Disturbing behaviour - Page 4

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Since my post was quoted I am giving an explanation otherwise I wouldn’t because I know how much we appreciate different perceptive here .

I feel the whole situation could have been handled in a better way . As audiences we know what made Sai jump her guns on Pakhi as she had observed something but does Virat know what made Sai refuse the gift suddenly ? For him the gift was from Samrat and Pakhi . We know Samrat matters to him a lot . If we keep our likes and dislikes for character aside then if someone starts the conversation rudely without giving any reasons as to why they are behaving so then we blame the person who is being rude for no reason . That’s how Virat saw . He saw Samrakhi were giving gift to Sai like they did for the entire family but Sai rudely refused without a proper reason . He felt Sai was unnecessarily creating drama . I can’t blame Virat for feeling so . Due to suppressed anger because of his transfer issue he indirectly taunted Sai . Sai could have responded to the taunt but she included Virat in Pakhi’s misdeed and called him double face . She blamed Virat for Pakhi’s fake move on drama. Virat had no role in that and double faced made no sense here . If she had called him out for taunting her then I wouldn’t have said she started the fight .

I would like to highlight that I also said Virat shouldn’t have shown his suppressed anger infront of Pakhi. His anger was justified IMO but not infront of Pakhi similarly Sai has rights to refuse but calling Virat as double faced could have been avoided . It diverted the whole fight into something else .

I don’t think I need to say why Pakhi was wrong here

How many times u had been reminded that if u have to participate in this forum u have to sing praises for sai & bash virat & pakhi .

U don't know world all eligible bachelor's r dying to marry sai .

## mera time aa gaya popular hone ka😎🥳

I saw the episode and i must say i have different opinion after watching then i had reading the comments. (Comments on this forum depicted like Sai was victim...which i didnt feel at all)

Sai was equally at fault today. She doesnt respect Virat and always taunts him infront of family and Paakhi so in a way she is getting taste of her own medicine now.. how many times Shivani,Sunny.....Virat told her then why Sai can't believe that there is nothing between Virat and PP....if Sai is so good and kind hearted then why she doesnt show that kind heart to PP..... even if she feels PP is acting then i think Sai has no right to question PP. Sai is not mother of the house...... she could have actually just accepted the gift and moved on... which she didnt. It felt like Sai has no manners.....

Though i must say Virat should have behaved better ...not acceptable for him to actually collude with PP.... but i think its because he is upset with the DIG kaand. Sai crossed the line there.

Sai does behave too childish and immature, why she thinks she has to solve everyone's problems.....she believes Samrat is good and best person...then why she never felt same about Virat. Sai behaving like a mother trying to teach goodness to everyone is OTT sometimes..

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat has zero respect for Sai.

What is even the point of such a relationship?

that's what I wonder always 😊

Virat does respect pp always even if she is doing those acts openly .... he ignores / covers up. To me - virat is stuck with pp in his mind..... never stops her.... never calls her bhabhi... never lose a chance to team up with her.. against sai or anyone else...

He wants pp in his life.... and sai as social cover.... he never loved sai...

If he did - he must have stopped pp and asked her... do not walk in my room without knocking ... and it is our matter please stay out of it.... once she is out.... he can fight with sai if he wants...

after all of these... the mahan IPS wants his wife to understand he loves her without telling him... he proves his affection for his vahini every other day to wife😡... and still wish wife should understand his love??????😈

Originally posted by: itsTrueDeal

I saw the episode and i must say i have different opinion after watching then i had reading the comments. (Comments on this forum depicted like Sai was victim...which i didnt feel at all)

Sai was equally at fault today. She doesnt respect Virat and always taunts him infront of family and Paakhi so in a way she is getting taste of her own medicine now.. how many times Shivani,Sunny.....Virat told her then why Sai can't believe that there is nothing between Virat and PP....if Sai is so good and kind hearted then why she doesnt show that kind heart to PP..... even if she feels PP is acting then i think Sai has no right to question PP. Sai is not mother of the house...... she could have actually just accepted the gift and moved on... which she didnt. It felt like Sai has no manners.....

