Disgracing women - Page 4

Originally posted by: Saumya96

Beautifully you've written. At this time they have to be practical and not emotional. This I have said yesterday too that if Samar take his decision for abroad then it would be help for Anupama's academy as well as for his career as well as for the 20L problem. But whatever they are trying to show is just tangent to my brain, not even a tangent.! If they are showing practical and realistic problems then their solutions should also be practical and realistic. So that we viewers learn from it. Agar aise me bhashan dene lagu na kisi bank me jakar Anupama jaise to mujhe waha se bhaga denge, no one entertains like this.!

Sometimes kavya makes sense more than heroine of the show...20 lac is huge amount ... taking loan based on two start ups is not practical also in recent covid wave in two years so many small business owners went through tough times... if Samar is getting the opportunity to do something for his family he must think about them too being with family is important but sometimes to fulfil our duties it's quite practical to leave home for few months and also pakhi in future if gets married than she will leave the house Anupama even in tough times didn't went to her mother's house so what it's because she has responsibilities of her ex in laws

Anyway in real life with emotions you need to be practical to handle various situations

Like even in Kinjal's mattee Anu is motivating her this is good but V must know how in MNC this things can be solved via hr or official complaint . Because at the end of the day so many women face this issue and not everyone can go and beat the men in cabin and invite more trouble but smartly how to handle this situation and get culprit punished

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

Sometimes kavya makes sense more than heroine of the show...20 lac is huge amount ... taking loan based on two start ups is not practical also in recent covid wave in two years so many small business owners went through tough times... if Samar is getting the opportunity to do something for his family he must think about them too being with family is important but sometimes to fulfil our duties it's quite practical to leave home for few months and also pakhi in future if gets married than she will leave the house Anupama even in tough times didn't went to her mother's house so what it's because she has responsibilities of her ex in laws

Anyway in real life with emotions you need to be practical to handle various situations

Like even in Kinjal's mattee Anu is motivating her this is good but V must know how in MNC this things can be solved via hr or official complaint . Because at the end of the day so many women face this issue and not everyone can go and beat the men in cabin and invite more trouble but smartly how to handle this situation and get culprit punished

Mujhe kavya ke liye hamesha yahi lagta hai ki sometimes she speaks the truth but in a wrong way. Wo agar dhang se bataye, bina irritating awaz me chillaye, bina taunting ke, then she will actually put some practical solutions in the family.

Whatever you've said about money and loan this all is absolutely correct. But yeh Shahs to shayad koi aur hi duniya me rehte hai, for them I think covid also doesn't exist.!

In Kinjal's matter too I am expecting Vanraj to take a proper decision, but looking at the PRECAP I don't think it is possible. There are certain procedures in MNCs where you have to handle molestation and ragging in that way. It's not that we have to sit quietly and observe and wait for the justice. It's their way of having solutions.

Originally posted by: Saumya96

Mujhe kavya ke liye hamesha yahi lagta hai ki sometimes she speaks the truth but in a wrong way. Wo agar dhang se bataye, bina irritating awaz me chillaye, bina taunting ke, then she will actually put some practical solutions in the family.

Whatever you've said about money and loan this all is absolutely correct. But yeh Shahs to shayad koi aur hi duniya me rehte hai, for them I think covid also doesn't exist.!

In Kinjal's matter too I am expecting Vanraj to take a proper decision, but looking at the PRECAP I don't think it is possible. There are certain procedures in MNCs where you have to handle molestation and ragging in that way. It's not that we have to sit quietly and observe and wait for the justice. It's their way of having solutions.

Yes that's my point also why can't they show something sensible there was a show shaktiman when he had super power to solve all major problems but Anu is a mere human what if she is lead sometimes she can be wrong or does not have proper solution and ask others for suggestions....kavya is a cheater so she should be treated like one but if V us treated with all the respect than why not kavya and V also toshu and most importantly rakhi and her husband are the one who needs to know this no matter what kinjal said Anu must involve o this people also as they have experience, have full right to know what kinjal is going through and can also provide practical solutions not only dil ka achcha is the only criteria to be able to solve all problems you need mind resources and information proper guidance to fight people like Dholakia who are on higher post.....also rakhi gets all the news of office personal issues of shah family but she didn't get the news her daughter left the job

Makers must act responsibly when showing a wide spread problem , even financial problems should be solved in real manner not like some magic happens and problems get solved or they give speech and other one changes their heart and admit their miatakes

One does not come programmed to solve all lifes problems. I handle CSA instances. It is the iediate family that urges a child a youngperson to be silent. It is not that they empathesise with even a child. How we discern matters and what stance one takes stems from ones values and beliefs

Rakhi, Toshu and Kavya worry more on the perception of others. They will not stand up for kinjal. Toshu looked at Kinjal as a means to climb the social ladder is the plot now . Kinjal leaves her husband and has left her parents already, pramod has never come visiting his daughter whose marriage he didn't attend. Rakhi comes to Shah house for entertainment and by crafting Vara and Toshu poles apart is the same as showing Anu different from Baa. kavya or Rakhi Dave. The story revolves around Anupama . The family Kinjal chose ove the Daves and Toshu.

