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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: monikameghan

I don’t think it is any of her business what he thinks about anyone without displaying or hurting. Even if he has feelings for her and he doesn’t display it to her then it is his personal matter and no one including her should be bothered. As long as he is keeping it to himself.

On another note, I hope Anupama starts thinking about herself. There is nothing wrong in thinking of a life with someone for herself. As Devika had said rightly, she is single and it is no one’s business to say anything to her. She has full rights to do whatever she wants with her life.


of course Anu has total rights to do what she wants with her life but she needs to be very firm and not let her confidence falter.


Anuj is going to keep his feelings to himself cause he knows it will hinder Anu’s life at work and their professional set up will be disturbed.

Posted: 3 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

Regarding anuj he is scared if feelings come out what he think and if it affect Anupama wrong way they it will hurt his heart which he said today also


Anupama thinks what she said clearly she don't love her self that much that she will think someone like anuj will love her also she said the same thing regarding making it clear it's just too much has happened in her life now she don't want any other Angle except work and get sucess for herself. She just got too much over boarded with the surrounding what has happened she don't even want anuj to think also that way though she said that also aapka dil saaf hain janti hoon lekin auron ka nahi hoga . As a friend she shared and she even not realising she is comfortable sharing things with him and smile without bothering anything. It will take time fir her to realise


But that track will be very interested scary painful when anu. Will know anuj feeling let's see how it will be dealt


Anupama has low self esteem when it comes to her looks and personality. She doesnt think that a handsome and cool looking dude like Anuj would even think of a auntyji kinda woman like her. She underestimates herself all thanks to the way she was treated all these years. Usko kya pata ke pyar dil se hota hai aur Anuj ka toh dil hai ki manta nahin😆

Posted: 3 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

😥😥 yes. That track when anu comes to know abt anuj's love for her as u said no idea how makers r gonna handle the track. Hope they do not mess this beautiful story of #MaAn ❤🤞🤞


I’m apprehensive about this too... drama toh hoga kuch na kuch type ka but hope they introduce their love angle gradually and hope its Anu who unconciously falls for the guy Anuj is- a complete opposite of the gadha Vanraj

Posted: 3 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: papa.ki.pari

I think Anupama went overboard in actually going ahead and telling Anuj to strictly keep it professional and that there is no scope for anything between them. It was a bit too much since as of now, Anuj has never directly admitted or hinted that he had/has feelings for Anupama. He has always only referred to her as his friend and has been polite.


All of Anupama's fears and worries are because of her toxic family. But saying these things to your new business partner on your first day can make your working relationship weird! If Anuj didn't really have feelings for Anupama, he might have been offended by this one-sided rant and Anupama's over imagination! :D :D


I found the dialouge and her way of saying it off but guess that was needed to add the whole drama to the scene... I dont think it was rude and I get why she was comfortable saying without having to worry that Anuj would mind... she subconsciously expects Anuj to understand where she is coming from and accept her for who she is with her family baggage.

Posted: 3 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: magicalM

No i think she consider him as a college friend like jaan pehchaan so she says all these things. And after that Lets rock partner bhi wo aise hi kisis se bhi nahi keh deti , she herself initiated hand shake koi bhi lady first din aise hi ksis se lets rock partner nahi kahegi unless she is on friendly terms. And she said koi ummeed mat rakhiya in a very polite and friendly manner not in any rude sense.


Yes initially I didnt quite like the way she said that whole thing about keeping it professional but like you said she is somewhere very much settled into the idea of a friendly bond with Anuj. She initiated the handshake and was upbeat about working with him, this kinda camaraderie only comes when someone is comfortable and trusts the other person

Posted: 3 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: magicalM

I agree she said all these things in a friendly way. Wo bhi to andar se dari hui hai to usne dil halka karne ke liye as a friend Anuj se ye baatein kahi 😆 I am noticing she is comfortable in sharing her feelings with him. When Kavya Vanraaj says ill things about Anuj then also she is affected . She is not realizing this now but she will in future. And we are forgetting before Devika putting any sense into Anupama she want to take this partnership.


true.. she isnt realising it yet but she is already very comfortable with Anuj and knows that he only has her best interests at heart. She feels safe in the friendship and doesnt shy from sticking up for him in front of the idiots questioning their relationship

Posted: 3 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Anupama is in the denial stage that a Dashing Charmer like Anuj can have no feelings for her, in her mind her identity is that of a mom, mil and Dil.

She has never been treated as someone worhy of love and respect for who she is but only based on the eqation of ties they share.

