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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30


Oily food she herself can make.... why is Sanjana needed? Anyway, kitchen is under Ishu control.

Ishuworry never like any one cooking for Dev ..Oily or non oily don’t matter

These kind of MIL can be tuned only one way “ bully” them. DIL should not enter the kitchen keep telling MIL they are best cooks in the world and get fav dishes made by them.😂

These kind of obsessive ones are better to be treated cunningly ...

Don’t threaten them in their field “ The house cores , cooking extra “

😂😂😂

Ishu does not want any one with Dev

Devrat is Bheeshma’s other name which it elf shown her attitude ...

As a male become adult hormone starts acting ..

I mean testosterone doesn’t care about Ishu or name given by her ...

😂🤣🤣🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: them2d


But why will she get Sona out of the house? She's done that twice, and lost her son both times. Dev cannot function in Sonakshi's absense, it's like he's a fish out of water.

Also if Sona is out of the house, her three grandkids will also leave with her. I don't think she wants that. Besides, Sona is a loving, docile bahu even though she's a strong person, she has a lot of respect for Ishwari and won't say or hold anything against her.

She's manipulative for sure, and insecure about how much her son loves Sonakshi, but I don't think she'll try again to separate them because this time Dev will definitely not stand for it.

I think ur kind of right. But interferences still has not stopped. She is still insecure about sonakshi even after so many years.

I can’t believe how she went to the counselor to tell my dev has not done anything. I was like ur are so right. Its all because of u. She gets jealous when they spent romantic time. Dev kind of have to ask permission otherwise she will feel bad.

Its high time ishu maata should go to tirathyatra and let them live their lives.
honestly i feel dread about mother in law now as i know some people really have this kinds of mil.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: them2d


But why will she get Sona out of the house? She's done that twice, and lost her son both times. Dev cannot function in Sonakshi's absense, it's like he's a fish out of water.

Also if Sona is out of the house, her three grandkids will also leave with her. I don't think she wants that. Besides, Sona is a loving, docile bahu even though she's a strong person, she has a lot of respect for Ishwari and won't say or hold anything against her.

She's manipulative for sure, and insecure about how much her son loves Sonakshi, but I don't think she'll try again to separate them because this time Dev will definitely not stand for it.

Fully agree. She won't want Sona to leave the house. She has seen the result of that on her son.

Sona, for all the modern woman she is, is very respectful of Ishwari and Ishwari has, over the years, gotten used to her. Sona is very caring towards her as well.

She is apprehensive about the counseling but won't stand for their separation.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sati Savitri Maate Ishworry : If she can remove Sona out of her house, keep Dev and 3 kids she will stooop down to any thing to accomplish that. Ishworry needs to find a man of her own & get l**d. She is so insecure about her place in Dev's life. Sona is a constant threat to her. She wants to be the only woman in Dev's life. Controlling, manipulative, evil person if she can't see her son's happiness with his wife. What kind of mother would be this insecure. She is one of a kind. Ajoobi Maate.😡👎🏼

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Sati Savitri Maate Ishworry : If she can remove Sona out of her house, keep Dev and 3 kids she will stooop down to any thing to accomplish that. Ishworry needs to find a man of her own & get l**d. She is so in;secure about her place in Dev's life. Sona is a constant threat to her. She wants to be the only woman in Dev's life. Controlling, manipulative, evil person if she can't see her son's happiness with his wife. What kind of mother would be this insecure. She is one of a kind. Ajoobi Maate.😡👎🏼

I don’t know if i should laugh at what u wrote or be angry at ishu maate.

@ bold 🤣🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


When it comes to being obsessive about Dev , Ishwari has always taken the first prize , now we have another one competing for this place...I am curious to know , matha ji's reaction if she gets to know that there is girl who is all crazy for her son. Do you think she will consider her as threat ?? OR would she use this girl against Sona?smiley2


Ishu Maate thinks "If I cant beat-compete, than might as well join the gang"' Ishu-Sanjana both are match made in heaven in their Psycho lala land. They would make a great thugettes 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: naaznin

Ishwari loves her grand children too much. No sona means no ved, soha and shubh.

