What does the hand holding mean to Sai?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai is so disturbed by the coffee meet, the hand holding and is not even able to stop herself from bringing it. Why?

She is fighting with him because she has never imagined he would do that. She thinks he might have feelings for Pakhi but wouldn’t have imagined them to be this close that they will hold hands so comfortably. That is why she keeps bringing it up.

“Aapke dil mein Pakhi Didi hain”, “aap apne dil mein dabake rakhthe hain”, she says these so often which shows that she has been thinking it all to be his wish but really never expected him to show it out by meeting her outside the house, in a cafe and also by letting himself to hold her hands to comfort her. She has thought that he has always buried his feelings in his heart, never imagined it would be shown by him this way.

She has never imagined or thought that they could be physically close in some way. She has always thought that he is a guy with morals and wouldn’t cross his lines/limits but this incident has disturbed her. She is not able to accept that Virat would do it since this means that they can be this close too and she is not even able to imagine it.

That is why she is making a big deal about it from my understanding.

To her, this meet is like Virat has finally accepted that he too has feelings for Pakhi. This all has happened only after Samrat returned. So she has assumed that after Samrat had returned, Virat couldn’t even control whatever he has kept buried within him so long and he met Pakhi outside the house. It is as if this time he couldn’t even stop himself from comforting her by holding her hands which she has never seen him doing before or never imagined he would ever do. It is as if Virat had finally brought out his feelings without stopping himself. That is how Sai perceive it as and that is why it is bothering her so much that she keeps bringing it often.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautiful post laksh❤️

You are right. The cafe incident has made a huge impact on her. And it doesn't help that Virat has not been completely honest.

Today she also said that "she didn't realize that Pakhi moving on with Samrat would affect him so much....only now she is slowly trying to comprehend the depth of his despair". This shows the utter shattering of any teeny-weeny hopes she might have had that Virat may have moved away from Pakhi.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think the encounter with the yoga instructor is where it all started from. She was slowly and gradually getting affected from there itself, then their anniversary and post anniversary fight, and then finally, the cafe incident seems to be the last straw.

Virat never really told her the whole unfiltered truth about the cafe incident, leading to Sai making assumptions along with the yoga instructor's words and also didi's constant interference between them since day 1.

Also the thing that she is able to see through didi's intentions clearly but Virat seems to be aloof from all these and his rudeness and indifference is probably pushing her away from him even more.


SaiRat need to have a peaceful, open and honest conversation without the interference of any third person, even if it's their well wisher. They need to place all their insecurities, thoughts and assumptions in front of each other sans filter.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes I agree the cafe incident has effected her deeply … she had kind of assumed that virat will keep his relationship with pakhi in an arm distance ..


But seeing him with pakhi has disturbed her …she is bringing it again and again because virat has not cleared it with her ..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Actually it all started from Harinee's birthday. She overheard lot of things then, but Virat never came clean except for saying he is not fulfilling any commitment towards Pakhi. So mostly Sai believes everything that Pakhi said to Virat. On top of it came the stupid love story Virat told her during anniversary before Yoga instructor met them. So it just kept building.


Even when she told Samrat that Virat has always maintained his boundary (physically) coz she truly believed it. Then came the cafe meeting, and that made her question everything she knows about Virat. She respected him, but now she probably is conflicted. She could probably also think if its only one off incident that they met outside? Are there things she doesnt know.


But she eventually saw he came clean to Samrat (not knowing that he overheard her conversation with Shivani). So she gets its one off, but cant get over it coz in physical terms she and Virat have not gone beyond holding hands in past one year. However it was so easy for Virat to hold Pakhi's hands. So she probably feels what they had is probably nothing special for Virat.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Sai is so disturbed by the coffee meet, the hand holding and is not even able to stop herself from bringing it. Why?

She is fighting with him because she has never imagined he would do that. She thinks he might have feelings for Pakhi but wouldn’t have imagined them to be this close that they will hold hands so comfortably. That is why she keeps bringing it up.

