Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 73

Originally posted by: deeps07

No no no..sympathise with dhara..makers want us to bite our nails wondering if dhara goes to comma becz shiva divorced ravi...poor dhara..😡

comma mein nahi gai to kahin aur bhej do..........100 times flatline ho use ..........i will be 🥳dream come true wali feeling hogi.........but dhara ke liye msg hai

Originally posted by: mpks1

Now that Dhara is pregnant, Raavi will come back running to Pandya Niwas to help. Her self respect will go out the window😕All those dialogues she said about Dhara will be conveniently forgotten by both the parties and that's how PS writers work. They can't remember what they wrote a day ago, how will they remember what they wrote 2 months ago

Again she will prove her self respect higher than marriage but lower than Dhara

Sooooo her marriage lower than Dhara.

Shiva used to prove that before but now he is taking a stand for their happiness in his own Warped way.

Originally posted by: majoni03

Makers should tell krutika desai to stop posting spoilers then😆. Atleast kuch toh suspense rehta agar wo spoiler post nahi karti toh

Atleast some buzz is created- if they remove those then people might forget PS 😆

Are they getting new promos on TV?

When mami asked for raavis things and Suman pointed out the sacks lol like how insensitive Suman is when she is pretending she wants shivi to work out but then puts raavis things in a sack lol mami dragging the sacks lol like shiva does at the store lol

Originally posted by: manny136

When mami asked for raavis things and Suman pointed out the sacks lol like how insensitive Suman is when she is pretending she wants shivi to work out but then puts raavis things in a sack lol mami dragging the sacks lol like shiva does at the store lol

Originally posted by: deeps07

But one thing I have to admit..ravi knowing abt shivas insecurity doesn't surprise me..what surprises me is who doesn't.. his family?..I mean, the guy was literally speaking clearly to their face that he was not worthy of ravi..she deserved better..what more should they hear to understand he is having troubles... These pathetic family were so selfish that they never cared what he felt when he told it. They brushed it all aside as if shiva was having a phase. ..and they were more interested in room planning and SR decorations.. each and every time shiva taunted ravi in public he mentioned abt him being inferior to her. How difficult what that to understand. 😕

And they all call themselves educated😕

I am not saying this to prove I am right but with every facial expression on my kids face I will be able to tell if they are happy or sad or worrying about something or thinking a lot,without both of them telling me anything about it. Nothing escapes my attention. They both have told several times to my husband that it is difficult to hide anything from Mom😆If you want to be a good parent you have to learn to be observant and vigilant with your kids.
In that sense I would say Mami is much better than Dhara or Suman in recognizing her daughter's pain, whether she does anything about it or not is a different question.

Here Dhara always thinks everything is hunky dory even when the problem is explicitly told to her😕

Originally posted by: deeps07

Right now after reading LU. I am finding everyone except shiva as junglee janwar. 🤪😆

kitna mara usko

gautam.......

Originally posted by: _charu_

Why will she say "tu acha hai" when he was never good to her? We want her to look for goodness in a person who character assassinated her , insulted her ? She won't be able to. I have been ranting abt it frm a long time , when he never showed any feeling /love/care/concern , how on earth will she understand him? She will see his golden heart only when he shows it. If he shows his worst side to her ,which girl would understand? I think he expects every girl to be as perfect as dhara. I dun think anyone loves him as much as gombi, yet he doesn't "understand" this self pity behavior so leave them also, hate them, insult them so that they disown him, will he ?

Only good thing imo she said was "try to change yourself " . If he thinks tel masale is such a big thing , he can try taking a bath and change his clothes often. Does it take so much? Like...pyar mein change hona..omg..that's not love ? pyar mein log aise hi badal jaate hain and its not even a conscious thing...He will get raavi , he will get his pyari family bk (although that's NOT the issue raavi has with him) . Fixing external issues is not a big deal but his anger and complexes need counselling . ThIS can't be fixed so easily. Thats why the family also Brushes off this tel masale rant bec they know shiva never bothered abt it. Poora tamasha Bana rakha hai badboo ka🤣 Use a deo . No divorce, everyone happy.

Bold- This I agree.

Shiva has shown her care many times in his own warped way. I understand Raavi is dobi and probably couldn’t read that at all. But okay. I give u that point. I wouldn’t bother to defend a character who is so warped in his thinking.

But letting Raavi be free of all faults?

I am sorry. Marriage needs two people. Her saying compromise adjustment etc and yet never defending him when especially needed escalated this trench much hastily. The woman is also to blame along with the man. He might be the most short tempered guy in the whole show but she is also quite sharp tongued in a very cutting way. If he is to be blamed. She too is.

Ok when gaumbi is hitting shiva he warns who will stop him will get hit too lol and he pushes Dev so hard he fell loll Krish also trying to hold gaumbi back and rishita telling Dev to back off or he might get hit lol these clown I tell you lol

Raavi says this pained her more than her broken marriage with Dev. Yet her pain was beautifully shown in the former. I wish there was/is scene with her breaking her Mangalsutra and wiping off Sindoor too. But based on BTS we know it will be adorned on her forehead brighter than she has in the past.

On a separate note, of they showed a heart break scene like the wedding (sans suicide attempt), we would question her feelings because it would be inconsistent with her character this far.