Originally posted by: sweet_tania
Kya india ke villages mai bhi woman after divorce abusive sasural mai he rehti hai??! š²š² India mai kya sahi mai aisa hota hai that divorcee women ke ex in laws and abusive sasural mai rehne ke din aate hai!!!! ??
Muje dowry, balika vadhu , abort girl child issue yeh sab ka idea tha but divorce ke baad bhi abusive sasural mai pade rehna is absolutely new thing to see !! š²
Strong women usko bola jata hai jo emotionally mentally har tarah se strong ho ! Strong independent women kabhi bhi divorce ke baad abusive sasural mai wapas rehne nahi jayegi ! š²
Pata nahi india ke kon se kone mai aisi ku-pratha bhi chal rahi hai !š”š”
@bold did you even read my reply? Now I'll say it point wise so that you understand.
1) I said this Anupama living with her ex in laws is stupid af and doesn't happen anywhere. That was the single most idiotic thing they have shown in the show which is totally wrong.
2) What I agree with the makers on is how women are shamed at any age while even talking to a man. When men like Vanraj have an affair and even marry are accepted by their families. It's people like Baa and Toshu who claim to be a woman's family who hold her back and shame her like this.
3) In small towns and villages, women are actively discouraged to ask for divorce from abusive and cheating husbands. It's still incredibly stigmatized to get divorced in India so Anupama asking for a divorce was a big thing in the show BUT the makers completely ruined her character post divorce by making her a slave of the Shah's. She should go back to her old mother, doesn't she have any responsibility towards her own mother who loves her? Unlike Lila who is a selfish hag.
This is where the makers COMPLETELY wnet wrong. I hope entry of Anuj will take out the mahaanta from Anupama because she really needs to know what self-respect is. She's being shown as a total doormat.
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