Though i must say Virat should have behaved better ...not acceptable for him to actually collude with PP.... but i think its because he is upset with the DIG kaand. Sai crossed the line there.

Sai does behave too childish and immature, why she thinks she has to solve everyone's problems.....she believes Samrat is good and best person...then why she never felt same about Virat. Sai behaving like a mother trying to teach goodness to everyone is OTT sometimes..

Bold @ I agree with the bold part completely. Virat did clarify many times that there's nothing between him and Pakhi. But Sai is just too stuck with the assumption that he loves Pakhi. Pakhi and Virat's past has affected her so bad and has left a scar that she is adamant of believing that there's nothing going on between the two.

Underlined@ This also is true. Pakhi didn't start being rude to Sai from the first time they met. Right after SaiRat wedding, as far as I remember, she was trying to be as casual as possible with Sai, without any grudges. But the way Sai talks outright rude from the first day, she started disliking her. Sai always had this imprinted in her heart that her husband be it deal or no deal, loves this woman. And she just can't seem to digest that fact and it comes across in form of rudeness.

Today my biggest complaint with Virat was he was siding with Pakhi, ganging up against Sai. Confronting Sai about the transfer in front of Pakhi, which could have been avoided. Not saying Sai was entirely innocent in this situation. She could have handled the situation better too, just like Virat could have.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Disappointed with Virat as hell today. Though it was expected through the premonition of KD experts, I really can't digest such insensitivity from Virat especially when it's expressed in front of Pakhi. He was right to question Sai about the transfer, but why the heck in front of his ex? Couldn't he wait until she left the room?

And him saying those mean things about Sai, for not accepting the gift, it was just too insensitive and mean. Unable to even think of shipping the two together anymore. Very very disturbing it was.

Why does virat even give a damn if sai accepts pakhi's gift or not? He knows pakhi's intentions and feelings towards him, sees how for that very same reason she looks for ways to demean and insult sai, she constantly tries to get close to him, but what does he do? He still talks with her with respect that he doesn't even give his own wife, encourages her and even supports her in insulting his wife and continues to let her enter his room whenever she wants and do whatever she wants without even bothering to question her actions or behaviour. I see more respect and care for pakhi from him than the so-called love he claims to have for sai 🤢

Originally posted by: monsi08

Ye Angsty love story se forceful love story zyada lagti hai 🙄 is this even love that we are seeing here... Pakhi ka love obsession hai.. lekin SaiRat love is not even close to love... !!!

Everything is faulty here...

1) Virat after everything still sides with Pakhi... Is he really a TALENTED IPS officer as he claims to be ... Because I can only laugh at the way he cant tell bluff of Pakhi a bluff 😂😝

As an outsider, my judgement as of now is that he still loves Pakhi but just because she is his brother's wife, he is assuming that he loves Sai now .. Sai is his rebound and only a duty under social pressure!!

2) Sai is so much at fault here too .. I think she has fought enough with Pakhi. This open battle of words isn't helping is what she needs to understand. She should have given a silent treatment since the day Virat cleverly lied to the whole family about his meeting with Pakhi in the Cafe. If she really wants to show that it doesn't Fark her , she should just keep her mouth shut. Sometimes silence is the best weapon.

Virat is a happy man that 2 women are fighting over him ... His male ego is blowing up to no limits 🤣

3) as of now Samrat is thinking smartly but being a ITV male, uski ye smartness bahut jaldi makers chheen lenge 😂😂

Virat neither deserves Pakhi nor Sai... he is a selfish man who lives in his happy bubble.. at a given point in time whichever woman doesn't agree with him , he sides with the one to berate and insult the other one.😝😝😝

@ bold - agree!

I mentioned it tens times in forum from day 1 of sai-rat marrige...that virat loves (at least he thinks he does ) pp and wants/wanted sai to act his wife as social cover.... with wify rights imposing and taking away as he pleases!!!!

