Originally posted by: -abz-
Yes. My cousin's ex- husband. Her family convinently planned an arranged marriage for her; she was ready too. On the time of engagement, I felt something off about him. She was working and he didn't want her to work. I was hell stubborn asking her to break the marriage. She is the bholi bhali girl who gives in for her family. She was reluctant, I made a hungama...they didn't listen cause engagement got over card chap gaya blah blah blah. They asked my parents to control my tongue and manners toh gusse mein I didn't attend her marriage. My parents tried their best to make them understand, I begged her to not get married to him. She didn't listen a bit. The vibes were so strong.
Sab hone ke baad they get to know that he is a drug addict and an abusive asshole. She kept that shit for herself for almost 4 months. One day, they got to know and bada hungama hua. At that point my anger knew no limits, she is my closest cousin and watching her destroy her life for her family sounded like a crap to me. That guy never left her. Phone pe baat karo toh uske saamne, she wasn't allowed to speak for more than ten minutes, khana khao toh uske saamne, bathroom bhi akele jaana nehi deta tha. He became so over the board possessive that he bit his own mother's fingers and spit it down in front of her. He slapped her own brother for trying take her away from him. He used bang her house, screaming infront of the people asking her to come out. (Those days are a night mare)
She stayed in our house, hiding away from him for days. Phir domestic violence case pe they booked for a divorce....the case is still running in the court.
In the end of the day, her family said ki he behaved like that because of me. 🤪
I lost hope in marriage and shit after that. She didn't get time for herself, space bhi nehi diya and now they are talking about second marriage. One buddi was asking her to adjust with him cause marriage was over. They want to secure her life it seems cause only marriage will safe a woman.
Baat ka bhatangad hone ke baad she lost her it and told them to stay out of her life. If she did that before, things would have changed. Now they are blaming me for her change of attitude.