Based on the dialogues between her and Anupama, I got the feeling that Dholakia's innuendos were more than what was shown to viewers. Also, it looks like Dholakia insulted Kinjal in front of other staff members because she resisted his advances.

I know I have said this few times, but I wish the story showed Kinjal handling the harassment problem herself. Her concerns and reluctance sharing it with the family is justified, but not quitting work.

Am I expecting too much in hoping that the story of resolving this problem will be depicted in a somewhat realistic manner, even if Anupama takes it in her hands?

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Based on the dialogues between her and Anupama, I got the feeling that Dholakia's innuendos were more than what was shown to viewers. Also, it looks like Dholakia insulted Kinjal in front of other staff members because she resisted his advances.

I know I have said this few times, but I wish the story showed Kinjal handling the harassment problem herself. Her concerns and reluctance sharing it with the family is justified, but not quitting work.

Am I expecting too much in hoping that the story of resolving this problem will be depicted in a somewhat realistic manner, even if Anupama takes it in her hands?

Ha yes we are expecting too much from the makers.! They are not going to show any realistic solution. I was expecting Kinjal to fight back. She was such a strong character yaar.! Why they have made her like this. In these 1-2 months, I am not at all satisfied with Kinjal's characters. Rakhi sahi bol rahi hai kya- Kinjal is Anupama 2.? 🤔🤔

Originally posted by: moonwearer

One does not come programmed to solve all lifes problems. I handle CSA instances. It is the iediate family that urges a child a youngperson to be silent. It is not that they empathesise with even a child. How we discern matters and what stance one takes stems from ones values and beliefs

Rakhi, Toshu and Kavya worry more on the perception of others. They will not stand up for kinjal. Toshu looked at Kinjal as a means to climb the social ladder is the plot now . Kinjal leaves her husband and has left her parents already, pramod has never come visiting his daughter whose marriage he didn't attend. Rakhi comes to Shah house for entertainment and by crafting Vara and Toshu poles apart is the same as showing Anu different from Baa. kavya or Rakhi Dave. The story revolves around Anupama . The family Kinjal chose ove the Daves and Toshu.

Thanks for the tag , I am really happy to see others point of view too

I didn't mean that they are better people or will provide right solution only but rakhi and pramod are her parents pramod seems like level headed person rakhi sometimes she goes over board sometimes she is nice like in pakhi missing case . We all know it depends on writers so rather than Anu handles all the things she consult each and every one than takes right decision for kinjal or let kinjal take the decision , I know Anu is lead so story must revolve around her but this plot is focused on wide spread problem women face daily so how they can handle such things how to approach family and if they show rakhi ask her to keep shut even it diees happen in real life so how they handle how they complaint to hr how legal action is taken they could have shown this plot in more sensible manner .

Every women know when something like this happen some people do taunt victim the people can be friends colleagues or family some support or some stay away because they do not want to get involved in this.

But at the end of the day how MNC handle such issues toshu, V, Rakhi knows bett so no harm in consulting them , procedure to file complaint they know better, even kinjal herself know but now she is reluctant so they can guide her and how a family fight against this things can be shown beautifully

Nothing against Anu but I have same issue with other serials also that main lead does everything alone and is always right or have best interest in their heart and somehow always makes things better

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

The support she is getting is not logical or helpful. How is this supposed to help the female viewers who could have been inspired to build good careers?

Yes, Kinjal doesn't trust Toshu, whenever he calls, instead of asking how she is, he just asks her whether she wants to stay in the relationship or not. He didn't even ask her to meet at neutral places like restaurants, to convince her. It's like he thinks the world owes to him.

Ya exactly he isn't trying to meet Kinjal and even when thye got to know about the harassment Toshu's reaction was so lame. He supported but he didn't support her strongly. Instead he encouraged her to leave the job

Originally posted by: Saumya96

Thw first thing came in my mind was- why someone smart and intelligent and strong girl like Kinjal will say that she has to quit the job. I agree she is afraid of whatever happened with her, who will not, we all girls have to face this situation at some time in our life. But then the next day she would have shared this with all and would have taken a proper action against her boss.

It didn't go well with me. Toshu kaisa bhi beta ho but he is her husband and he should know what has happened with her. Abb wo baat alag hai ki pata nahi makers Toshu ka take kaisa dikhate hai iss situation me.? 😶

As obvious it is Anupama has to be a heroine, so Toshu has had to take a backseat

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

The problem would have solved itself if Samar had accepted the assignment abroad.

So many poor people who also value family ties go and work abroad, even if its menial jobs like cab-driving, cooking, waitering or housekeeping, just because it pays in dollars/euros/dirhams instead of rupees and will help them pay off debts faster.

The same work, if they do here, will not pay enough and they will take ages to clear debts, maybe even have to pass it to the next generation. They return home after they have earned sufficiently.

But mahaan Anupamaa has two such extreme sons, one just wants to escape so that he can romance is wife at his convenience, and the other wants to just crawl back into his mother's womb like a kangaroo joey.

Not one person is decent or practical.

Maybe Hasmukh, but he is too feeble to be of substantial help.

Samar has good values but you need to be practical also. They invited a trouble themselves for showing how great they are in family values and portraying how much good Samar is.

He shouldn't stay in foreign permanently, but temporary to get an experience he can definitely go