Effeminate and Tomboys. - Page 13

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Skincare takes so much work, consistency and patience. My skincare game is washing my face and hoping for the best. I’m just way too lazy and can’t stick to daily skincare routines. I occasionally have moments of ageing panic and start to watch random youtube tutorials in the middle of the night. But by the next day, I’ll forget about my past worries and continue as I am. I know this is going to bite me in the ass soon. I know girls younger than me who have already started taking care of their skin 😐

It depends on the ethnicity and where you live too.

Since you are an Afghan, I’m assuming you will have a natural better skin plus you live in a country with little pollution 😆

Sadly we also spend a lot of time infront of screens while working and then our phones - the light is bound to reflect our skin too.

India is hot, there’s a lot of pollution.. so we need to take care more.

I was much regular in my early teens than I’m now.

These days I’m just worried about my hair though. I had dyed my hair red and did kerasmoothning last year.. I have had a bit of hair fall. Trying to get my hair back to normal.. I just chopped of half my hair recently. 😆

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

It depends on the ethnicity and where you live too.

Since you are an Afghan, I’m assuming you will have a natural better skin plus you live in a country with little pollution 😆

Sadly we also spend a lot of time infront of screens while working and then our phones - the light is bound to reflect our skin too.

India is hot, there’s a lot of pollution.. so we need to take care more.

I was much regular in my early teens than I’m now.

These days I’m just worried about my hair though. I had dyed my hair red and did kerasmoothning last year.. I have had a bit of hair fall. Trying to get my hair back to normal.. I just chopped of half my hair recently. 😆

I can’t really say for sure if people from the same ethnicity as mine have good skin. I’d assume your diet and genetics may also play a factor on how quick your skin ages. I have a very shit diet lol.

But yeah you’re right in regards to the pollution and heat. I reckon if we lived in a cold country like Russia, our skin would be in its best condition.

Oh I heard Kera Smoothening is bad for your hair. Only thing I’ve never done is dye my hair. My younger sister went lighter and had her hair bleached. It looked nice during the first few days but now looks like a rats nest. She’s chopped off her hair and it still looks horrifying. Don’t ever ever bleach your hair.

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Actually homosexuality and trans etc are not abhorred in Hinduism if we read puraana etc. Its one of the most ancient religions after all. I think people of the Indian subcontinent were quite broad minded at the time.

I think that may be true for other ancient civilisations as well. Sexuality was open at the time.

Of course homosexual and transgender people existed from the beginning. They are not a production of modern society. So there would obviously a community who accepted them in a million years.

But I don't buy that widely it wasn't a taboo. In fact it's still a taboo.

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I can’t really say for sure if people from the same ethnicity as mine have good skin. I’d assume your diet and genetics may also play a factor on how quick your skin ages. I have a very shit diet lol.

But yeah you’re right in regards to the pollution and heat. I reckon if we lived in a cold country like Russia, our skin would be in its best condition.

Oh I heard Kera Smoothening is bad for your hair. Only thing I’ve never done is dye my hair. My younger sister went lighter and had her hair bleached. It looked nice during the first few days but now looks like a rats nest. She’s chopped off her hair and it still looks horrifying. Don’t ever ever bleach your hair.

Oh no, didn’t get it bleached.. they mixed blonder or whatever it’s called but my hair quality is alright now.. though hairfall is there. I’m working on it.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Homosexuality existed for millions of years, genius. And it was accepted in many societies, including ancient Indian society.

Effeminacy also existed for millions for years. Straight women liking effeminate men also existed for millions of years.

@bold, give proof!

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Skincare takes so much work, consistency and patience. My skincare game is washing my face and hoping for the best. I’m just way too lazy and can’t stick to daily skincare routines. I occasionally have moments of ageing panic and start to watch random youtube tutorials in the middle of the night. But by the next day, I’ll forget about my past worries and continue as I am. I know this is going to bite me in the ass soon. I know girls younger than me who have already started taking care of their skin 😐

Stay the same FF 👍🏻

Originally posted by: MujheMaarjaneDo

Works for me?😆

Bdsk yeh milgayi toh nanga nachega tu, bol toh aise raha hain jaise Hande Ercel, Nancy Momoland aur Yael Shelbia(naming three girls whose fan pages are spamming my insta feed) tera number lene k liye line mai Lage ho😆

Yael Shelbia - hard pass ! 🙂

Hancel Ercel and Nancy Momoland - I will consider them if you insist . 🙂

Originally posted by: --Pro.vo.King--

Yael Shelbia - hard pass ! 🙂

Hancel Ercel and Nancy Momoland - I will consider them if you insist . 🙂

I almost had a heart attack googling Yael and remembering your hard pass comment. At first glance she looks striking (especially her eyes) but browsed through her photos and meh.

Hande Ercel is perfect.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

And what are those certain desirable traits and what makes you think offsprings of effeminate men don't have a chance at surviving? Come one, spew the rubbish which is in your mind.

This is just load of bullshit but it's not new. People try to justify anything nowadays in the name of "Science". How the fuck do you know how evolution would shape up in future?

Laugh all you want but social conditioning is a real thing. We don't live in a vacuum. How we think and perceive things always depends on how and where we grew up. Effeminate guys and tomboys break gender stereotypes and that's why they have a hard time finding partners.

Well if effeminate traits were so attractive to women, effeminate men would have the sexual advantage , and you wouldn't have made this thread throwing your lil temper tantrum. But they don't, so cope.

Why is "social conditioning" the way it is, a society is made up of men and women, differences between them in part have a biological basis, these differences manifests itself in numerous ways later in life. I mean if it was truly random, we should have cultures where effeminate men are desirable to women, and masculine traits are undesirable, show me one culture where this is the case.

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I can’t really say for sure if people from the same ethnicity as mine have good skin. I’d assume your diet and genetics may also play a factor on how quick your skin ages. I have a very shit diet lol.

But yeah you’re right in regards to the pollution and heat. I reckon if we lived in a cold country like Russia, our skin would be in its best condition.

Oh I heard Kera Smoothening is bad for your hair. Only thing I’ve never done is dye my hair. My younger sister went lighter and had her hair bleached. It looked nice during the first few days but now looks like a rats nest. She’s chopped off her hair and it still looks horrifying. Don’t ever ever bleach your hair.

Interestingly, the only thing I have done is dye my hair lol. I have boring, straight hair and I am super lazy about styling it (or styling myself overall for that matter) so adding colours spices it up. It's become such a conspicuous and defining part of me that if I let it fade out people miss it.

It really depends on how you dye it. I have been dip dying my hair for the past 8 years so I generally bleach once a year, twice at most (yes I am lazy). It really does a number on your hair. Since I dip dye though, most of my hair stays natural with minimal damage. Recently bleached after like 2 years (lazy lockdown) and was gonna give my hair 2 weeks to recover. Decided instead to give my hair a month to recover (again due to my laziness) before I bleach again. Will then give it another week (or two or three) before I add all my colours.