“Aapke dil mein Pakhi Didi hain”, “aap apne dil mein dabake rakhthe hain”, she says these so often which shows that she has been thinking it all to be his wish but really never expected him to show it out by meeting her outside the house, in a cafe and also by letting himself to hold her hands to comfort her. She has thought that he has always buried his feelings in his heart, never imagined it would be shown by him this way.

She has never imagined or thought that they could be physically close in some way. She has always thought that he is a guy with morals and wouldn’t cross his lines/limits but this incident has disturbed her. She is not able to accept that Virat would do it since this means that they can be this close too and she is not even able to imagine it.

That is why she is making a big deal about it from my understanding.

To her, this meet is like Virat has finally accepted that he too has feelings for Pakhi. This all has happened only after Samrat returned. So she has assumed that after Samrat had returned, Virat couldn’t even control whatever he has kept buried within him so long and he met Pakhi outside the house. It is as if this time he couldn’t even stop himself from comforting her by holding her hands which she has never seen him doing before or never imagined he would ever do. It is as if Virat had finally brought out his feelings without stopping himself. That is how Sai perceive it as and that is why it is bothering her so much that she keeps bringing it often.

Hey beautiful post Laksh...

I had mentioned long back..Till she witnessed Virat and Pakhi talking about their love , she always showed her possessiveness, always fought with pakhi with him, always claimed him hers..She showed her insecurities her jealousy, she gave it back to Pakhi... The moment she witnessed that, them talking about what could that relationship would have meant to them(Harini's birthday)...she started breaking from there...She stopped claiming him as her husband.....The moment she witnessed that she realised that Virat shared with Pakhi, gave her a part of him, that she would never get... And hence she in her head also thought probably Pakhi has more rights on him...emotionally... Now she claimed Virat never crossed his limits and then she witnesses them holding hands, so close, emotionally so close..she broke... She was done...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Beautiful post laksh❤️

You are right. The cafe incident has made a huge impact on her. And it doesn't help that Virat has not been completely honest.

Today she also said that "she didn't realize that Pakhi moving on with Samrat would affect him so much....only now she is slowly trying to comprehend the depth of his despair". This shows the utter shattering of any teeny-weeny hopes she might have had that Virat may have moved away from Pakhi.

That also shows the hopes she had harboured about him...Imon did speak about hopes also in this fight...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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But isnt it so stupid? Wasn't it much easier earlier for Virat to carry on an affair with Pakhi when Samrat wasn't around! He had ample chances. But he didn't take any! But now as soon as he has returned will Virat go and risk having an affair with Pakhi and hurt his own brother whom Sai knows that he loves so much! Isn't it illogical! Impractical?!

In fact I have lived in a long distance marriage for nearly 2 years and I had even asked my husband why should I think that he didn't have any fling with anyone in this time? He clearly told me, it easy to have a fling but extremely difficult to face the consequences afterwards! So when u weigh it all, its not worth the effort! Same here with Virat. Its not worth the effort for him to have an affair with Pakhi now! And risk his everything! Shouldn't Sai think once in that direction?!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Beautiful post laksh❤️

You are right. The cafe incident has made a huge impact on her. And it doesn't help that Virat has not been completely honest.

Today she also said that "she didn't realize that Pakhi moving on with Samrat would affect him so much....only now she is slowly trying to comprehend the depth of his despair". This shows the utter shattering of any teeny-weeny hopes she might have had that Virat may have moved away from Pakhi.

Actually, she wants to believe him but something happens that pushes her back to square one and this time even worse since she has some feelings which she herself is not aware of.

When she spoke to Pulkit, she was also saying that Pakhi is making him feel bad. She thinks that Virat is trying to move on but Pakhi is not letting it happen.

Her feelings for him which she hasn’t realised yet is a big problem because had she realised it, she would have come clean with him as why it is bothering her. As she had herself said at the lovers point that she would confess her feelings if she loves someone. So if she even knows why she is feeling this way, why she is getting affected so much, she would tell it directly to him and even confess her feelings to him.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

Yes I agree the cafe incident has effected her deeply … she had kind of assumed that virat will keep his relationship with pakhi in an arm distance ..


But seeing him with pakhi has disturbed her …she is bringing it again and again because virat has not cleared it with her ..

@bold Looks like. Exactly.

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