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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am hopeful that sonething related to college track is coming up . They won’t rope a new well known actor for one or two scene . Maybe this track is the replacement for accident track .


I know many don’t like to see FL vulnerable and helpless but in reality a single young girl is prey to such men who only want to take advantage of them . This is the very reason which made KJ extract a promise from Virat and villagers wanted to send her away from Jagtap and best way was to get her married . I hope they handle this track well it has so much potential. Maybe after this track , Virat will realize Sai needs to be with the family more than him and will move out so that she can stay back and complete her studies .


Same time it’s hard to believe anyone troubling a ACP wife . There was another article about rustication so something must be planned revolving around dean

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am hopeful that sonething related to college track is coming up . They won’t rope a new well known actor for one or two scene . Maybe this track is the replacement for accident track .


I know many don’t like to see FL vulnerable and helpless but in reality a single young girl is prey to such men who only want to take advantage of them . This is the very reason which made KJ extract a promise from Virat and villagers wanted to send her away from Jagtap and best way was to get her married . I hope they handle this track well it has so much potential. Maybe after this track , Virat will realize Sai needs to be with the family more than him and will move out so that she can stay back and complete her studies .


Same time it’s hard to believe anyone troubling a ACP wife . There was another article about rustication so something must be planned revolving around dean

it sounds stupid but may be the Dean is a new one so he would not be aware of sai's identity.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

it sounds stupid but may be the Dean is a new one so he would not be aware of sai's identity.

possible or he is so well connected that he doesn’t care about the ACP . I think him not knowing about Sai identity is better .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

It is a stupid but realistic track .. it happens in schools abd colleges .. students do get harassed and molested … but

Sai is a wife of an ACP … and it’s well known in her college .. so it’s very stupid of any guy however senior to take panga with police …

however this may make Sai realise the importance of sticking in a family .. because a girl left alone in the world is targeted by wolves all over .. the reason why her father tied her with virat before leaving the world .. just not to make her into a doctor .. and be independent… but to give her a safe shelter to blossom




@bold I know you didn't say it in another way but why we girls need to be with families to feel safe. Why can't we be alone and still be safe ? Why we have created this world where a girl can't feel safe.

Your words just reminded me how helpless we girls are and why Patriarchy is still so strong in this world

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Posted: 4 years ago
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@bold I know you didn't say it in another way but why we girls need to be with families to feel safe. Why can't we be alone and still be safe ? Why we have created this world where a girl can't feel safe.

Your words just reminded me how helpless we girls are and why Patriarchy is still so strong in this world

Oh I was so feeling the same.. The girl needs to be with the family to feel safe and the guys can behave the way they want and the girl has to stay with an abusive family.

Its just Choosing the better abusers by Sai in this case....Great!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

It is a stupid but realistic track .. it happens in schools abd colleges .. students do get harassed and molested … but

Sai is a wife of an ACP … and it’s well known in her college .. so it’s very stupid of any guy however senior to take panga with police …

however this may make Sai realise the importance of sticking in a family .. because a girl left alone in the world is targeted by wolves all over .. the reason why her father tied her with virat before leaving the world .. just not to make her into a doctor .. and be independent… but to give her a safe shelter to blossom



Why dimwit writers can only see female's character development after getting molested? I think there can be better ways to bring together SaiRat but I forgot it's Ghum, makers will go to any lengths.


@bold this doesn't sit right with me. Isn't this a misogynistic outlook? Women who have a full-fledged family also get targeted right? And more often than not, the family is her drawback telling her to shut up about it to save family's name.

So this "tying down to family to protect her" just sounds enabling for a man to control a woman. I've seen enough self dependent strong women who survive alone, not saying that they don't need a support system or companionship.

All I'm saying is, a forced family only for so-called protection and not for love, is just stupid. Women are not commodities to pass around families like that. It's high time we shift from this utterly seixst outlook.


Peace out

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80


Why dimwit writers can only see female's character development after getting molested? I think there can be better ways to bring together SaiRat but I forgot it's Ghum, makers will go to any lengths.


@bold I kind of get what you're saying but this isn't sitting right with me. Isn't this a misogynistic outlook? Women who have a full-fledged family also get targeted right? And more often than not, the family is her drawback telling her to shut up about it to save family's name.

So this "tying down to family to protect her" just sounds enabling for a man to control a woman. I've seen enough self dependent strong women who survive alone, not saying that they don't need a support system or companionship.

All I'm saying is, a forced family only for so-called protection and not for love, is just stupid. Women are not commodities to pass around families like that. It's high time we shift from this utterly seixst outlook.


Peace out


I am not judging them … I am telling how things are .. in the world .. every where the weaker is targetted by the dirty folks .. it can be young boys too ..


It’s a fact everyday girls are harassed in schools , colleges and in workforce … they always target somebody who they feel won’t retaliate..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Moonks



@bold I know you didn't say it in another way but why we girls need to be with families to feel safe. Why can't we be alone and still be safe ? Why we have created this world where a girl can't feel safe.

Your words just reminded me how helpless we girls are and why Patriarchy is still so strong in this world


I have not created this world … and I don’t control it … mere bolne se ya Na bolne se Ghanta fadak padega
I am just saying it happens everyday around us

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80


Why dimwit writers can only see female's character development after getting molested? I think there can be better ways to bring together SaiRat but I forgot it's Ghum, makers will go to any lengths.


@bold this doesn't sit right with me. Isn't this a misogynistic outlook? Women who have a full-fledged family also get targeted right? And more often than not, the family is her drawback telling her to shut up about it to save family's name.

So this "tying down to family to protect her" just sounds enabling for a man to control a woman. I've seen enough self dependent strong women who survive alone, not saying that they don't need a support system or companionship.

All I'm saying is, a forced family only for so-called protection and not for love, is just stupid. Women are not commodities to pass around families like that. It's high time we shift from this utterly seixst outlook.


Peace out

The reason is that society is like that only and we all have contributed to it in some way. And i would like to see this track not because of sai's vulnerability or anything or not because of her dependence on others but more because to realise how she is only comfortable with one man.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin


I am not judging them … I am telling how things are .. in the world .. every where the weaker is targetted by the dirty folks .. it can be young boys too ..


It’s a fact everyday girls are harassed in schools , colleges and in workforce … they always target somebody who they feel won’t retaliate..


Oh yes, I do know you're not saying that in bad faith and I wasn't directing that particularly at you. The entire society generally thinks like that which is problematic.

Women are harassed even when she's married, privileged or even when she's a child. A woman is targeted for being a women and not because of other things or people associated with her.

While, I do understand, having a family/friend which is supportive will help a girl recuperate from whatever happened.

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