She is carrying the baggage of the insinuations of the 4 idiots so she unburdens to set the context for what she expected out of the opportunity that has now come their way. She would be working closely with him on a daily basis. It's better they start interaction without any expectation or ambiguity.

They can then start their association and eventually fall in love.


I’m just way too excited to see their relationship bloom and dont want anything to jinx it...as you rightly said Anu is in denial and cannot imagine a charmer like Anuj being interested in a homely woman like her.


Their daily interactions will make realise her self worth and she might in the process gain the confidence and understanding of what love is and how one feels when in love.


Anuj will have to try very hard to hide his feelings, he thinks he can but for how long we’ll have to wait and watch!

Posted: 3 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Anu is saying this with a pov log kya kahenge especially baa, her children and all.

As long as he is professional and does not say anything what was the need to say I am ma, daughter and saas . So especially is she trying to promote she is mot Anupama an individual who may have ambitions and desires .

Do we want such role models.

Are marraiges only for procreation ? What about companionship and love


I dont think Anu meant to say the maa beti and saas line to disregard her individuality... She just wanted Anuj to know that she is carrying a lot of family baggage and she has no space for a new relationship i. her life.


Sadly the way marriages are portrayed in desi shows is regressive. They make such a big fuss about the hurdles faced in getting married but once they are married, companionship is hardly shown and they jump straight to starting a family.

Posted: 3 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Anupama told Samar and Kinjal that she would be honest if she did have feelings as love is a beautiful feeling and nothing to be ashamed of - so I have a feeling that when she does realize she loves Anuj, she will have no qualms in openly acknowledging it. It might take her a while to come to terms with her feelings but when she does I hope true to her word, she feels elated that someone loves her for who she is and she in turn reciprocates that love for Anuj. The greatest gift of love is allowing a person to be himself/herself and loving the person for all their strengths and flaws. That is the kind of love Anuj has for Anupama and when Anupama realizes the depth and sanctity of that feeling, I am hoping instead of hiding behind what will her family think, she will be in awe of having inspired such lasting love and learn to appreciate the man who sees so much goodness and value in her.

As to her rambling today, Anupama is burdened by all the negative talk at home and let’s it all out to Anuj. He is her classmate and one does have a sense of being compatriots and friends with school and college mates. That is the same ease she feels with Anuj, she is probably also warning him not to expect anything else from her as he sure will be disappointed then. Devika’s repeated insistence on Anuj caring for Anupama has not fallen on deaf ears. Anupama is not lacking in sense. She tells Kavya, he looks like a hero why would he fall for someone like me. She is disbelieving of Devika but also worried at the crap her family has told her, so she decides to be blunt and tell him her expectations from the get go. Given that he is her classmate/friend, nothing wrong in being upfront. Anuj will be extra careful to mask his feelings now and it will be good if Anupama starts developing feelings for Anuj without being aware of the depth of his regard for her.


very well said 👏

and I agree with it all... the ease she feels around him is the star factor in their relationship and I’ll be so good to see Anupama develop feelings for Anuj without knowing what he feels for her...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Anupama told Samar and Kinjal that she would be honest if she did have feelings as love is a beautiful feeling and nothing to be ashamed of - so I have a feeling that when she does realize she loves Anuj, she will have no qualms in openly acknowledging it. It might take her a while to come to terms with her feelings but when she does I hope true to her word, she feels elated that someone loves her for who she is and she in turn reciprocates that love for Anuj. The greatest gift of love is allowing a person to be himself/herself and loving the person for all their strengths and flaws. That is the kind of love Anuj has for Anupama and when Anupama realizes the depth and sanctity of that feeling, I am hoping instead of hiding behind what will her family think, she will be in awe of having inspired such lasting love and learn to appreciate the man who sees so much goodness and value in her.

As to her rambling today, Anupama is burdened by all the negative talk at home and let’s it all out to Anuj. He is her classmate and one does have a sense of being compatriots and friends with school and college mates. That is the same ease she feels with Anuj, she is probably also warning him not to expect anything else from her as he sure will be disappointed then. Devika’s repeated insistence on Anuj caring for Anupama has not fallen on deaf ears. Anupama is not lacking in sense. She tells Kavya, he looks like a hero why would he fall for someone like me. She is disbelieving of Devika but also worried at the crap her family has told her, so she decides to be blunt and tell him her expectations from the get go. Given that he is her classmate/friend, nothing wrong in being upfront. Anuj will be extra careful to mask his feelings now and it will be good if Anupama starts developing feelings for Anuj without being aware of the depth of his regard for her.



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Let me guess. Anupamaa falls in love with the teachers son

The teacher looks old he bounds to have family she might fall in love with his son

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