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Originally posted by: sammy17

Why does virat even give a damn if sai accepts pakhi's gift or not? He knows pakhi's intentions and feelings towards him, sees how for that very same reason she looks for ways to demean and insult sai, she constantly tries to get close to him, but what does he do? He still talks with her with respect that he doesn't even give his own wife, encourages her and even supports her in insulting his wife and continues to let her enter his room whenever she wants and do whatever she wants without even bothering to question her actions or behaviour. I see more respect and care for pakhi from him than the so-called love he claims to have for sai 🤢

He's just being a hypocrite as he's in his own sorrow of Sai's rejection. He took his rejection so into heart that whatever she does he feels she's being unfair. That's why her refusal to take the present pissed him so much, I guess. Its like she refuses and rejects everything and everyone.

His anger and bitterness is blinding him bad.

Same issues. Why can't he for once be rude with Pakhi? Why the sweet talk with her? Did she do any less when she intentionally sent Ajinkya to Sai's room.... Or when she said in clear-cut words that she's been staying in that house only for him all this while.. or when she suggested them of divorcing their spouses, so that to get together... Her intentions have been clearly dirty and he knows that more than anyone. Still he's being respectful with her and doesn't tell her off for entering their room anytime, but shows hatred like anything towards Sai just coz she refuses to accept this marriage? it's so damn annoyingly unfair of him.

Nothing about virat's behaviour today screamed he has no feelings for pakhi or loves sai. The way he allows pakhi to insult sai and keeps quiet but rebukes sai if she tries to say anything to pakhi, and the way he even supports pakhi and often joined her like today in insulting sai gives the impression of favouring pakhi, giving her far more respect than sai and showing protectiveness towards pakhi by insulting sai for pakhi and getting worked up about sai not accepting a gift by pakhi. His behaviour to sai often shows how he puts pakhi above her.

Also virat joining pakhi nowadays in taunting and insulting sai just appears malicious out of ego due to her rejection. He said to sai she will see a new side of him just because he is mad about her rejection on anniversary, yet I thought that new side would be indifference, not outright insulting sai in front of pakhi and even joining her efforts to taunt and insult sai.

Sai toh is fed up of pakhi's fakeness and sick of her knowing her intentions so she's lashing out at pakhi because sai has always been the one to say what's on her mind without mincing words, but what is virat's excuse for his behaviour with sai? Rejection?

What's his justification for ignoring pakhi's obvious venom and knack of trying to insult and taunt sai or interfere in his and sai matters but also encourage and support pakhi's behaviour towards sai and interference in both of their life?

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Bold @ I agree with the bold part completely. Virat did clarify many times that there's nothing between him and Pakhi. But Sai is just too stuck with the assumption that he loves Pakhi. Pakhi and Virat's past has affected her so bad and has left a scar that she is adamant of believing that there's nothing going on between the two.

Underlined@ This also is true. Pakhi didn't start being rude to Sai from the first time they met. Right after SaiRat wedding, as far as I remember, she was trying to be as casual as possible with Sai, without any grudges. But the way Sai talks outright rude from the first day, she started disliking her. Sai always had this imprinted in her heart that her husband be it deal or no deal, loves this woman. And she just can't seem to digest that fact and it comes across in form of rudeness.

Today my biggest complaint with Virat was he was siding with Pakhi, ganging up against Sai. Confronting Sai about the transfer in front of Pakhi, which could have been avoided. Not saying Sai was entirely innocent in this situation. She could have handled the situation better too, just like Virat could have.

Yeah sai started off being rude with pakhi in beginning after she overheard virat asking pakhi to be a guide etc for sai. Sai didn't seem to like this for some reason. I couldn't decide whether it was jealousy or just dislike at how virat was involving pakhi in her matters then the next issue sai spoke against pakhi for was her constant habit of coming into sairat room without knocking to talk between their matters and arguments.

Early day sai was even more call-a-spade-a-spade and speaking her mind without mincing words compared to now but today that old sai returned who will say things the way she is feeling and thinking.