Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #88|Mystery of Raavi's Lehenga - Page 45

Originally posted by: mpks1

As for the precap- Dhara threatening Rishita, I want it to be Rishita’s dream and Dhara actually didn’t say that.

I have been supporting Dhara only for the way Suman is treating during this pregnancy track, making her work more, being mean and hurting her with words etc. I have mentioned this several times that I cannot connect with post leap Dhara at all.

But if Dhara does the same with Rishita, what Suman is doing with her, my sympathy is out the window.

I am sure Dhara fans will blame it on her mood swings and she only wants to see good things happen to everyone for her behavior towards Rishita. Please, I am not ready to take any of that BS.

It is not really Rishita’s fault that ShiVi separated and she should not breaking her head to bring Raavi back.

I sincerely hope it is only Rishita’s dream,

I thought mood swings make u grumpy and silly.🤪

here mood swings made dhara evil..😈🤪

I too hope it's just some stupid dream..

Dhara threatening like this is plain criminal..

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Originally posted by: mpks1

As for the precap- Dhara threatening Rishita, I want it to be Rishita’s dream and Dhara actually didn’t say that.

I have been supporting Dhara only for the way Suman is treating during this pregnancy track, making her work more, being mean and hurting her with words etc. I have mentioned this several times that I cannot connect with post leap Dhara at all.

But if Dhara does the same with Rishita, what Suman is doing with her, my sympathy is out the window.

I am sure Dhara fans will blame it on her mood swings and she only wants to see good things happen to everyone for her behavior towards Rishita. Please, I am not ready to take any of that BS.

It is not really Rishita’s fault that ShiVi separated and she should not breaking her head to bring Raavi back.

I sincerely hope it is only Rishita’s dream,

I also think it will be a dream.

The precap has been misleading before too. Maybe Rishita will feel that she will win the family's trust again if she manages to bring raavi home, she has always craved praise and attention from the family.

Originally posted by: mpks1

As for the precap- Dhara threatening Rishita, I want it to be Rishita’s dream and Dhara actually didn’t say that.

I have been supporting Dhara only for the way Suman is treating during this pregnancy track, making her work more, being mean and hurting her with words etc. I have mentioned this several times that I cannot connect with post leap Dhara at all.

But if Dhara does the same with Rishita, what Suman is doing with her, my sympathy is out the window.

I am sure Dhara fans will blame it on her mood swings and she only wants to see good things happen to everyone for her behavior towards Rishita. Please, I am not ready to take any of that BS.

It is not really Rishita’s fault that ShiVi separated and she should not breaking her head to bring Raavi back.

I sincerely hope it is only Rishita’s dream,

I think it is a dream.

Rishita has dream about evil Raavi too in the past. I think Dhara will say something about Shivi ka reunion and tabhi _ milega ya hoga.

So she started dreaming about Dhara as villan.

Wese bhi Dhara and Rishita loves to dream and make other villan in their dreams

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I think it is a dream.

Rishita has dream about evil Raavi too in the past. I think Dhara will say something about Shivi ka reunion and tabhi _ milega ya hoga.

So she started dreaming about Dhara as villan.

Wese bhi Dhara and Rishita loves to dream and make other villan in their dreams

That's a very good point...they do dream about others as evil people..😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I am thinking how much to share 🤣 I don't want to spread too much negativity so won't focus on those points. I am so confused in some points/ storylines- but I have decided to ignore it. Certain other aspects are annoying, if I start ranting days will pass, and I am sure everyone would have covered it here.

I'll try to go over the parts I liked

- Rishitha: I am liking her expressions and her story arc. She got the job! (what a fluke😋 I wish interviews were that easy... anyways, this is ITV). My favorite scene of hers is when she is venting out her frustrations about Suman when Suman is behind her 😆

- Dev: He does not annoy me anymore. I cannot believe the day has come that I wouls prefer Dev over ShiVi, but I currently prefer Dev than seeing Shiva's ex- wife.

There, I said it.

- GauRa: I would like to head slap Dhara for the way she is handling Suman's issue, and still am irritated for Gautam for basically sidelining Shiva in favor of his ex, but they sneaked their way back into my heart with the expecting parent scenes (grudgingly I might add). It is great to see a smiling Gautam after weeks of issues, irrespective of how he handled them. It is GauRa's time to be happy- and I actually feel very happy for them (though they are fictional)

Suman: I probably have the most unpopular opinion- but I understand Suman's behavior and where she is coming from. I don't stand by her patriarchal thought process, but the current track, the way it shaped up- it is pretty decently done. Without going into too much details- similar story happened with my grandmother- and Suman's expressions and reactions are on point. I resonated well with the entore arc. ( Thankfully, we, like normal people, believe in therapy and counseling)

Maami: What does it say about the show if the only person I currently like and probably believe is Maami- she has been the only one consistent since the beginning. Is it terrible that she is the only bearable person I found in the Narayan household(since Maama is MIA)

Sriiii, so you binge watched the epsiodes❤️❤️

Rishita got a job too easily,kaash real life Mai itna asaan hota 😂😂

And I agree with you that maami is the only consistent character in the show, atleast she is clear on whom she loves and whom she despises. Baak sab to aisee oscillate kar rahe hai ki poocho mat.🤦🤦

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I also think it will be a dream.

