Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #87|Hotstar and its Kaands - Page 32

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Yaar while I understand how this change will affect us watching and/or reading the LU from here onwards, we have to find a way to maintain. It may take time to settle into this sudden and a new way but I believe we should. This is the first and only forum I not only come but communicate and just have fun without even watching the episodes. I do watch other shows (not regularly) and I do visit one other forum but I hardly say anything I stalk mostly. this place is different, I somehow connected with all of you here more than I ever did in another forum (BWF excluded 🤣) sachi yaar let’s figure something out. It doesn’t have to tonight or even tmrw but plz all of stay here and let’s find a way to watch, update, troll and just have fun. I really love it here 🥺🥺

Same! Was always a silent browser of IPK forum back in the day too. I don't want to lose the connection we have here!

I see Hotstar decided to do kaand aaj 🤣🤣

Saru I loved your epi synopsis 🤣🤗 best tha.

Originally posted by: Transference

Thank you, Rishita, for being the voice of reason in the family. I know you are self-centred but thank you for voicing out every progressive woman’s approach.

She was indeed guilty and crying like crazy. I agree that a person with special needs has to be taken care of as a baby, but that brings adult diapers.

Sorry, but adult diapers are not for the caretaker's convenience but also the patient.

It's incredibly convenient and is a blessing for a lot of women who have incontinence post-delivery too. There's a lot of innovation in disability care, and it's not to give ease to caretakers only.

It gives confidence, self-dependence and control to a lot of patients.

So, the problem lies with you people, Dhara and clan.

One man doesn't want to take up an extra job to support financially because of whatnot.

A woman wants to take up the job, and all they can sermonise her is chores and dual responsibility. It's as if they are teaching the Gen Z bahus that one needs to be a Superwoman.

It is now coming to basic skills like cooking and house maintenance. I will be the devil’s advocate. It's okay to know the basics; it's okay to keep evolving and learning. But, it's not okay to tell women that they have to take care of the family. All have this responsibility together.

If she is good at earning money for the family, then why not. Let her be the financial breadwinner. Will you ask the men to stop going to work or do extra housework if they work outside the house?

No, right?

Men don't belong to the kitchen.

50k extra.

A maid will cost 2k, and a 24*7 cook/helper, let's say another 10k

Still 40k extra. The world will not crumble if the people aren't fed warm rotis and bhabhi ka khana.

No, ADULT DIAPERS IS NOT EQUAL TO HUMILIATION.

Instead of enabling regressive thoughts of the older generation, one needs to reinforce constantly progressive beliefs to the older generation.

Enabling whims and fancies makes their own life difficult.

Piu I have a lot to say on this topic.

I didn't like rishita today , let's just keep it aside..this family doesn't converse , all they do is passing the blame 🤢 I hate dhara today I hate suman and I hate rishita.

I agree that diapers and caretakers are an option today. I have seen 5 elders around me with that condition, 4 of them have passed away . My husband's grandparents.. The 4 of them were under the care of trained nurses. Inspite of that , the condition they went in, I don't wish ke mere Dushman ke saath aisa ho. One of them developed bed sores and passed away due to that condition. The 5th..my grandmother.. she was on diapers for a short while but she didn't like it..she was bedridden with Parkinson, but somehow she gathered courage to move around and do her chores on her own , bec she was never dependent on anyone in life..my mom is there for her but I can see her helplessness..everyday she wakes up and she prays for the life to end..

So although diapers r there but still maintaining hygiene is a task. The patient, their clothes , the bed , sheets , everything must be clean. Neither diapers nor nurses can substitute for the care which their own child can give them by being around. Even money is not the substitute.

Nurses do their jobs but every elder would want their children to be around otherwise it's cruel to them ..they need love care affection sympathy empathy and pampering ..they are insecure , ashamed for being dependent , this is the most difficult phase of their life..so unless their children are around to make them feel secure and not like A burden , they are an emotional and physical mess...

I am pissed with suman bec she HAS IT. She has everything.. her sons dils tc of her so much so she could have let this one episode pass....yet she is complaining and dhara ka itne saal ki seva ko zero kar diya..how dare she says dhara has changed..won't she ? Instead of letting her enjoy pregnancy phase, she is burdening her more emotionally. Dhara is another level idiot for blaming herself.she can't be omnipresent. I will comment on rishitas responsibilities and blames later

Precap is beyond horrible. Now nobody cares to give her medicines. 🤢 They r just creating a situation jahan raavi ko wapas Bulana will be a blessing 🤢

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

No worries Sara! You're updates are sweet and to the point! Plus, I love all the emojis and trolling 🤣

I might/might not be around in the future (now with the episodes being not available for me) since I'll probably use the extra time studying, but I will come back to read everything for sure!

I also don't know the dinky site Ashu uses 😆 She's going to have to tell me 🤣

aw, thank you sooooo much ❤️

okay, I'll do it 😳

I've got an ✨HD quality dinky website✨ too 🤡

but it's most prolly not gonna work for you 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: manny136

Raavi does need a lawyer she is getting divorced lol and most lawyers would ask for alimony in this case. Yeah mami used this for her advantage lol but if this was a different kind of marriage or there was a kid its right that the wife should ask for her monetary rights lol

Hopefully raavi set her straight and there is no further drama over alimony lol poor shiva can't even afford a auto due to saving money how would he pay for monthly alimony lol the family can't afford this lol

I wonder though if this will be one of the ways ShiVi gets closer. I.e. The lawyer will say all the bad things Shiva did. She will hear it in court and connect to some of the things, but Raavi won't be able to bear his humiliation, and will voice all the good things about him and how he's always been her savior leaving out the manhandling part.

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

I'll try to give LUs just like 🥰prems🥰, but there are 3 issues:

1. I could never- 🤡
2. there's just gonna be a lot of trolling 🤷‍♀️
3. not to mention the ✨emojis✨

so, if y'all promise not to get annoyed, I'll try my best 🥺👉👈

we'll figure something out for sure

or y'all can go for ashu's dinky website 🤣

I love y'all & I really don't want y'all to disappear 🥺

so, let's hope y'all 🍩 kill me 🤪

also, BWF???

Saru you know we love you no matter what!! We are all waiting for your LUs😂🤗🤗🤗

Btw I am so bad at this acronym game but what does BWF mean?😂😂🤣🥺

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Chalega nhi daudega 💙

I lope you for this 🥺🥺 (don’t ask about the “p” instead of “b”)

You have never been to Bollywood forums?? 😲

aw, okay 🥺

I'll try my best 👉👈

okay, I won't 😆

I love you toooooo bub ❤️

dude, I didn't know this thing existed a month back 🤣

Originally posted by: mpks1

@bold-Bollywood Forum😆

Lol, of course, duh 🙄

Haha I thought it was one of the acronyms we created for ShiVi😂. Biwi something something 😂😂

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I wonder though if this will be one of the ways ShiVi gets closer. I.e. The lawyer will say all the bad things Shiva did. She will hear it in court and connect to some of the things, but Raavi won't be able to bear his humiliation, and will voice all the good things about him and how he's always been her savior leaving out the manhandling part.

Let's see how far they take the divorce proceedings. Will it go to court or mediation and will the judge alone hear the case. PS can make up their own version of divorce drama lol does mami even know what happened at the temple that day lol

Originally posted by: Faithaboveall

I see Hotstar decided to do kaand aaj 🤣🤣

Saru I loved your epi synopsis 🤣🤗 best tha.

Hotstar US decided to do the kaand and cheated the US members big time😆

Hotstar India seem to work fine. We got a lovely update from Sara😆