with it a flood of emotions she neither comprehends or even feels completely - she is losing her senses. Any emotion dealt wrongly will come back to cause us even more turmoil - this will also be one of the reason for her depression. I liked Virat's dialogue today - that Sai has covered her eyes and is marching forward mindlessly without any sense of awareness.