Also after having three grown up children it's so stupid to even thinking of a new bahu.


Sanjana basically basically is looking like a cheapster who wants seduce a married man by calling him late night so he sleeps with her in his mind and wearing his favourite color. Ishwari would have never wanted a low character girl for her son


Bottom line is Ishwari doesn't like Sona and would do anything to put her down given the chance. No Sona doesn't mean no Ayush, soha or shubh.

I'm sure she'll try every manipulation to keep the kids with her like she did in Ayush's case. You're underestimating Ishwari.

It's her literal job to meddle in others matters and take decisions on their behalf. I won't put it past her to try and throw Sona out. Sona is too individualistic for her to handle, she thinks Sona has way too much influence on Dev.

If she thinks Sanjana is someone she can control, she will happily let her in the family.


I sometimes wish ishwari married again and had a husband, she at least wouldn't compete with her daughter in law for her son's attention and project all she wants on her son. She's just messed up

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: kar08

Who will make for Dev after she goes ? Now she can go in peace knowing that her beta’s oily food needs will be met by jalebi and paratha making Sanjana 😆

Why will she go alone? She will take Dev along with her because of pure love between the two 🤣

Warna when ishwari goes to hell, her shona beta will be sad without his mother so to avoid that, she'll come back as a bhoot and take Dev along with her. Bonus, no Sonakshi to interrupt them🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Sati Savitri Maate Ishworry : If she can remove Sona out of her house, keep Dev and 3 kids she will stooop down to any thing to accomplish that. Ishworry needs to find a man of her own & get l**d. She is so in;secure about her place in Dev's life. Sona is a constant threat to her. She wants to be the only woman in Dev's life. Controlling, manipulative, evil person if she can't see her son's happiness with his wife. What kind of mother would be this insecure. She is one of a kind. Ajoobi Maate.😡👎🏼


@bold this is hundred percent true. 🤣

I know this will sound absurd but Ishwari is projecting. For her Sona is the other woman who she needs to combat to get Dev's attention all to herself.

If she had an actual healthy relationship, she wouldn't do this shit. I've seen the ones who don't have a partner usually love to meddle between their son and daughter in law, literally their private matters too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80


@bold this is hundred percent true. 🤣

I know this will sound absurd but Ishwari is projecting. For her Sona is the other woman who she needs to combat to get Dev's attention all to herself.

If she had an actual healthy relationship, she wouldn't do this shit. I've seen the ones who don't have a partner usually love to meddle between their son and daughter in law, literally their private matters too.


No no no this doesnt sound absurd at all!!


What you said makes absolute sense even from a psychological point of view.

Dev and ishwari are in a very deep emotionally incestous relationship. Please dont misunderstand it in the way of normal incest.


Emotional incest is when a parent relies on his/her kid (usually of the opposite gender) for emotional support that is expected from a partner. This is more often than not seen in single parents either widow/widowers or divorced people.


Dev here is a victim of his mother's psychological disorder. In cases like these often the child thinks that providing the parent emotional support is their responsibility when it absolutely isnt.


You arent very far away from the truth when you say that ishwari thinks that sona is the other woman in his life. Because she absolutely does and she needs to be taken to a doctor and then pushed into a healthy fulfilling relationship tk break this cycle.


Dev has been raised into giving into demands of his mother and act like a pseudo husband for her which is why he feels the constant need to choose between his mother and wife as if he is choosing between wife and mistress.


The only one at fault here looks like ishwari to me.


Emotional incest, also known as covert incest is a type of abuse on the child!!!!!



I would request all of you to read up about emotional incest to get a deeper insight into how a child is moulded that way and how hard it is to come out of this even as an adult.

Edited by Inkfruit08 - 4 years ago

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