Disturbing behaviour - Page 5

Sai would have accepted the gift if Samrat-pp had given it together, she'd accepted it if she sensed that it was coming from an honest place and not from one of dhong. Why should she be nice to a woman who has time n again put her down. When Sai requested pp to come for her birthday party- did Pp agree? When Sai took a gift for pp's parents- did they accept it courteously? When pp created a big scene in front of the whole family over something Sai apologized for despite no fault of hers, was she being respectful. When pp has over n over put Sai down, how can anyone expect Sai to quietly accept the gift without retorting. Sai is not going to be quiet when pp's intentions are obvious. Sai said that "neeyat" matters. Sai has gone overvoard many a time but as Sai said- anything she has done is with saaf neeyat. Nothing pp has done is with saaf neeyat. Nothing. She is downright evil, two faced, pathetic.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yeah sai started off being rude with pakhi in beginning after she overheard virat asking pakhi to be a guide etc for sai. Sai didn't seem to like this for some reason. I couldn't decide whether it was jealousy or just dislike at how virat was involving pakhi in her matters then the next issue sai spoke against pakhi for was her constant habit of coming into sairat room without knocking to talk between their matters and arguments.

Early day sai was even more call-a-spade-a-spade and speaking her mind without mincing words compared to now but today that old sai returned who will say things the way she is feeling ang thinking.

Virat said that basically like schooling Sai especially from his ex. And not just Sai, nobody likes being considered as immature by others that someone else have to teach them how to behave. Nobody likes such things. I won't blame Sai if that was the starting trigger for her.

Virat does consider Pakhi as this very very mature, responsible woman. Very annoying.

Sai always spoke her mind. But the situation was like that today that she had to become her true self in the truest sense.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

He's just being a hypocrite as he's in his own sorrow of Sai's rejection. He took his rejection so into heart that whatever she does he feels she's being unfair. That's why her refusal to take the present pissed him so much, I guess. Its like she refuses and rejects everything and everyone.

His anger and bitterness is blinding him bad.

Same issues. Why can't he for once be rude with Pakhi? Why the sweet talk with her? Did she do any less when she intentionally sent Ajinkya to Sai's room.... Or when she said in clear-cut words that she's been staying in that house only for him all this while.. or when she suggested them of divorcing their spouses, so that to get together... Her intentions have been clearly dirty and he knows that more than anyone. Still he's being respectful with her and doesn't tell her off for entering their room anytime, but shows hatred like anything towards Sai just coz she refuses to accept this marriage? it's so damn annoyingly unfair of him.

Yeah virat has a strange and unfair double standard behaviour towards sai and pakhi. If this is how virat chooses to treat a girl he claims he loves then a girl is better off being his bhabhi or best friend who he respects and treats so well despite claiming he has no feelings for her anymore. 🤢

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yeah virat has a strange and unfair double standard behaviour towards sai and pakhi. If this is how virat chooses to treat a girl he claims he loves then a girl is better off being his bhabhi or best friend who he respects and treats so well despite claiming he has no feelings for her anymore. 🤢

I agree too. He should be more considerate with Sai, if he really loves her despite the rejection. You can't hate someone just coz they refuse to love you back or the way you think you do. He is really being insensitive and immature and unfair at the moment.

Originally posted by: itsTrueDeal

I saw the episode and i must say i have different opinion after watching then i had reading the comments. (Comments on this forum depicted like Sai was victim...which i didnt feel at all)

Sai was equally at fault today. She doesnt respect Virat and always taunts him infront of family and Paakhi so in a way she is getting taste of her own medicine now.. how many times Shivani,Sunny.....Virat told her then why Sai can't believe that there is nothing between Virat and PP....if Sai is so good and kind hearted then why she doesnt show that kind heart to PP..... even if she feels PP is acting then i think Sai has no right to question PP. Sai is not mother of the house...... she could have actually just accepted the gift and moved on... which she didnt. It felt like Sai has no manners.....

Though i must say Virat should have behaved better ...not acceptable for him to actually collude with PP.... but i think its because he is upset with the DIG kaand. Sai crossed the line there.

Sai does behave too childish and immature, why she thinks she has to solve everyone's problems.....she believes Samrat is good and best person...then why she never felt same about Virat. Sai behaving like a mother trying to teach goodness to everyone is OTT sometimes..

I agree... Many times Sai is very rude and talks unnecessary things with everyone in the house .. but ITV mein FL have all rights to make every wrong right 🤣🤣🤣

Today for sure Sai should simply have kept quiet... Apni izzat apne haath mein hoti hai .. agar muh band rakhti to apni dignity bhi nahi khoti aur Virat uski insult bhi nahi karta as usual apne love interest Pakhi ke samne ...

... vaise sau baat ki ek baat ye hain ki Iss show mein koi kissi ki izzat nahi karta😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Nja91

Sai would have accepted the gift if Samrat-pp had given it together, she'd accepted it if she sensed that it was coming from an honest place and not from one of dhong. Why should she be nice to a woman who has time n again put her down. When Sai requested pp to come for her birthday party- did Pp agree? When Sai took a gift for pp's parents- did they accept it courteously? When pp created a big scene in front of the whole family over something Sai apologized for despite no fault of hers, was she being respectful. When pp has over n over put Sai down, how can anyone expect Sai to quietly accept the gift without retorting. Sai is not going to be quiet when pp's intentions are obvious. Sai said that "neeyat" matters. Sai has gone overvoard many a time but as Sai said- anything she has done is with saaf neeyat. Nothing pp has done is with saaf neeyat. Nothing. She is downright evil, two faced, pathetic.

