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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: hapc

Telling people to take precautions is ok. Saying that people must trash their harasser is also ok. But if they fail it doesn't make them responsible. I agree crime will continue which is why we must keep calling them out. Many people in such situation do freeze irl. In fact everything that is being said on the forum could be immensely triggering for them. So judging someone's response to being assaulted or precautions is wrong. It is an issue and we are definitely not creating an issue which doesn't exist. I have read about rape trials where judges have excused the action of rapists for things like the clothes the woman was wearing or lack of precautions she took so I'm saying that such things definitely exist.

Itz does exist yaar it does 😔

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: hapc

Telling people to take precautions is ok. Saying that people must trash their harasser is also ok. But if they fail it doesn't make them responsible. I agree crime will continue which is why we must keep calling them out. Many people in such situation do freeze irl. In fact everything that is being said on the forum could be immensely triggering for them. So judging someone's response to being assaulted or precautions is wrong. It is an issue and we are definitely not creating an issue which doesn't exist. I have read about rape trials where judges have excused the action of rapists for things like the clothes the woman was wearing or lack of precautions she took so I'm saying that such things definitely exist.

It doesnt make them responsible for harassment but they r responsible for there non action. Let me be clear. No one is saying she was harrased because of anything she did. It doesnt work that way. Ppl r sick to do these things and it doesnt matter what u do or not but they will do dt. So harassment is not there fault but what u do in response is on u.

And yes ppl freeze IRL. But this wasnt sudden or for the first time. And IRL too freezing dont happen when u expect it. It just not about harassment. Humans have tendency to get in shock on any sudden thing. It can be as simple as a scary sudden boo. But if u expect or know and den also u don't do sn u r not absolved of responsibility.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: lateuser1234

It doesnt make them responsible for harassment but they r responsible for there non action. Let me be clear. No one is saying she was harrased because of anything she did. It doesnt work that way. Ppl r sick to do these things and it doesnt matter what u do or not but they will do dt. So harassment is not there fault but what u do in response is on u.

And yes ppl freeze IRL. But this wasnt sudden or for the first time. And IRL too freezing dont happen when u expect it. It just not about harassment. Humans have tendency to get in shock on any sudden thing. It can be as simple as a scary sudden boo. But if u expect or know and den also u don't do sn u r not absolved of responsibility.

She could have also been silent because she was afraid that something would happen to her or aai if she retaliated. I believe that even if you fail to fight back because of shock, or trauma(even if it is expected) or because you are scared of being hurt more or your family being hurt you are absolved of responsibility. Basically unless you want it to happen, you aren't responsible.. I doubt you can convince me otherwise and I doubt that I can also change your opinion so I guess I'll just leave it here.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: hapc

She could have also been silent because she was afraid that something would happen to her or aai if she retaliated. I believe that even if you fail to fight back because of shock, or trauma(even if it is expected) or because you are scared of being hurt more or your family being hurt you are absolved of responsibility. Basically unless you want it to happen, you aren't responsible.. I doubt you can convince me otherwise and I doubt that I can also change your opinion so I guess I'll just leave it here.

Agree I cant be cool with absolving ur responsibility because of fear.

And if u want it then its not harrasment.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: lateuser1234

Agree I cant be cool with absolving ur responsibility because of fear.

And if u want it then its not harrasment.

Basically I meant that I won't blame someone for their harassment. But yeah. Agree to disagree here.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

Exactly... My heart goes for her totally

Agree she has made quite a few mistakes n hurt anna but even she wasn't enjoying d times that were around she was pained too.

But yeah now that she s really trapped i feel bad for her. No one deserves such thing. Poor girl handling a creep stalker n now a awara cook who happens to be her own disguised husband. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣


Too much on d platter.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Agree she has made quite a few mistakes n hurt anna but even she wasn't enjoying d times that were around she was pained too.

But yeah now that she s really trapped i feel bad for her. No one deserves such thing. Poor girl handling a creep stalker n now a awara cook who happens to be her own disguised husband. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣


Too much on d platter.

Seriously the way she said Mujhse kisika murder hojaayega 🤣🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

Seriously the way she said Mujhse kisika murder hojaayega 🤣🤣

She has completelt turned to MRS DON..

Apne hi rang me diya hai uske sajaan ne use poori tarah se. 🥰😍🤩🥰

I want a saree scene with Raghav. N pallu should enjoy d feeling. May be tab sab ko thodi shanti milegi. 😰😢😰


Too much yaar. Very disappointed in d MF topics. Everyone s bashing d poor girl. 😒😒😒

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Posted: 4 years ago
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In this mess I completely forgot the dialogue which Anna said to skd.. something hot who makes my anger cold .. have to see it again ..

was too hilarious 😆 .. I loved it 🤣

U remember ??

Not able to see now .. will see later and update
@sruthypradeep

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Posted: 4 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

She has completelt turned to MRS DON..

Apne hi rang me diya hai uske sajaan ne use poori tarah se. 🥰😍🤩🥰

I want a saree scene with Raghav. N pallu should enjoy d feeling. May be tab sab ko thodi shanti milegi. 😰😢😰


Too much yaar. Very disappointed in d MF topics. Everyone s bashing d poor girl. 😒😒😒

Totally.. but after my outbrust now feeling relieved 🤣.. pura bol Diya Jo Dil Mai tha. Bus ..

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