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Posted: 3 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Hari73


Definitely individual perspective and how they choose to live. Finding happiness in what they hv is positive life approach. But dixits were way too negative to find any positivity in their life.


I cannot relate to their cribbing bcoz, I hv seen my 2 to 3 maids(over the period). All were struggling hard to meet their family requirement. Their husbands were not working, 2 to 3 children. Children school fees, food, rent n husband drinks all they used to provide. They had hardship, but still they had happy things to share. They used to forget their hardship when they were seeing their children growing up. Never giving up attitude n never expect in return. They just happy that they able to earn n provide to their family. Looking at their struggle i know what woman can b. Really really hats off to them.


Our one of family friend lost parents at very young age. Neighbours look after them. He did part time jobs for his studies n all. Now he is in very good position. But I never saw him cribbing. Infact he was thankful to god giving him best neighbours. That is positive approach.


My point is not denying their hardship. Everyone goes through something or other. But don't make it like they only faced problem n they lived in hell. Be positive n try to be happy.


But everyone deals with things differently right? Two of my friends lost one of their parents recently. One of them got over it within a month & moved on. Not necessarily happy but she never cries (at least not before other ppl) & keeps herself occupied & distracted. The one hasn't moved on for months now, has shut herself off & cries about it till date. Both their losses are the same but both dealt with it differently. Both loved their parents but both reacted to the grief differently. Same way every individual is different. Yes it's great if someone is positive despite everything they go through in life but if someone is bitter & remembers their past struggles later on, you can't necessarily fault them. IMO, it's easier to say how to deal with stuff and give examples as a third person. I don't know how I will react if I were in a similar situation. And to each their own :)

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Posted: 3 years ago
#52

Was that samosa on their plates? Looks like Sonakshi is not around 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: GoodVibes1010


But everyone deals with things differently right? Two of my friends lost one of their parents recently. One of them got over it within a month & moved on. Not necessarily happy but she never cries (at least not before other ppl) & keeps herself occupied & distracted. The one hasn't moved on for months now, has shut herself off & cries about it till date. Both their losses are the same but both dealt with it differently. Both loved their parents but both reacted to the grief differently. Same way every individual is different. Yes it's great if someone is positive despite everything they go through in life but if someone is bitter & remembers their past struggles later on, you can't necessarily fault them. IMO, it's easier to say how to deal with stuff and give examples as a third person. I don't know how I will react if I were in a similar situation. And to each their own :)

Loss of ppl is life time painful. Each ppl face it in diff way. But definitely mourn n remember life time. My point was only that he don't crib/cry for a life he lived after his parents death. May b I put it in wrong way.


And I think we both are saying same thing about individual perspective. Let's stop to this. Cheers!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thank you!😊

I was really upset by the way they destroyed Elena's character also. It was my personal opinion that perhaps they didn't know what to do with the actress and she had to be inserted into the story and Vicky was right there, available, so they simply coupled them up. It was so stupid. The guy had started off eve-teasing her with his friends and she eloped with him!. I really think the entertainment industry needs to stop glorifying these interactions, like guy eve-teasing girl, as the first step towards love and happily ever-afters.

Post leap, she was what, I don't understand. Dev took care of Golu, went to PTA meetings in his school, the school called Dev when Golu got into trouble. What were Vicky-Elena doing? Elena was mostly home, if she wasn't on a photography assignment. But she wasn't shown to be that involved with Golu! Vicky was pretty much useless, so I won't bring him here, though he should be accountable too. But Elena? What a mess that her character became.


I really think her story would've been so well put if they showed her and Vicky falling in love and showed some good shades to Vicky that she might have actually fallen for, like Dev and Sona- starting off on the wrong foot, but finding love in each other. A character doesnt have to be good just because they're in love, CVs could have easily fleshed out that story while continuing their "Vicky isn't a good guy" rhetoric. The eve teasing clearly wasn't okay, but their love story made no sense. One day they're fighting, he's manhandling and misbehaving with her, and the next day they're in love. 🤦🏻‍♀️

As for Golu, the less we speak on that front the better. Golu and Dev's relationship was the cutest part of post leap season-1, so I'll be honest I'm not tooo mad at Elena being an uninvolved parent, but her whole character was so disoriented- what did she even do all day except get the same suit stitched in different colours?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I really think her story would've been so well put if they showed her and Vicky falling in love and showed some good shades to Vicky that she might have actually fallen for, like Dev and Sona- starting off on the wrong foot, but finding love in each other. A character doesnt have to be good just because they're in love, CVs could have easily fleshed out that story while continuing their "Vicky isn't a good guy" rhetoric. The eve teasing clearly wasn't okay, but their love story made no sense. One day they're fighting, he's manhandling and misbehaving with her, and the next day they're in love. 🤦🏻‍♀️

As for Golu, the less we speak on that front the better. Golu and Dev's relationship was the cutest part of post leap season-1, so I'll be honest I'm not tooo mad at Elena being an uninvolved parent, but her whole character was so disoriented- what did she even do all day except get the same suit stitched in different colours?


Bold 1: This. Really poor way of developing 'love'. I just skip all their scenes during rewatch.


Bold 2: Hahaha seriously, what were they thinking! Even Sona had the same kurta in multiple colors🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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In the beginning of this season they did show vicky's hypocrisy. When Elena was promoting nail paint vicky was like she should pay attention to golu instead but when he learned how much she would be earning for the paid promotion he started helping her for the greed of money. Other time when she bought something for herself with her own money he accused her of being self centred. This does happen in real life I've seen it myself but then they again ruined it with the stalker angle. Not well executed really. I loved the first season for it's simplicity and realism but that's missing from the show now.

Most shows adopt these kind of rubbish themes in hopes of increasing trp. To compete in the trp race and r mostly successful but this show is losing trp ratings instead

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: GoodVibes1010

Neha as a character had so much potential which the writers destroyed post Dev-Sona's marriage. And given the writing this season, I have no hopes of them showing anything decent involving her. When S1 started, Neha was one of my favourite characters. I loved her dynamic with both Dev & Ishwari. Dev was eternally over compensating (to the extent that he was willing to marry this random girl so that Neha's marriage happens), Ishwari loved Neha yet her Dev obsession always stopped her from actually getting through to her and Neha was bitter & threw tantrums because her struggles weren't being acknowledged. All this could have been dealt with well but the writers lost the plot after a while


Absolutely. Dev was constantly over-compensating, especially when it came to Neha. He would do anything, if it meant Neha would be happy for one second. Sona had called him out for it also, that he was giving in to her demands of a flat without giving consideration to Ranveer because he wants to lessen his own guilt. Dev had admitted, when it came to Neha, he would pretty much do anything, no bars.

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