Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #87|Hotstar and its Kaands - Page 31

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Yaar while I understand how this change will affect us watching and/or reading the LU from here onwards, we have to find a way to maintain. It may take time to settle into this sudden and a new way but I believe we should. This is the first and only forum I not only come but communicate and just have fun without even watching the episodes. I do watch other shows (not regularly) and I do visit one other forum but I hardly say anything I stalk mostly. this place is different, I somehow connected with all of you here more than I ever did in another forum (BWF excluded 🤣) sachi yaar let’s figure something out. It doesn’t have to tonight or even tmrw but plz all of stay here and let’s find a way to watch, update, troll and just have fun. I really love it here 🥺🥺

I'll try to give LUs just like 🥰prems🥰, but there are 3 issues:

1. I could never- 🤡
2. there's just gonna be a lot of trolling 🤷‍♀️
3. not to mention the ✨emojis✨

so, if y'all promise not to get annoyed, I'll try my best 🥺👉👈

we'll figure something out for sure

or y'all can go for ashu's dinky website 🤣

I love y'all & I really don't want y'all to disappear 🥺

so, let's hope y'all 🍩 kill me 🤪

also, BWF???

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Because 7-8pm is still early for people in India, I don't mind using that time to troll the previous day's episode 😆 (I personally don't want to go to a weird off site to watch the episodes) I love seeing the gifs and the fun. 1 hour of trolling gives us more than enough time, and that way, when the episode is uploaded at 8:30pm for people in India, they can give the LU without a problem 😆

Originally posted by: Transference

Thank you, Rishita, for being the voice of reason in the family. I know you are self-centred but thank you for voicing out every progressive woman’s approach.

She was indeed guilty and crying like crazy. I agree that a person with special needs has to be taken care of as a baby, but that brings adult diapers.

Sorry, but adult diapers are not for the caretaker's convenience but also the patient.

It's incredibly convenient and is a blessing for a lot of women who have incontinence post-delivery too. There's a lot of innovation in disability care, and it's not to give ease to caretakers only.

It gives confidence, self-dependence and control to a lot of patients.

So, the problem lies with you people, Dhara and clan.

One man doesn't want to take up an extra job to support financially because of whatnot.

A woman wants to take up the job, and all they can sermonise her is chores and dual responsibility. It's as if they are teaching the Gen Z bahus that one needs to be a Superwoman.

It is now coming to basic skills like cooking and house maintenance. I will be the devil’s advocate. It's okay to know the basics; it's okay to keep evolving and learning. But, it's not okay to tell women that they have to take care of the family. All have this responsibility together.

If she is good at earning money for the family, then why not. Let her be the financial breadwinner. Will you ask the men to stop going to work or do extra housework if they work outside the house?

No, right?

Men don't belong to the kitchen.

50k extra.

A maid will cost 2k, and a 24*7 cook/helper, let's say another 10k

Still 40k extra. The world will not crumble if the people aren't fed warm rotis and bhabhi ka khana.

No, ADULT DIAPERS IS NOT EQUAL TO HUMILIATION.

Instead of enabling regressive thoughts of the older generation, one needs to reinforce constantly progressive beliefs to the older generation.

Enabling whims and fancies makes their own life difficult.

Agree to this to some aspect, and respectfully disagree to other.

Agree with Rishita being breadwinner and doesn't need to juggle both duties. But what with her being so shocked about putting away food after she was done eating so it doesn't go bad. It's common sense and my parents know and expect all of us to remember to put it up and tidy the place.

Also, she took responsibility of Suman. A. How can she not know that Suman needs help with bathroom. Is she really in her own world and lala land all the time? They had one bathroom until recently and that was in aangan. Did she never see suman going to the bathroom with help of Dhara or Gaumbi? Suman can move her hands, so she probably just needs help sitting on the toilet. Did she never see GauRa helping her get ready in the morning? How would Dhara know that Rishita didn't know that inspite of living in the same house.

And I understand you can get caretakers. But you'd need help at some point. Again, to retiterate, Dhara asked Rishita if she'd be able to handle it and Rishita said she would. If she thinks she couldn't handle it, why did she take the responsibility? At first, it may seem like they may have gone overboard in attacking her, but in the kitchen scene, she started that convo with defensiveness. She didn't need to get so defensive and her line about what else she could have done even if she heard Suman made it seem like she wasn't really sorry. She had to wheel her to the bathroom and help her sit on the toilet with some support.

About diapers,you make a good point, but I don't think it's always not equivalent to humiliation. It depends on the individual wearing it and how they feel. If someone was 100% bed ridden, I'd Understand. But Suman can sit in a wheelchair on her own from her bed. So I assume she can help herself a bit with someone's help and take care of her own business. She just needs help getting to the toilet. So why should she have to wear diapers if she doesn't want to and using bathroom is not a bad option?

I would have been of the similar opinion as yours, had I not been in somewhat similar situation. Everything hit completely differently.

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

This definitely works 💙 let’s find someone who wants to do the LUs 😆 what say Saara?? 😳

I just replied for the same 🤣

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Yaar I already subscribed to Hulu live and still no new episode unless I’m doing something wrong. Do I have to go through Disney?? 😕 I actually have no hopes from Hulu altogether. We gotta rely on LUs if someone can provide them at all in a time that works for all of us. 💕

You don't have to go through Disney. If you just go to Hulu there are 3 options, Hulu with Ads, Hulu without Ads and Hulu Live. I already have Hulu with Ads for almost a year, so I can see the past episodes there.

Hulu has a policy to upload episodes only after it is shown on TV. So when SP US has Thursday's episode set at 8 pm EST on Thursday evening, we will get the episode only after the telecast is over.

