Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #82|Samajhna aur Na Samajhna - Page 19

Originally posted by: Miss.M

Because there seems to be more people here... Quick question, what name was determined for Raavi's doggy dog friend who likes her and was told to run away with her?? (I obviously remember the doggy dog part 🤣🤣🤣.. Can't be bothered to watch the episode hence why asking here 😊😊)

He was first Rahul, then the makers realized that name is already taken so it changed to Rohan 😆

Coming to Gaumbi, I think Piu summed it up perfectly. I didn’t think his words were out of character either.

Adding a bit more from my end:

I think the brothers share a complex relationship with one another. They all love each other immensely but there is also a distance. Gaumbi is an really flawed character but I have a certain soft spot for him because I can relate to him. Being the eldest, I have brothers who are a decade younger than me. My parents always used the excuse “you needed someone to play with” so we gave you brothers. But that clearly doesn’t make sense. We share a huge age gap where I’m torn between being a guardian and being a sister. I love them but I would be lying if I said there weren’t sacrifices involved… ones that left negative impacts on my life. We do certain things out of love but after some time it can feel like a burden. I was lucky that my parents were actively able to do things. Gaumbi didn’t have that luxury. Even then, I was expected to do so much and sometimes still am. Though, these days I very openly oppose to it. I remember rushing out from college classes to pick up one of my brothers from school almost every day. And then studying at night to make up for the portions I missed. It was a one hour commute from my college to my brother’s school. My mom was injured in a car accident but thankfully recovered much sooner than anyone expected. My dad would pick up one brother and I would pick up the other. Forget having a social life in college, I could barely attend classes. But long story short, I understand the frustration and bitterness that seeps in. After a while, you just wish things would fall into place and everyone would just do what needs to be done to ensure peace.

Although, I feel Gaumbi could have handled the conversation in a much different way, I can also understand his frustration. Also, he loves his brothers a lot and sometimes it’s difficult when your younger siblings fail to see their potential. You wish you could knock some sense into them. And when you can’t, you feel even more frustrated and angry.

His initial anger made sense to me. Gaumbi has seen Raavi grow up before his eyes and I’m sure he was shocked at the accusation. But once Shiva explained his side, Gaumbi should have sat down and lent an ear to just listen and not judge. But it’s easier said than done. Let’s not forget Gaumbi was completely okay with them leading on Raavi up until the wedding and keeping her in the dark. He is as flawed as the rest.

One thing I do enjoy is playing devil’s advocate when it comes to the different characters of PS. They are all flawed and make for interesting discussions. In the past, I have tried to understand Dev and now I’m doing the same with Gaumbi. I feel like this track has so much more potential for conversation when compared to the past few tracks.

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

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🤔 What are you reserving the post for Esha? You've got me curious already 🤣

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

He was first Rahul, then the makers realized that name is already taken so it changed to Rohan 😆

Awesome I'm going to go use that now 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

🤔 What are you reserving the post for Esha? You've got me curious already 🤣

The box was so tiny at the bottom of the page so I couldn’t type 🤣 but if you edit a post the box is big again 🤣 IF and it’s quirks 🤣

Now I can’t tag 🤣 wow IF 😆

In mohit's insta story...its late night shooting..and the scene looks like somnath temple..funnily somnath temple is next door to pandya house and mamis house. 😆

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Why Shiva is always about he not being Raavi first priority.

He too never wanted Raavi.

If Raavi was only about Dev he too was only about his hatred for Mami.

If he would have been nicer to her she won't have seen Dev.

I understand Shiva's turmoil but he too is like Raavi if she is baiming him for her mistakes he too is blaiming her for no reason.

Aise pretend karta jese he always wanted Raavi and she ignored him and went to someone else.

Pretends like he was sweetest to her and she never understood him.

Exactly.. thats why I want shivas feelings to have budded since childhood..his hatred towards raavi to be based from her closeness to dev rather than just being a relative to mami...

I mean Shiva's hatred for ravi was also not much justified when she as a kid was also so supportive and loving to dhara and pandya family...

it wouldn't be justified unless there was more to it..when they were kids,it would have been just jealousy in friendship which he might have termed it as his hatred for her being mami ki been ki beti ..

Raavi said this in episode# 110 to Rishita when she made fun of his clothes and used his shirt to mop the floor.

“Shiva jo bhi hai, jaisa bhi hai, woh meri problem hai”😕

Their love story has taken such a drastic turn that she now says she can’t understand him😕

Looks like haveli Raavi atleast defended him against Rishita’s insults. Don’t know why the makers had to ruin the little progress they made and regress so much that they are making tje audience feel that there is no future in this marriage.
Little progress many members saw in today’s episode (not much for me) will go out the window when Shiva serves the divorce papers and Raavi signs it😕

I really don’t know why the makers have to show such extreme steps in their separation.