Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #82|Samajhna aur Na Samajhna - Page 20

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi said this in episode# 110 to Rishita when she made fun of his clothes and used his shirt to mop the floor.

“Shiva jo bhi hai, jaisa bhi hai, woh meri problem hai”😕

Their love story has taken such a drastic turn that she now says she can’t understand him😕

Looks like haveli Raavi atleast defended him against Rishita’s insults. Don’t know why the makers had to ruin the little progress they made and regress so much that they are making tje audience feel that there is no future in this marriage.
Little progress many members saw in today’s episode (not much for me) will go out the window when Shiva serves the divorce papers and Raavi signs it😕

I really don’t know why the makers have to show such extreme steps in their separation.

It's the unpopular opinion going by ML's poll, but I didn't see much progress from raavi's side either, based on whatever flashbacks she saw. Her feelings are still looking wishy washy to me 😆

I agree with you that Raavi at least defended him against others who called him jungli and gawar during the haveli days. But she seems to firmly believe that herself as well. I need a proper monologue from her before I can accept any "progress" from her side regarding what she feels for Shiva/her marriage 😆

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I am afraid to voice out my opinion. Lol but what I wish never happens so you'll can be in peace!!

Dont worry, what I'm wishing for isn't happening either 😆

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

It's the unpopular opinion going by ML's poll, but I didn't see much progress from raavi's side either, based on whatever flashbacks she saw. Her feelings are still looking wishy washy to me 😆

I agree with you that Raavi understood him far more during the haveli days, and at least defended him against others who called him jungli and gawar. But she seems to firmly believe that herself as well. I need a proper monologue from her before I can accept any "progress" from her side regarding what she feels for Shiva/her marriage 😆

Agree 100% serving divorce papers and signing it leads to a lighting the bulb moment for both😆 I am not asking them to reunite ASAP, want them to slowly start seeing this relationship can work and inch towards mending it. Please this moping around is just getting annoying and boring.

Originally posted by: mpks1

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Agree 100% serving divorce papers and signing it leads to a lighting the bulb moment for both😆 I am not asking them to reunite ASAP, want them to slowly start seeing this relationship can work and inch towards mending it. Please this moping around is just getting annoying and boring.

I'm hoping for some epiphanies for both after they sign the divorce papers too.. maybe the impact of what they have done will hit them then and they will actually start working on their relationship -- hopefully together, not one-sided like it has been happening till now😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

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Agree 100% serving divorce papers and signing it leads to a lighting the bulb moment for both😆 I am not asking them to reunite ASAP, want them to slowly start seeing this relationship can work and inch towards mending it. Please this moping around is just getting annoying and boring.

@bold..this is the best way to show it..but they always give too much drama and then some khurafati situation were suddenly both of them understand and confess. It would be nice to see something normal in the show. Like gradual mutual growth in understanding ..

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi said this in episode# 110 to Rishita when she made fun of his clothes and used his shirt to mop the floor.

“Shiva jo bhi hai, jaisa bhi hai, woh meri problem hai”😕

Their love story has taken such a drastic turn that she now says she can’t understand him😕

Looks like haveli Raavi atleast defended him against Rishita’s insults. Don’t know why the makers had to ruin the little progress they made and regress so much that they are making tje audience feel that there is no future in this marriage.
Little progress many members saw in today’s episode (not much for me) will go out the window when Shiva serves the divorce papers and Raavi signs it😕

I really don’t know why the makers have to show such extreme steps in their separation.

So here is my take on it: I don’t think Raavi defended him out of love or respect back then. It was just something she said to avoid having that conversation with Rishita. I feel like she either defends him because he is her husband and the insult indirectly affects her. Or she doesn’t defend him at all (when it comes to her friends).

The same thing that was happening then is still happening now (at least from Shiva’s POV) - She wants to be his wife and a Pandya Bahu but Shiva wants a more wholesome relationship. Even then he told her that Rishita doesn’t know him but Raavi has known him all her life. She should know that he doesn’t care about dressing a certain way. He’s still saying the same thing now. Not justifying Shiva’s actions… just using his words to describe the situation.

I think the main difference now is that the emotions involved (at least from Shiva’s side) are a lot more volatile and the makers want to make it more dramatic. I’m not happy with how they have written the track but I’ve made peace with it simply because it’s better than the past few tracks. Let’s see where they go from here.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

It's the unpopular opinion going by ML's poll, but I didn't see much progress from raavi's side either, based on whatever flashbacks she saw. Her feelings are still looking wishy washy to me 😆

I agree with you that Raavi understood him far more during the haveli days, and at least defended him against others who called him jungli and gawar. But she seems to firmly believe that herself as well. I need a proper monologue from her before I can accept any "progress" from her side regarding what she feels for Shiva/her marriage 😆

I don’t see it either. I feel like everything else either makes sense or I can try and work out a thought process for that character but when it comes to Raavi, I have no clue 😆 I’m totally lost as to what her feelings are which is why even the balcony scene didn’t work for me. Shiva has a grocery list of things he has done wrong but I know where he stands. Raavi… I can’t seem to understand her.

I think when they were in the haveli they were so insulated it was just the family all the drama was around that that they didn't get to live day to day issues and also deal with the rest of society you can say. Since they got married they have been living in the haveli for over a month in PS timeline and now that they are back real world is starting to hit them. People making snide comments especially raavis friends, aunties gossiping about them etc before it was just them and the family now there is the outer world and normal day problems. The moment they let others into their relationship problems started.

Anyone talked about: Why did shiva lock the room? tala chabi & all.

HE could have just decided to sleep outside, bag +kapde+ lock kyoon 😆

Was it to stop new bed takeover by piddibhabhi?

Edit: Since he packed bag & all, won't mind if he shifts to new balcony. use that part of terrace as his majnuniwas.

Originally posted by: spdp

Anyone talked about: Why did shiva lock the room? tala chabi & all.

HE could have just decided to sleep outside, bag +kapde+ lock kyoon 😆

Was it to stop new bed takeover by piddibhabhi?

I also wondered why Shiva locked up a khaali room 🤣

@bold: ho sakta hai 🤣🤣

Or maybe he wanted to stop MBA topper from doing some adbhut construction activities inside his room 🤣