Why always a girl is termed wrong ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: -RoadsideRomeo-

This post made me emotional 🥺 Thanks. Much needed.

It is an emotional outbrust for me ... Thanks for understanding

So true 👍🏼

No means no

She has said it once and that clearly means the consent wasnt given

No man or woman has any right to touch anyone else without their consent .

And no excuse can change that fact , nothing at all

Also - we women need to support each other through the atrocities , not make it harder

Thank you for the post 🤗

If you enter into a snake's den & get bitten dont cry foul.

Who is blaming girl here ?

But when the person is creepy and cross his limits kuch tho reaction ho but nahi madam pallu stood freeze

Pallu is not weak

Swanpnil ke saat she held a knife but with Mandy why freeze can’t she call someone like amrutha or just leave by pushing Mandy

Well kuch tho reflex ho

🤷🏻‍♂️😡😡allowing him to plate her sarees what nonsense

We all faced such thing in college and bus but hum to slap karte te bhai utna nahi kar sakta

Problem is that Pallavi can stand her ground with everyone but the Deshmukhs. She needs to stand up to them and remain that way. Look at last time she told VD off & now she has made a joke of herself running behind them. On top of that there is Mandhar who is a psycho. (pyscho is the word Pallavi used to descibe him)

We are saying women should be careful when person is creepy

Couldn’t she call out members of the family or just push him away for once

Kuch tho reflex ho

When she can do for swapnil she can do for Mandy

If he crosses the limit further what will she do keep freezing 🤷🏻‍♂️😡🤮🤮

Come on pallu is way too strong than this

Rubbish tracks are thrown on us

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Who is blaming girl here ?

But when the person is creepy and cross his limits kuch tho reaction ho but nahi madam pallu stood freeze

Pallu is not weak

Swanpnil ke saat she held a knife but with Mandy why freeze can’t she call someone like amrutha or just leave by pushing Mandy

Well kuch tho reflex ho

🤷🏻‍♂️😡😡allowing him to plate her sarees what nonsense

We all faced such thing in college and bus but hum to slap karte te bhai utna nahi kar sakta

Some people’s reflex is to freeze. Of course women should he strong and be able to fight off such creeps but sometimes they do not. That doesn’t mean that one fails to do so because they are weak is blamed. And saying that Pallavi is strong, several woman who are normally strong can also freeze when being harassed. I also don’t get what women are not weak has to do with this. Some men are weak and some women are weak. Just because they are weak it is their fault that they are assaulted? Being harassed by stranger like Swapnil is different from being harassed by a person like Mandhaar who is a part of their family and is also threatening your and your mother’s life. And it’s weird that Raghav has anything to do with this. Being harassed doesn’t mean you are a cheater. She didn’t want it so she didn’t cheat.

Even if he did worse, Pallavi would still be a victim.

So I’m assuming you blame Raghav for being stared at by Sulo because he should have covered up when she came in and so he was cheating on Pallavi?

Originally posted by: Cinderella100

Problem is that Pallavi can stand her ground with everyone but the Deshmukhs. She needs to stand up to them and remain that way. Look at last time she told VD off & now she has made a joke of herself running behind them. On top of that there is Mandhar who is a psycho. (pyscho is the word Pallavi used to descibe him)

I agree that she needs to stand her ground with the Deshmukhs. Her behavior is some tracks, especially abortion tracks is proof of that. That being said I doubt this is about standing ground against the Deshmukhs, this is about feeling helpless when you are assaulted because your assaulter is at a position where they can cause more harm or maybe simply panicking under such a situation. As to the lion’s den…. I have repeatedly said just because a woman decided to go out at night, get drunk, wear short clothes or in this case do her pleats in the hallway in a house of creeps it doesn’t excuse her being assaulted. She isn’t the problem. Worst case you could call her stupid and ask her to take better care of herself but that doesn’t mean you blame her. And even if she is stupid the only person harmed by her actions is her so I don’t see how blaming her makes it better.

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

Sruthy

Thanks for this!!

Well, this is nothing new in forum TBH, if you have observed then since few days, for every single thing Pallavi is getting criticized, even if she is at fault or not

But today, it was limit...rightly said, a woman goes through so much in real life

Had Pallavi made out a scene out of this, this would have fed doubt in Mandar's mind, he was already skeptical about whose picture she had burnt...she is doing to all for family.

Being a victim, she is still at the receiving end of criticism -_-

She is mentally tired now...handling the whole family and on top of that a psycho person is a task to, and she badly needs support which Raghav will going to provide her (I am expecting tomorrow he will be out in open)

Originally posted by: Mysterie_girl

Sruthy

Thanks for this!!

Well, this is nothing new in forum TBH, if you have observed then since few days, for every single thing Pallavi is getting criticized, even if she is at fault or not

But today, it was limit...rightly said, a woman goes through so much in real life

Had Pallavi made out a scene out of this, this would have fed doubt in Mandar's mind, he was already skeptical about whose picture she had burnt...she is doing to all for family.

Being a victim, she is still at the receiving end of criticism -_-

She is mentally tired now...handling the whole family and on top of that a psycho person is a task to, and she badly needs support which Raghav will going to provide her (I am expecting tomorrow he will be out in open)

I agree she is mentally tired now .. poor girl .. can see it on her face today .. her expressions are bang on .. like whom to call .. whom to tell ? Shivangi hats off 👏

Absolutely she needs her husbands support ( any woman would at this point ) and Raghav will very well do that ..

He has seen it with his own eyes now .. he will for sure own it up for wifey .. waiting for it