Vanrsj, ,baa, thoshu are wrong? - Page 2

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Posted: 2 days ago


Thank you 😊. Are you a fan too?

Posted: 2 days ago

Yup real life mein bhi qyestiion hote hai. My mausi 's jaithani  become widow  and after she had affair with her devar  and then got married.  Witlh  devar 

Jethani ke  late husband se bache bhi hai but devar  ke  nahin they. To jub jaithani ji shaadi apne devar se hui to unke ghar  walon ko yeh baat pasand nahin aayi 

Aaj bhi agar kisi society wale muhalle mein jaao  to agar lady  kisi gents se baat bhi kare to us society ki muhalla ki Ladies khidki se taak jhaak karengi ki woh Ladies kis se baat kar rahi hai uske ghar ka kaun aa raha hai aur phir ek doosre, ke ghar jakar panchayat karegi 

My neighbouur  uski nazar hamaare ghar pe hi rehti hai ki mere ghar kaun aa raha hai

Posted: 2 days ago
Originally posted by surabhi01


Yup real life mein bhi qyestiion hote hai. My mausi 's jaithani  become widow  and after she had affair with her devar  and then got married.  Witlh  devar 

Jethani ke  late husband se bache bhi hai but devar  ke  nahin they. To jub jaithani ji shaadi apne devar se hui to unke ghar  walon ko yeh baat pasand nahin aayi 

Aaj bhi agar kisi society wale muhalle mein jaao  to agar lady  kisi gents se baat bhi kare to us society ki muhalla ki Ladies khidki se taak jhaak karengi ki woh Ladies kis se baat kar rahi hai uske ghar ka kaun aa raha hai aur phir ek doosre, ke ghar jakar panchayat karegi 

My neighbouur  uski nazar hamaare ghar pe hi rehti hai ki mere ghar kaun aa raha hai


Good job by widow 😀


Accha hua widow ne love marriage kar liya otherwise anupama ke jaise sab usko doormat bana kar ghar mai rakhte smiley36Ab family chahe kitna bhi hungama kare, widow is no more widow smiley36

Posted: 2 days ago

Mere yahan kaam wali bai woh bhi widow hui thi uske bhi 10 , 11 year  ke bachche they aur us kaam wali bai ne bhi khuch year baad  devar se shaadi ki

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Posted: 2 days ago

Originally posted by Reddyroopa


I know it is weird to think like this, because it is TV serisl we feel bad for Anupama. 

Do we question our self if any of our parents in place of Anu , do we accept? How many of us will accept? 
We are living in society where mard can marry or can have affair but not for women.

Really hats off to writers who is showing real face of society.

Hope this bring some good changes in society.

@bold of course I will accept because I understand they are human beings before being my parents.  If a situation like this arises I would support them.

The society is callous and sexist. Marrying at such an age carries stigma but it's considered a total sin if it's a woman. 

Toshu and Baa represents all hypocrites in society who claims to be a woman's family but are actually want to restrain her. I sometimes wonder what is a girl like Kinjal doing with this dumbfuuck Toshu. Baa is a selfish hag for real.

Vanraj cheated on her out in the open but these two claim to be loving or at least caring but actually hate it if Anu is happy. 

Posted: 2 days ago
Originally posted by surabhi01


Mere yahan kaam wali bai woh bhi widow hui thi uske bhi 10 , 11 ke bachche they aur us kaam wali bai ne bhi khuch year baad  devar se shaadi ki


Meri mother in law ki close friend hai , she was 46 , her husband died due to cardiac arrest suddenly in the early morning some years back. She has 1 son and 1 daughter both are 18+ . 


Seeing her widow daughter in law with 2 teenage  children at the age of 46, her mother in law asked her to get married for the second time because they are old and what will happen to widow after their death? My mother in law’s friend was not ready for the second marriage.


It was her destiny that her jeth who is now 52 years old is also widow from last 15 years so they asked her that if you do not want to go in other new family, they can ask her jeth with proposal. At last both widows got married and my mother in laws fried was 49 years old at that time .

Now children got a father , both widows got companion in their 50s and in laws are tension free about what will happen to their widow daughter in law and grand children. 

We are extremely happy for her and just few days back I talked with the aunty. 

Posted: 2 days ago
Originally posted by sweet_tania


Thank god real face of society atleast mere around aisa bilkul bhi nahi hai jaise iss show ke backward/orthodox writers project kar rahe hai! 

Humare Yaha strong independent woman emotionally bhi bahot strong hoti hai and ugly divorce, cheating, adultery itna sab kuch apni shaddi mai dekhne ke baad after divorce ex-in laws ke ghar mai padi nahi rehti hai kisi property ke chote se kone mai ! smiley11

The nayi soch which this show is showing is disgusting to core and heavily orthodox, I wish and pray kabhi bhi koi bhi aurat itni bebas , lachar and emotionally kamzor na ho that she has to stay with toxic ex in laws even after divorce ! smiley11

Thank god I have never seen any strong independent women around me who is staying with ex in laws toxic family after divorce the way anupama is living like maalik ki wafadar naukar!smiley6


I am not at all interested in anupama’s kids , Kavya or vanraj because they are just props. It’s all about nayi soch which is showing that after divorce, women’s new journey can only start from toxic in laws place all over again in place of new beginnings with either solo journey or journey from mother’s house ! 


Well good for you and lucky you that you are in such a progressive environment. But mind you, majority of India isn't. 

Makers have messed up with a lot of tracks, specially Anu living with ex in laws. But this track of her so called own family shaming her because of being friends with Anuj is SO accurate.

In small towns let alone villages, I can guarantee you majority of women will face this. You can't just blame makers for showing the truth, this is what the actual society thinks.

In fact, even if it's a little girl, a young woman or an old woman, if she is seen talking to a male, instead assumptions are made about her. For the society, a woman at all stages of her life has to belong to someone. She isn't considered a person but a belonging for them.

And this IS the truth with majority of the women in this country. And Anu isn't lachar I guess, she's just too emotionally dumb. A true lachar woman wouldn't be able to ask for divorce and stand up for herself. I have seen personal cases where the woman being beaten up or being cheated on, stays back with the man. This is the ugly reality.

I hate that Anupama stays with the Shah's she needs to move out tho and start her own life otherwise she will be dictated by hypocrites like Baa and Vanraj. What to say about Toshu, her children are the most useless beings on the planet.


Anupamaa 


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