Does he talk to dhara gombi dev krish suman rishita kaka like that ?
That's what I am saying..its not in his character ... Then why r the insults reserved for raavi only? She thinks he hates her bec she is mami ki behen ki beti . When did he show love/care/respect in any form , for her to think otherwise ? To believe that he is NOT a jungli gawar? She still feels for him.and feels that if he is sorry , she will come bk..n raavi is the bad person in all this? I am surprised Which mistake does she need to realize ?
I understand his insecurities , everyone needs validation from their loved ones . But some effort he needs to make bec he has treated raavi really bad in the past. After so much , raavi is willing to come bk, if he shows some love , she will give her heart and soul to this relationship.
First thing...
Ofcourse ravi is not the bad person in all this...not at all..but..neither is shiva..both are a bit immature and very new to understand love..they r not able to understand each other yet..lack of understanding doesn't make anyone a bad person..they need time or help or just luck to be in a position that they understand each other.
I dnt understand why one has to be right while thr other wrong..in life its usually both r wrong in one way or the other most of the time...
And abt shiva talking with others like he does with ravi..until sneha i would say he talks like that only..atleast to younger ones..remember how many times he was talking like that to krish since the beginning...even rishitha...whn he looses it he speaks what he thinks without filter .that is shiva..yes..he doesn't talk like that to Suman gombi or dhara..they r more of parental figures so there is a difference. And dev is more like am elder twin to him..a bit of respect of an elder but not enough to not give back and take all his BS..
His rude behaviour before marrg...I dnt understand that to be honest..unless it is becz of jealousy abt her attraction towards dev, I really dnt think her relation with mami is a digestible reason for his behaviour. So I agree with u on that..but both shiva and ravi are past it now. Their equation has changed since the muktheshwar.
I do agree that his behaviour towards ravi was really rude after sneha..and before wedding also..after sneha..I know it is not reasonable..but it is wht it is..he behaved that way..like he hated her mere presence...but thats not his real feelings for ravi..he buried his real feelings to face what he thinks is the truth..that ravi will never like him..
Even though he is unreasonable..but I can't help but feel that I have real experience with this behaviour. People tend to be rude when they r hurt deep from heart..their rudeness need not be physical..but taunts and distance is always there..mist of them they dnt even mean it...and I call this as a reaction rather than his action..his rudeness towards ravi was a reaction of the broken heart knowing he can never be worthy of her..it is wrong to do that..but still some people can't control it...if thts his jungleepan then I m sure many so called gentleman who is emotionally wounded would turn junglee ..just like how ravi did to shiva..just like how gombi did to janardhan. It is not right..but it is a human reaction..
And ravi doesn't know what he is going thru to understand why he is reacting this way..she doesn't know his feelings for her..I am not expecting her to understand his behaviour unless she knows what his real feelings for her is.
@bold..they both have went wrong in the mandir scene..ravi never understood what was bothering shiva..and supported her friends without trying to know what really happened. She has already heard how they were making fun of him while on the walk .so when shiva says they were cheap people even though she might not agree but she could have clarified and tried to get tonthe root of that fight rather than support them and take that shiva was fighting with them just becz they were men and her friends. ..
I knw. Shiva has been rude in so many ways until then,it's natural for ravi to loose patience and do this. That's why I dnt blame ravi...both went wrong in the mandir..they both lost it..both were hurt..insulted..humiliated..and in that they both hurt each other too.
Nothing that happened between them is right..but this does happen when there is lack of understanding among couples. Sometimes things go downhill frm bad to worse ..thats what is happening with shivi ..both needs to evolve out of this. And they can't do it without understanding each other..
PS. .sorry..this was a long long rant. I feel we r judging the characters a lot..but in real we do see such characters. Though not this much dramatic,this definitely happens...mostly during the initial years of marrg..ie when couple begins to see each others worst side.. Once they face it. accept it..Deal with it..and then overcome it. Then they will have understanding among themselves..and that's what shiva and ravi needs to do too..
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