Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #88|Mystery of Raavi's Lehenga - Page 40

Originally posted by: frnd_ship

I didn't much what happened on the forum but saw the precap and only thought that occurred to me was are they trying to make dhara the most loved or hated character as ab tak toh sirf shivi fans hate krte the but the way she talked and behaved with rishu today and in precap her fans are also gonna go against her🙄🙄🙄

I am sure the makers will come up with some mahaan reason by dhara like that of batwaara. 🤪

Women shouldn't be glorified for shouldering dual responsibilities or making sacrifices.

Every problem in the world has some other practical solutions. Some emotional needs can be catered Through different ways. You are presenting a very rational series of educative videos to address the stupidity of the Pandya family, which is, say, the reality of a lot of homes.

https://youtu.be/TUtpIw1S22g

https://youtu.be/wCVVnEKyQx0

https://youtu.be/i3lCJKGasiA

https://youtu.be/Gx4dwQaF8vk

https://youtu.be/P9iQBJlHqn8

https://youtu.be/GQyNpZe8sSQ

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ditto! For a mil like suman, no diapers no nurse 😡 meri taraf se kuen mein jaaye pond mein lake mein ya ocean mein kood jaaye ya bhaad mein jaaye.

Dils r also humans , somebody's daughters somebody's sisters . They r not to be treated this way by any elder or her husband ...Haan.. pyar se bolo..respect deke bolo..love and respect is a two way street.

There is no selfishness in it. It's called management . Figure out the solutions instead of cribbing. I have always said that dhara is setting a bad precedent .. ..nobody can be a superwoman .....after 25 km walk she is filling buckets for the family, massaging n steaming her mils head , it's atrocious and grown up men , unko chullu bhar pani mein doobna chahiye tha.

Sorry My frustration is at the peak today after watching Suman torturing a pregnant dhara and she is jumping around like a kangaroo ke ma ne aur kaam de diya🤢

@Bold: On point

But honestly technically who did the most work in that 25 kms yatra was Raavi.

She needed to bend and sweep the floor. Bending for 25 kms is almost impossible thing to do. Kamar ki band baj jaati hain, just to bend for few mins continuosly, she did for soo long. Uske baad unlike others Raavi came back 25 kms by walk.

Real superwoman is our Raavi. 50 kms by walk that too bending uske baad bhi royi khudka khyaal nahi rakha.

Kachra kar rakha hain characters and logics ka inn writers ne.

The world has moved to a place where you click the button, and home-cooked thali is at 150 Rs only.

We have house helps too. The employment opportunities are enormous. Sadly the PS family nonsense exists in many Tier 2 Tier 3 cities.

Coming to Rishita! Would you please check this out

https://youtu.be/F9CLFiPnOd8

Originally posted by: _charu_

Also, just let it go if she did a mistake. Rishita apologized n therez nothing more she can do. Suman, dhara , dev, everyone gave her sermons that if she can't take up household responsibilities she won't be allowed to work. 🤢 she can be blunt but it's good if she blunt..its better than being dhara ..honestly i have seen women suffering endlessly coz they keep quiet to avoid.fights and unpleasant situations..its always better to let it out..I can't do it that's why I appreciate such a thing in a any woman. Bol do apne dil.ki baat🤩

Normally rishita type of girls r called muhfat insensitive and badtameez. Sai (ghum.hai) is also like that..but I am glad they have such characters bec I can't connect to devijis..I look upto dhara but I can't be like her..

U can't compare Rishita with Sai.

Come on

Rishita is good but Sai is not hypocrite. She knows her mistakes, she just don't go on blaiming and commenting on others and doesn't follow the same advice for herself.

Sai talks rudely with only those when others starts first let's not talk about Rishita.

About her kitchen talk. I don't like Dhara at all and have praised Rishita a lot but she was totally wrong, she just put the whole blaim on Dhara for no reason. She saw Suman treated Dhara like shit but instead of being calm, or quiet she started commenting. Dev ki frustration bhi Dhara per he nikal di. Also she didn't saw what big blunder she did, she saw kitna tamasha ho gaya but was taking ki zyada kuch nahi hua. For her still she didn't saw what is the actual problem is. She thinks people r annoyed with her bcoz she didn't fullfill her responsibilities but problem is Suman felt self respect being broken and she doesn't understands it.

Definitely Suman is overdoing it. She is a bully and horrible woman.

Khaana joh waste kiya I am damn sure she didn't made nor would have made, as Dhara said yeh bhi Rishita ko sikhana tha.