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

I'll try to give LUs just like 🥰prems🥰, but there are 3 issues:

1. I could never- 🤡
2. there's just gonna be a lot of trolling 🤷‍♀️
3. not to mention the ✨emojis✨

so, if y'all promise not to get annoyed, I'll try my best 🥺👉👈

we'll figure something out for sure

or y'all can go for ashu's dinky website 🤣

I love y'all & I really don't want y'all to disappear 🥺

so, let's hope y'all 🍩 kill me 🤪

also, BWF???

No worries Sara! You're updates are sweet and to the point! Plus, I love all the emojis and trolling 🤣

I might/might not be around in the future (now with the episodes being not available for me) since I'll probably use the extra time studying, but I will come back to read everything for sure!

I also don't know the dinky site Ashu uses 😆 She's going to have to tell me 🤣

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

I'll try to give LUs just like 🥰prems🥰, but there are 3 issues:

1. I could never- 🤡
2. there's just gonna be a lot of trolling 🤷‍♀️
3. not to mention the ✨emojis✨

so, if y'all promise not to get annoyed, I'll try my best 🥺👉👈

we'll figure something out for sure

or y'all can go for ashu's dinky website 🤣

I love y'all & I really don't want y'all to disappear 🥺

so, let's hope y'all 🍩 kill me 🤪

also, BWF???

I lope you for this 🥺🥺 (don’t ask about the “p” instead of “b”)

You have never been to Bollywood forums?? 😲

Originally posted by: Transference

Thank you, Rishita, for being the voice of reason in the family. I know you are self-centred but thank you for voicing out every progressive woman’s approach.

She was indeed guilty and crying like crazy. I agree that a person with special needs has to be taken care of as a baby, but that brings adult diapers.

Sorry, but adult diapers are not for the caretaker's convenience but also the patient.

It's incredibly convenient and is a blessing for a lot of women who have incontinence post-delivery too. There's a lot of innovation in disability care, and it's not to give ease to caretakers only.

It gives confidence, self-dependence and control to a lot of patients.

So, the problem lies with you people, Dhara and clan.

One man doesn't want to take up an extra job to support financially because of whatnot.

A woman wants to take up the job, and all they can sermonise her is chores and dual responsibility. It's as if they are teaching the Gen Z bahus that one needs to be a Superwoman.

It is now coming to basic skills like cooking and house maintenance. I will be the devil’s advocate. It's okay to know the basics; it's okay to keep evolving and learning. But, it's not okay to tell women that they have to take care of the family. All have this responsibility together.

If she is good at earning money for the family, then why not. Let her be the financial breadwinner. Will you ask the men to stop going to work or do extra housework if they work outside the house?

No, right?

Men don't belong to the kitchen.

50k extra.

A maid will cost 2k, and a 24*7 cook/helper, let's say another 10k

Still 40k extra. The world will not crumble if the people aren't fed warm rotis and bhabhi ka khana.

No, ADULT DIAPERS IS NOT EQUAL TO HUMILIATION.

Instead of enabling regressive thoughts of the older generation, one needs to reinforce constantly progressive beliefs to the older generation.

Enabling whims and fancies makes their own life difficult.

I watched the episode and I felt so disturbed after that.. I mean..I knew it was red alert .skip worthy one..stupid regressive content again.. butbi couldn't exactly point out why it felt so disturbing..

After reading this got it..

Seriously...the convincing level with which they show dhara confidently saying its about emotions and usage of diaper will kill sumans self respect..😳..maybe some find it humiliating.. but why glorify that thinking.. as if usage of adult diaper is for selfish reasons by the thecaretaker...how stupid and mindless is that😕.. if suman can't accept the usage of adult diapers,I would have expected a calmer more sorry kind of talk by dhara to say that suman is too backward to understand the benefits of diaper where she won't even feel the need of a second person..but respecting her feelings we will have to help her the way we could..

Rishitha was guilty and yesterday's episode I was totally ok with rishitha..she made a mistake and she understood it and is repenting too..but today she took a 180 degree..I know constant taunts make one react..Good for her..but why was she trying to justify herself saying she wouldn't have been able to manage suman even of she had heard her, becz of size difference..🤔.she should have stopped right there with the apology and left dhara or dev to themselves..why give explanation to people who dnt want to understand she was sorry and wouldn't repeat it..

And dhara all together blaming herself🤪..now I feel like blaming her too..😳like she has made such rules as norms in the house..that no one else can do anything according to themselves..now she is planning to do all the work until delivery...fine..keep a maid handle her...her choice...but the way she says it...why is house work so glorified when it comes to dhara.. and not anyone else..

Red alert tho tha heeen...but this regressive mentality of writers and projecting it as some adarsh mentality of a middle class family is very disturbing..

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

I'll try to give LUs just like 🥰prems🥰, but there are 3 issues:

1. I could never- 🤡
2. there's just gonna be a lot of trolling 🤷‍♀️
3. not to mention the ✨emojis✨

so, if y'all promise not to get annoyed, I'll try my best 🥺👉👈

we'll figure something out for sure

or y'all can go for ashu's dinky website 🤣

I love y'all & I really don't want y'all to disappear 🥺

so, let's hope y'all 🍩 kill me 🤪

also, BWF???

I love your humor! Can't wait for trolling with LUs.

Dinky sites are a no for me😂 Hope they're uploaded on IG by 10 or so.

What's BWF?

Raavi does need a lawyer she is getting divorced lol and most lawyers would ask for alimony in this case. Yeah mami used this for her advantage lol but if this was a different kind of marriage or there was a kid its right that the wife should ask for her monetary rights lol

Hopefully raavi set her straight and there is no further drama over alimony lol poor shiva can't even afford a auto due to saving money how would he pay for monthly alimony lol the family can't afford this lol