Mithai মিঠাই Discussion Thread #3 “Aamar Bhindeshi Taara” - Page 81

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

For me it was a nice episode. I liked the Sid-Mit interaction today.

Mithai can never hate Sid. Neither can she be angry on him. Why will she be angry on him exactly? She explained today, She married becoz of dadai and her mom, similarly Sid married bcoz of dadai. How can she blame him? She cant be angry on Sid just becoz he doesnt beliv in marriage.

Sid has changed in past few months, have always respected her. Inspite of her being uneducated, he never actually shamed her. He actually stood by her in her problems. He fought with his father, his best friend, even questioned Som, compromised/jeopardized his career(somethng which he has nvr done for anybody). All of these was witnessed by Mit. She cant be angry with him.

At the same time, she can't stay in Manohara, because she doesnt have any reason to stay.

Sid is a confused soul. As I said earlier, he doesnt beliv in marriage, he believes in live-in relatioship. He said that also, what is the problem if u stay here. We have reached an understanding.

He is refusing to understand, that Mithai can have her dreams, dreams of being a wife etc etc. Mithai that told him clearly, that whatver u thnk can not always happen. Sid needs to thnk from other ppl's perspective also.

Regarding Mit touching Sid's feet, its very natural. Touching feet is to show respect. In our culture, we always touch feet of elders when we leave home. For Mithai, Sid is her husband, she s leaving permanently, so she just did her duty.

During Rudy track, Mit already mentioned, she will never re-marry.

PS- During marriage track, Sid refused Mit when she was about to touch his feet. He walked away. Today, in a way she completed that ritual.

****kitna bol diya****

I agree with all the points you made. I do not want mithai to be angry at sid. Last episode's round table drama when everyone was questioning his intentions was really too OTT for my liking. Sid has surely changed a lot. There is no doubt in that. And as mithai said to sree also, not believing in marriage is not a crime. That is his one and only flaw. Usko chodke, he has done everything right.

But what really got me angry was mithai crying abd howling to her mother and dadai when they asked her to leave. Why?? She agrees and understands there is no future to this marriage. Then why does she want to stay at monohora? With what right? She herself asks this to Sid later on.

About the pronam, I do not agree. You might be right, but it is not what I believe in. Not everything in our culture is right. I am against touching husband's feet just because he is a husband, even if he is a good one😆

Originally posted by: reshamc

I agree with all the points you made. I do not want mithai to be angry at sid. Last episode's round table drama when everyone was questioning his intentions was really too OTT for my liking. Sid has surely changed a lot. There is no doubt in that. And as mithai said to sree also, not believing in marriage is not a crime. That is his one and only flaw. Usko chodke, he has done everything right.

But what really got me angry was mithai crying abd howling to her mother and dadai when they asked her to leave. Why?? She agrees and understands there is no future to this marriage. Then why does she want to stay at monohora? With what right? She herself asks this to Sid later on.

About the pronam, I do not agree. You might be right, but it is not what I believe in. Not everything in our culture is right. I am against touching husband's feet just because he is a husband, even if he is a good one😆

@bold - That was defo an ITV OTT😆

I am not against ur POV abt pronaam yeh apna apna choice hai😆, but Mit is not Tess....Tess will never do pronaam, but Mit will do. We have to understand her upbringing.

Originally posted by: Iinvisible

Mithai sometimes na.. very immature. o ki chai sheta writter highlight korena, show is very progressive but mithai r kono growth neyi, always being bechari. very unfair and immature. we all know she feels happy jokhon shobai happy thake but her mother is ill aar oke dekhano hoy na concern everytime only monohora bari. the way she behave everytime like choto meh, i sometimes feel na sid jeta bole sheta thik kokhon oi point ta holo jekhane sid release korbe ki bhalo bashche? very time to force kora hoi oke. mithai single kono scenes neyi why? it's very disappointing. it's confusing maje maje feel hoy ki dekhchi!? Mithai kono growth dekhano hoina only sid like o kichu bojhena. I find myself questioning eta ki really love story ? The thing is eta reality show noy jekhane limitless feel korbo, it feels like torturing. I'm sorry if this sound like bashing but idk just very angry n frustrating. Eta onnai i know it's a story but phir bhi

Hi dear welcome to the thread ☺

I agree with you Mithai certainly has no character development.. Infact she lost herself, her identity, dignity, everything post marriage..