She talked with her sister 2 days back, when she was about to tell her about Shivi ka divorce but ignored Suman ka call and started talking with sister knowing she is the only person except Suman in the house, which she could have done a bit later.

Definitely shouldn't have left her Interview.

Aaj ke episode what she said about Raavi was freaking amazing, as she is just muhfhat not insensitive or badtameez, Sai won't have ever did that and she is a muhfhat.

Don't compare Rishita and Sai just bcoz Rishita knows how to open her mouth. As Sai just don't speak anything everything on which she herself doesn't stands upon.

Just my views, not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings

I can cook really, but I hate cooking after 12 hours of work and commute; solution:- I have cooks, cleaners etc. Plus, when I want to save money, I order tiffin services.

I have ageing parents: I have caretakers, and when they need me, I take leaves. It's not a crime to NOT wanting to shoulder dual responsibilities.

Also, Respect for homemakers! Dhara is puking and still has to put up with the nonsense of Suman.

https://youtu.be/fISCSlNF3FI

Also, Dhara stop glorifying abuse and ignore the sentiments of gazillion women who can't have children!

WTF was that pride of being pregnant and giving it back to other women.

Internalised patriarchy much?

Originally posted by: Transference

Also, Dhara stop glorifying abuse and ignore the sentiments of gazillion women who can't have children!

WTF was that pride of being pregnant and giving it back to other women.

Internalised patriarchy much?

Honestly problem with the family is not just Suman but Dhara too.

Kehne ko she is aaj ki woman, educated, topper. But she follows all the nonsense and wants others too should follow.

I have heard Pregnant women needs to work but not like this. Specially when u have a risky pregnancy.

Pandyas cry about few thousands and waste a lot of money in all these functions.

Atleast Ketka of shows soo many functions, mkae her leads rich, so still it is understandable.

Yaha ek bhai ₹30 save kar raha hain, other is buying the whole shop and new costly clothes for everyone and then they had shortage of money to build a room for which 2 people of their family tried to commit suicide.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

U can't compare Rishita with Sai.

Come on

Rishita is good but Sai is not hypocrite. She knows her mistakes, she just don't go on blaiming and commenting on others and doesn't follow the same advice for herself.

Sai talks rudely with only those when others starts first let's not talk about Rishita.

About her kitchen talk. I don't like Dhara at all and have praised Rishita a lot but she was totally wrong, she just put the whole blaim on Dhara for no reason. She saw Suman treated Dhara like shit but unlike then being calm, or quiet she started commenting. Dev ki frustration bhi Dhara per he nikal di. Also she didn't saw what big blunder she did, she saw kitna tamasha ho gaya but was taking ki zyada kuch nahi hua.

Definitely Suman is overdoing it.

Khaana joh waste kiya I am damn sure she didn't made nor would have made, as Dhara said yeh bhi Rishita ko sikhana tha.

She talked with her sister 2 days back, when she was about to tell her about Shivi ka divorce but ignored Suman ka call and started talking with her, which she could have done a bit later. Definitely shouldn't have left her Interview.

Aaj ke episode what she said about Raavi was freaking amazing, as she is just muhfhat not insensitive or badtameez, Sai won't have ever did that.

Don't compare Rishita and Sai just bcoz Rishita knows how to open her mouth. As Sai just don't speak anytime everything on which she herself doesn't stands upon.

Just my views, not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings

It was not a comparison..

Sai went through the same "ghar ka kaam.niptao only then you can go to college". She was not allowed to take help from her mil and her husband was also mute..that time , and till today, many perceive her as badtameez and outspoken .her situation and rishitas is totally diff. N they r diff people.

I was talking generally, that any girl who answers back is seen as badtameez. Badon ka lihaaz nahi hai and all ..people perceive them that way..

I am not putting rishita on a pedestal..she was wrong to blame dhara and wrong to attend the call. She is as human as everyone else..but she is not evil so I give her leverage....rishita could have apologized and move on , but she was frustrated with ppl not listening to her apology ...dev didn't let her help, suman ne baat nai ki and dhara lashed out on her.. .ye sab "tumhe pata hona chahiye " is very tricky.

My funda is...kitni bhi badi mistake ho, apologize and move on...sahi se baat karo na...don't start blame games bec then it gets ugly..mistake ho gayi toh it doesn't give anyone the right to disrespect..nor make the other person feel guilty ,over and over.