Request to stop the beating parade - Page 4

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

chalo someone else noticed it too

That mangalsutra is so long and out there dangling in front of her saree. Now that she sent Raghav divorce paper she shouldn't put that on but Mandar is probably too lost in his lust to see that. 😜😜

Facts- that MS is still there because audience will riot if she takes it off 🤣


No other reason, really.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Not only Raghav, but keerti was slapped multiple times!

I guess VD slapped Pallavi too? And did VD slap Milind? I have a vague memory.

Milind slapped Sulo. Sulo slapped Amruta.
Raghav slapped Farhad.

And then next day they are behaving as if it never happened.

All this is not okay. You don’t go around slapping people like this, irl.

But then, it’s acceptable in their world! All I can say is, let’s not derive inspiration from itv.

Now that you're saying this...

In this show har musibat ka ek hi hal hai slap karo ...

The slap chain goes on...

Not to forget during the pregnancy track poor Farhad has gone to VD politely asking what's the matter and in return has gotten a telling slap from him....

He slapped nikhil too when he tried to find Pall

And our amma has slapped her children especially Raghav multiple times even if it was not necessary, just to show her anger and disappointment...

These were the elders of the show...

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Yes how can I forget the glorious SlapFest

Raghav getting free slaps from everyone..

He was like a punching bag,

After 12 I lost count actually....

Amma had hit him umpteen times just to show her anger and disappointment..

Thankfully it is stopped now....

So they have started Beating parade ..

Anyways let's hit Raghav with slaps, sticks and nails..

Coz he is so strong, and wolverine

IKR

At every point they are making violence as a point of fun

And not to forgot slapping Farhad out of nowhere

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thanks for this post!

I expressed the same concerns in the EDT but I will repeat some here.

If they want to show people hitting each other, that's their call (I doubt they will listen to our feedback), but what bothers me is making it appear as if it's comedy. It never is funny no matter who's hitting and who's being hit.

And as many have said, if the roles/genders were reversed the backlash would have been much more severe. Speaking of spouses, I just cannot see how you maintain dignity in a relationship if there is violence which is not just easily forgotten the next day but also normalized. If you must still show it as meaningful to the scene, just cut out the comedy background score. That's the least they can do.

Thank you Jean

Totally agree with you ...

Violence in certain circumstances is cool , good even. ( mandar - Raghav showdown )

B- I wonder the same..

See this post for ex, only few of us have come forward to speak about this ..

Coz once you start you can't go back...

You hit him, he has enough and ended giving you back..

I have seen real life ex, one Started and the other one seems to cannot bear...

The men has it worse, being physically strong even a strike is enough ...

I know they won't stop/care coz few selected ppl find it problematic, coz majority of the audience are having fun on this

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

Mhrw has a history of showing violence with no proper follow-up. Truck,slap fest, mms incidents etc .

Makers need to build on their execution skills; in the pursuit of ‘speed’, they leave a lot of things open-ended and unfinished.

Nowadays such things don’t even bother me, I expect Raghav to pull out guns impulsively out of drawers, Pallavi to bring broom/wiper/ characters to shoot bullet in roof, slap each other etc, it’s so normal in MHRW at this point that I did even mention this to someone yesterday that Raghav will get beaten up if she finds out he’s Swapnil in disguised especially after that phone call because girl is mentally tortured to that extent and knowing laziness of writers they’ll just add broom scene to convey depth of Pallavi’s feelings of anger, disappointment and frustration as acche Dialogues likhna bore karta hai humare writers ko 😆

Coming to today’s episode:

Pallavi's breakdown, dissatisfaction, fragile state of mind, annoyance, and disappointment etc were all conveyed so well by Shivangi that a stick-beating scene was completely unnecessary.

What a bad timing if it was added to provide humorous relief. They were discussing a serious issue—her mental health—and this was not the place to add unnecessary comedy and ruin the sequence's entire purpose.

The sequence would have been great without the stick-beating scene, but now the entire focus has shifted from her mental health to stick-beating.🤔

I hate how they always add unnecessary comic scenes in good romantic & emotional scenes 👎🏼 this kind of tadka is completely unnecessary and stupid .

Yep violence is the flavour of MHRW...

What's funny is our Amma and Pallavi advising Raghav to control his anger, and have the problems are created by his anger,

When they themselves like to slap and beat when getting angry or frustrated...

Writing inconsistency I would say....

B- why this crak me up...

Dialogues and action can convey enough serious anger...

Raghav's look to Keerti when she badmouthed pall..

Pall's look to Raghav in Hyderabad when he tried to serve her breakfast after the revelation of Pall being innocent...

Farhad so powerfully explaining his Anna how he did wrong....

B2- So true ppl forgetting about such an imp issue, bhool bhool and enjoying over that beating scene that's how it is dealt you see...

