Originally posted by: Guneet80
@bold this is hundred percent true. 🤣
I know this will sound absurd but Ishwari is projecting. For her Sona is the other woman who she needs to combat to get Dev's attention all to herself.
If she had an actual healthy relationship, she wouldn't do this shit. I've seen the ones who don't have a partner usually love to meddle between their son and daughter in law, literally their private matters too.
No no no this doesnt sound absurd at all!!
What you said makes absolute sense even from a psychological point of view.
Dev and ishwari are in a very deep emotionally incestous relationship. Please dont misunderstand it in the way of normal incest.
Emotional incest is when a parent relies on his/her kid (usually of the opposite gender) for emotional support that is expected from a partner. This is more often than not seen in single parents either widow/widowers or divorced people.
Dev here is a victim of his mother's psychological disorder. In cases like these often the child thinks that providing the parent emotional support is their responsibility when it absolutely isnt.
You arent very far away from the truth when you say that ishwari thinks that sona is the other woman in his life. Because she absolutely does and she needs to be taken to a doctor and then pushed into a healthy fulfilling relationship tk break this cycle.
Dev has been raised into giving into demands of his mother and act like a pseudo husband for her which is why he feels the constant need to choose between his mother and wife as if he is choosing between wife and mistress.
The only one at fault here looks like ishwari to me.
Emotional incest, also known as covert incest is a type of abuse on the child!!!!!
I would request all of you to read up about emotional incest to get a deeper insight into how a child is moulded that way and how hard it is to come out of this even as an adult.
Edited by Inkfruit08 - 4 years ago