Originally posted by: 404_NotFoundFew things here
1. If Sai was so guilty of faking death and arrest then she wouldn’t wait till Kaku and her gang was brought to the college . She would have stopped itimmediately . She was happy that she was finally able to make them do as per her wish and later she apologized after the function . So Sai feeling guilty doesn’t apply here .
2. Let’s assume everyone on this earth made bigger mistake than Sai but will this change the fact that she faked death , blackmailed people and got fake police . In the eyes of law it won’t matter if whole world committed bigger crime than her . It’s not like court will compare ok X made bigger mistake so let’s forgive Sai .
3. If we are talking about law then there is nothing wrong in listing down all the people who deserved to be punished in the show . Why don’t we judge all the characters with same lens .
4. It’s not just fake arrest . Sai has stopped Kaku and gang from having tea in the living room . It’s funny scene but let’s reverse this . If Kaku had done this then it would be abuse to stop DIL from having her tea in living room but other way around is funny . I would still accept if it said that Kaku verbally abuses Sai so Sai stopped Kaku too so nothing wrong but saying she didn’t do any wrong is unacceptable.
5. Yes Kaku and her gang deserves to go to jail for mistreating Devyani but will this chage the fact that Sai is punishable under the law for taking away Devi without legal guardian permission and stopping her medicines without consulting the doctor ? Devi’s life could have been in danger for stopping the medicines without even consulting the doc . Is Pulkit and Sai qualified enough to treat mentally unstable people ? If Virat as an IPS officer can be criticized then why wrong in saying Sai is being an irresponsible medical student .
Virat locking Sai is wrong period but Sai faking death and arrest is wrong as well just because her intention was to just bring them to watch her dance doesn’t change anything . If intentions are used to justify Sai’s misdeeds then I would like to do the same for other characters as well
Lastly , bringing up other abuses shown in the show is not to justify anyone’s wrong doings but to highlight that every character has to be treated equally .
This !
Completely agree with what you said. It always baffles me how this forum always treats Sai , a character as flawed as possible, as if she's some flawless paragon of virtue, which she most definitely is not. Whatever she does wrong, there are literally thousand babying excuses , bachhi hai, teenager hai, immature hai , orphan hai family nehi hai, palace nehi hai.. yada yada.. so she can have a snooty attitude, accepted. She can interfere in other people's personal matters. Accepted. She can be brazen and rude at the drop of a hat. Accepted. She can have an opinion about everything in the family, though when it comes to responsiblity and family rules , then she's an outsider who need not conform to it.
Whereas Virat and Pakhi are never given such leeway, especially Virat. All the readymade pampering and excuses are for Sai only, nothing to be spared for Virat , he is not even a human being but a monster.
If she interferes in his work affairs and make him a butt of joke in front of his superior officer, oh it's perfectly alright after all she's a noble heart and noble intention. And if Virat locks her in their bedroom for 10 minutes, suddenly it's a serious case of domestic violence. People whonsay these things and casually throw around words like domestic violence do they even know it's meaning ?? What it looks like , domestic violence??
To say nothing of her other antics.
All characters of Ghum are flawed , they're humane , that's partly why this show is so popular. It's refreshing to see a "vamp" so pitifully human , a female lead so brashly flawed , a male lead who's often vulnerable and gloriously flawed.
Provided we have the generosity to look at characters with unbiased view.
But.. sigh !
Such utter hypocrisy of treatment towards different characters make me sick to my stomach.
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