And I even wonder how come she fell in love with Sid just like that!!! I mean it would have made sense if it had happened gradually.. But it just happened all of a sudden.. One moment she was listening to Sid singing for her on someone's request n the next moment she fell in love 😳

Sid had a lot better character development.. I dunno what's with every writer's obsession with making the FL into a sacrificial mahan lady.. It's 2021 for God's sake, putting yourself first is not a crime..

This is why I've always loved n connected with Sree more than Mithai.. She has flaws but it only makes her character realistic..

And I think I cannot stop ranting tonight 😧

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

Hi dear welcome to the thread ☺

I agree with you Mithai certainly has no character development.. Infact she lost herself, her identity, dignity, everything post marriage..

And I even wonder how come she fell in love with Sid just like that!!! I mean it would have made sense if it had happened gradually.. But it just happened all of a sudden.. One moment she was listening to Sid singing for her on someone's request n the next moment she fell in love 😳

Sid had a lot better character development.. I dunno what's with every writer's obsession with making the FL into a sacrificial mahan lady.. It's 2021 for God's sake, putting yourself first is not a crime..

This is why I've always loved n connected with Sree more than Mithai.. She has flaws but it only makes her character realistic..

And I think I cannot stop ranting tonight 😧

Mithai has been kind of reduced to Manohara ka doormat...that I ranted yday already.....aur nahi kuch kehna.

The good thng about this whole track is Mithai is leaving.

Wait...she still did not board the "taksi" right??🤔

Originally posted by: reshamc

I agree with all the points you made. I do not want mithai to be angry at sid. Last episode's round table drama when everyone was questioning his intentions was really too OTT for my liking. Sid has surely changed a lot. There is no doubt in that. And as mithai said to sree also, not believing in marriage is not a crime. That is his one and only flaw. Usko chodke, he has done everything right.

But what really got me angry was mithai crying abd howling to her mother and dadai when they asked her to leave. Why?? She agrees and understands there is no future to this marriage. Then why does she want to stay at monohora? With what right? She herself asks this to Sid later on.

About the pronam, I do not agree. You might be right, but it is not what I believe in. Not everything in our culture is right. I am against touching husband's feet just because he is a husband, even if he is a good one😆

@bold: I completely resonate with this thought! A marriage is a relationship among equals. One where they live work and love each other shoulder to shoulder and not where the female is at the feet of the male, living at his mercy

@green: I completely agree with you and Soniya di on this. Is this the same girl who had no qualms about leaving when she did not feel comfortable/respected? Even a few days ago she controlled herself from swaying away with Sid's changing behaviour. The change today is plain absurd.

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Mithai has been kind of reduced to Manohara ka doormat...that I ranted yday already.....aur nahi kuch kehna.

The good thng about this whole track is Mithai is leaving.

Wait...she still did not board the "taksi" right??🤔

@Bold - Nope she didn't left the house.. She packed her bag n went downstairs..

Precap o upload hoyni ekhono 😞

Soumi's today's Insta Story - Again in car, but this time in Kolkata.. She's wearing the green saree that she wore in Sid's office during Chitoi Pithe tasting .. And it's raining so definitely this morning..

Ki je hoche 🙄

Serious post! 🥱

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Is Zee kaku smoking weed or even better, sipping on vodka?

The precaps of 17th and 18th have been released under the titles of Decemeber 17 and December 18 on Zee5! 🤡

Oh shoot! Something really serious is being discussed here..... 😳

My bad, sowwy! 😆

Originally posted by: Artemis7

Serious post! 🥱

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Is Zee kaku smoking weed or even better, sipping on vodka?

The precaps of 17th and 18th have been released under the titles of Decemeber 17 and December 18 on Zee5! 🤡

I saw yday🤣