The precap has been misleading before too. Maybe Rishita will feel that she will win the family's trust again if she manages to bring raavi home, she has always craved praise and attention from the family.

This family has never happy dreams, and it is always about other people and they all consider each other to be the villains.

Raavi dreaming of evil on the day of their marriage as if he is asking her to do all her chores

Shiva dreaming of evil Raav

Dhara dreaming of bad Shiva drinking

Suman dreaming of everyone neglecting her

Now Rishita is dreaming of evil Dhara

Pixie, as a Doctor you might know this . I have read a while ago that if you sleep with happy thoughts, you are less likely to have bad or evil dreams.

It is just not Shiva- Raavi who need counseling, the whole family needs counseling including Suman😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

This family has never happy dreams, and it is always about other people and they all consider each other to be the villains.

Raavi dreaming of evil on the day of their marriage as if he is asking her to do all her chores

Shiva dreaming of evil Raav

Dhara dreaming of bad Shiva drinking

Suman dreaming of everyone neglecting her

Now Rishita is dreaming of evil Dhara

Pixie, as a Doctor you might know this . I have read a while ago that if you sleep with happy thoughts, you are less likely to have bad or evil dreams.

It is just not Shiva- Raavi who need counseling, the whole family needs counseling including Suman😕

Here is my two cents on why the family dreams about such things.

Dhara's dream of leaving the house roots back to her childhood.she has a fear of abandonment as her mother had left her.pandya parivaar is the only family she has got from childhood as gombis father took care of them.she had hardik, but he too was a kid.that also explains why she is so obsessed with keeping the family together, whatsoever happens.a small tiff between the brothers scare her.maybe somewhere she feels people who go never return, which explains why she is hell bent on bringing raavi home.its like whatever you do, stay together.i am not justifying her beating shiva and Krish, but maybe her reaction was a result of overthinking that the family will break. The writers have time and again highlighted this as dhara's biggest fear.this also explains the fact that why she has band aid soulutions rather than dwelling deep into emotions.many a times we avoid confrontation and conflict, because they pave a way for leaving.when you confront, it's make or break.there is no middle ground.she is happy in the yaadon ki baraat bubble as she is assured that they are all together atleast.

As for rishita, she has always been an outsider. her thinking, upbringing, opinions are very different from Pandya family.so she craves acceptance.in her dream raavi mocks her that people were right, pati ka ghar nahi sambhal paayi.somewhere that hits her.she wants the family to see her worth, to respect and value her and she knows she can't earn that by the conventional ways of cooking, doing household work and being motherly like dhara beacuse that's not who she is.so she wants to earn that respect through other ways.

Shiva's dream about raavi is a reflection of his own insecurities.she mocks him for liking her.thats exactly how he feels.he is seeing aukaat ke bahar ke sapne by liking raavi as he believes himself to be unworthy of her.

Originally posted by: mpks1

This family has never happy dreams, and it is always about other people and they all consider each other to be the villains.

Raavi dreaming of evil on the day of their marriage as if he is asking her to do all her chores

Shiva dreaming of evil Raav

Dhara dreaming of bad Shiva drinking

Suman dreaming of everyone neglecting her

Now Rishita is dreaming of evil Dhara

Pixie, as a Doctor you might know this . I have read a while ago that if you sleep with happy thoughts, you are less likely to have bad or evil dreams.

It is just not Shiva- Raavi who need counseling, the whole family needs counseling including Suman😕

When did shiva dream of evil ravi?

Edit. Ohh yes..I forgot.. the murder attempt..

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Here is my two cents on why the family dreams about such things.

Dhara's dream of leaving the house roots back to her childhood.she has a fear of abandonment as her mother had left her.pandya parivaar is the only family she has got from childhood as gombis father took care of them.she had hardik, but he too was a kid.that also explains why she is so obsessed with keeping the family together, whatsoever happens.a small tiff between the brothers scare her.maybe somewhere she feels people who go never return, which explains why she is hell bent on bringing raavi home.its like whatever you do, stay together.i am not justifying her beating shiva and Krish, but maybe her reaction was a result of overthinking that the family will break. The writers have time and again highlighted this as dhara's biggest fear.this also explains the fact that why she has band aid soulutions rather than dwelling deep into emotions.many a times we avoid confrontation and conflict, because they pave a way for leaving.when you confront, it's make or break.there is no middle ground.she is happy in the yaadon ki baraat bubble as she is assured that they are all together atleast.

As for rishita, she has always been an outsider. her thinking, upbringing, opinions are very different from Pandya family.so she craves acceptance.in her dream raavi mocks her that people were right, pati ka ghar nahi sambhal paayi.somewhere that hits her.she wants the family to see her worth, to respect and value her and she knows she can't earn that by the conventional ways of cooking, doing household work and being motherly like dhara beacuse that's not who she is.so she wants to earn that respect through other ways.

Shiva's dream about raavi is a reflection of his own insecurities.she mocks him for liking her.thats exactly how he feels.he is seeing aukaat ke bahar ke sapne by liking raavi as he believes himself to be unworthy of her.

This makes total sense...💯