Brilliant points made 👏So many times pakhi has attacked sai for no reason accusing sai's intentions over everything including the avoidable tamasha she did for her parent's anniversary party to put sai down?

Some say sai should use tactic to deal with pakhi to avoid arguments with her, but that won't work when we have seen numerous times that even if sai is not saying anything to pakhi, minding her own business etc, pakhi no matter what wiggles her way into sai's matters to insult and taunt her and nobody stops her but if sai tries to say anything to pakhi then sai is attacked so how will tactic work to avoid bring insulted by pakhi or getting into an argument with her when irrespective of whether sai talks to pakhi or not, pakhi still attacks sai? And when pakhi is given free reign to insult sai and interfere in her matters by virat and family elders, the using tactic by even avoiding talking to pakhi won't work for sai.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Virat said that basically like schooling Sai especially from his ex. And not just Sai, nobody likes being considered as immature by others that someone else have to teach them how to behave. Nobody likes such things. I won't blame Sai if that was the starting trigger for her.

Virat does consider Pakhi as this very very mature, responsible woman. Very annoying.

Sai always spoke her mind. But the situation was like that today that she had to become her true self in the truest sense.

Oh yeah, by that time sai had realised pakhi was the girl virat was referring to when he said he already loves someone else before sairat marriage, so when she overheard virat asking pakhi to be like a mentor for sai she got miffed at the idea of virat involving his lover in her life. At that time virat was trying to force a friendship between sai and pakhi which although was with good intentions by virat, it was unnecessary and kind of distasteful that he's trying to force sai to accept pakhi's interference in her life just because of his relationship with pakhi. Nobody would like such a scenario.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Yeah sai started off being rude with pakhi in beginning after she overheard virat asking pakhi to be a guide etc for sai. Sai didn't seem to like this for some reason. I couldn't decide whether it was jealousy or just dislike at how virat was involving pakhi in her matters then the next issue sai spoke against pakhi for was her constant habit of coming into sairat room without knocking to talk between their matters and arguments.

Early day sai was even more call-a-spade-a-spade and speaking her mind without mincing words compared to now but today that old sai returned who will say things the way she is feeling and thinking.

Sai was made to feel like a bhoj and the villagers passed on her responsibility to Virat. Virat did the same, he passed on Sai’s responsibility to Pakhi saying Pakhi is a matured person. Not only that, he didn’t even think that Sai was capable to get dressed for the rituals that he sent Pakhi to help her. Had an elder tried to help or Pakhi herself tried to help, it would have been different. Also, I thought it was Pakhi who spoke ill about Sai on the night of reception when she saw the lipstick mark on Virat’s kurta. Sai had asked Pakhi to leave since she was growing mad on Virat looking at the lipstick mark. Pakhi said that she won’t tolerate her badtameezi and when Virat tried to support Sai, Pakhi said Sai that is not a child. She said something like Sai has learnt things and come, accused Sai saying she was making a fool of everyone by acting innocent when in reality she isn’t. Before Pakhi grew mad at Virat, Sai had even asked Pakhi to come inside the room.

This is exactly when things turned bitter because Pakhi accused Sai as someone who Virat was not able to see.

And later every time Pakhi used to barged into their room and even asked if Sai was having issues with him meeting her or her coming to their room. She kept attacking Sai when it should have been Virat who should be dealing with Sai about it.

This is what I remember and since you guys were discussing about it, thought will share it.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Virat said that basically like schooling Sai especially from his ex. And not just Sai, nobody likes being considered as immature by others that someone else have to teach them how to behave. Nobody likes such things. I won't blame Sai if that was the starting trigger for her.

Virat does consider Pakhi as this very very mature, responsible woman. Very annoying.

Sai always spoke her mind. But the situation was like that today that she had to become her true self in the truest sense.

@bold Yeah. Exactly. That was her issue. As long as people don’t poke their nose in her matters, she is fine. I blame Virat for this situation to have even got worse. He didn’t think how Sai must be feeling. Would he be okay if someone did it to him? He looked hurt when Sai said today that Samrat is a nice guy. That’s because she doesn’t understand him but thinks good of everyone else. Is that not true for Sai? He always thinks high of Pakhi but calls Sai immatured and badtameez.

I don’t even know if Virat would ever realise these.

Originally posted by: laksh

Sai was made to feel like a bhoj and the villagers passed on her responsibility to Virat. Virat did the same, he passed on Sai’s responsibility to Pakhi saying Pakhi is a matured person. Not only that, he didn’t even think that Sai was capable to get dressed for the rituals that he sent Pakhi to help her. Had an elder tried to help or Pakhi herself tried to help, it would have been different. Also, I thought it was Pakhi who spoke ill about Sai on the night of reception when she saw the lipstick mark on Virat’s kurta. Sai had asked Pakhi to leave since she was growing mad on Virat looking at the lipstick mark. Pakhi said that she won’t tolerate her badtameezi and when Virat tried to support Sai, Pakhi said Sai that is not a child. She said something like Sai has learnt things and come, accused Sai saying she was making a fool of everyone by acting innocent when in reality she isn’t. Before Pakhi grew mad at Virat, Sai had even asked Pakhi to come inside the room.

This is exactly when things turned bitter because Pakhi accused Sai as someone who Virat was not able to see.

And later every time Pakhi used to barged into their room and even asked if Sai was having issues with him meeting her or her coming to their room. She kept attacking Sai when it should have been Virat who should be dealing with Sai about it.

This is what I remember and since you guys were discussing about it, thought will share it.

@ bold: in the interim, she had stopped. Now she has got free pass again as she can use Samrat as a shield.