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

Agreed. I thought the slapfest & beating days were over with! The supposed comic relief in the show these days is beyond me. The show is suffering from the serious lack of tying up important loose ends in order to maintain continuity. Pallavi & Raghav need to have heartfelt talks about many issues. Many times the scene just ends abruptly. These days I keep my expectations at ground level before I watch.

Everything you have written is so sad and true...

I miss the Hyderabad epis where Raghav and Pall had long meaningful conversation and so much of understanding developed during that time...

Now this track is taking the toll on the very basis of their relationship...

They have forgotten who they are...

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Uproar on the large scale,

TRP going down...

Audience boycotting the serial

Anything could have happened..

Just coz he is a man, doesn't mean that it is justified and took it in a funny way...

We talk about gender rights being neutral and everything and I rarely see the same amount of reaction from ppl..

Example is this post of mine..

Less reaction, and no caring attitude

Yes because it was shown as a funny scene and often male abuse is funny only. If u would have seen Badrinath ki dulhaniya, there was a similar sequence there, in it Varun Dhawan's character gets teased/molested by men/ladyboys(I don't remember exactly) and the whole thing is shown as a funny scene, even other characters make fun of him to get teased despite being a man.

The same narrative is being followed here. Just because he is man and a husband, it's ok to get beaten up by his wife

Originally posted by: Raghav_Rao

Wahh Appi aapke aaj ke thread pe itna response, itne pages fill ho gye🤪

Anyways!😊

Glad that you made this post!

Makers should stop this now seriously! It wasn't funny at all!

It wasn't needed to be honest! Har time apna gussa, apna frustration nikalne ke liye kisi ko beat karna that too with stick, really a bad choice! Especially tab jab aapke words, aapke expressions and feelings powerful ho toh there is no need to express your anger and frustration through beating session and all!

Come on makers grow up! Yahi message dena chahte ho aap, through your show audience ko? It wasn't needed! Totally baseless!

I seriously didn't like this, it wasn't funny at all upar se adding funny bg music,spoil the whole emotions, they were feeling that time(at least for me)

And about Raghav, he also shouldn't raised raised his hand at the first place!

yup also he haven't apologize to Farhad yet! Sab bhool bhool🤔

Ughh all i want to say to Makers is, jab apni frustration gussa bol ke nikala ja sakta hai toh stick, jhadoo or wiper ki jarurat nahi hai! Har time cheeje funny nahi lagti hai. Agar aapke pas dialogue writer kam padh rahe hai toh mujhe lelo😊

Period.

See Jyoti I was expecting k koi nahi aayega, as we know Raghav k issues itne important nahi hai...

Kisiko kya padhi hai Raghav is there to play a tough guy so let him take everything .....

He doesn't provide much content for bashing or debate you see, warna yahan pr bhi debate ho rahi hoti...

And according to half of the audience he is self-obsessed, lime-light stealer, a sinner who is given to much of imp and leverage, eye-candy ....

And the other half thinks he is Hawt, charming, he is everything, he is more imp than the show, Raghav nahi toh kuch b nahi,

So in sab k beech me the real issues of this character are neglected..

Lol uske baare me baat tak nahi karna chahte, either the one sec will mock him or the others will always praise him..

So I had to come up with this, honestly now I don't expect anything..

Bahut proof dekh liye hamne...

I hope this beating thing doesn't repeat in future, not cool at all

Violence streak is so damn high in this show.

Slapping, viper hit ad now danda. It's the same as a man hitting a woman. It's wrong on all the levels.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree with your post Samreen.

I wish they didn't show her use a danda to hit him. The danda was big and hard and I am sure hurt Raghav. They could have shown several other things - broom, grabbing collar, yelling or hitting his chest. All of it would have been ok as she was extremely emotional and needed to vent out.

I also didn't like Raghav raising his hand to hit her (they have shown this once earlier as well). I think it is high time the makers stop showing violence that does not add to the storyline or narrative. This is irrespective of genders because violence in any form or manner is not acceptable.

I hope the makers realize it is not funny to make Pallavi hit Raghav - don ko biwi se mar padi. I love how Raghav indulges her but every time it doesn't sit well.

I also have reservations with all the other times violence was so casually brushed off in this show (with Raghav, Pallavi and Keerti). But since the topic is about today I will not digress.

I feel for you as you have to make such social causes posts daily as makers don't realize how casually they are treating sensitive subjects

Thank you Ren...

And I agree with you...

Her being angry like you said they could have shown her pushing him away or not letting him to come near her...

But beating with a stick as a comedy was not at all cool..

Raghav raising his hand to hit her - see I was pointing this out..... Now that pall is Beating him with stick some ppl may think it's ok if he hit her too ...

It's normalise, which shouldn't be...

B- 💯 Don ho k biwi se maar khayi to show as funny or under her control or something

Thank you I just wanted to say this coz ppl never take issues related to Raghav seriously,

Either it's mocking/ opposing him or gushing over him...