Heartbroken - Page 3

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Bold Pooja thanks for saying this.

I wonder what kind of a person Samrat is ! Sai still can be understood when she behaves like she did today because she is too young in age and impulsive by nature.

Samrat who is said to be the protective big brother of Virat did not find it essential atleast to spare time and listen to his version. Infact he should have done that immediately after he heard the phone call one year back. How could he decide to run away listening to one sided conversation where he has no clue what the other one must be saying?

I really feel bad for Virat who was treated that way by his most loved person.

Samrat is still in shock as this is the first time he is meeting Virat after the incident. He is still enraged and it’s quite understandable. Once he calms down, I think he shall give him time and will listen to both sides of the story.

True the dialogues are off and makes no sense.

Even the newly married sai was more sensible than sai.

It's all am attempt to make virat bachara and nothing else.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold even if it is one year since all this happened, this is the first time Samrat was meeting Virat so his reaction looks quite understandable to me.

I am anyway upset with the fact that he stayed away for an year for this. This is utterly stupid and too selfish of him. I watched last night’s episode just before tonight’s episode and was about to write an episodic analysis but then joined EDT so couldn’t write it. Will tag you if I finish it and post it.

@green I had written about this in another post one day. Samrat heard what Pakhi spoke but he doesn’t know Virat’s side of the story. It could be that he connected all the dots about Virat talking about done girl and concluded that it must have been Pakhi but even then he didn’t think that he needs to confront his brother even once? I am against Samrat thinking he has freed Pakhi without officially ending it. She or anyone doesn’t deserve it for what he heard. Did he think she would have moved on? What’s the assurance? Did he try to find out if she was still living in his house or has moved out? He didn’t even care to find out about his mom, why would he do that.

Anyway, Samrat I feel should have given a benefit of doubt to Virat. If not for anything, he could have atleast fought with his brother. And even if Virat had hid it from him, wouldn’t he have thought that Virat would have actually sacrificed his love for him? What Pakhi spoke would have bothered him but what does he know as what Virat had in his mind?

He doesn’t know about the waada, wonder what would his reaction be if that comes to light.

True, he is being misunderstood by two people whom he loves a lot. Even if he has been wrong in some ways, this is all really painful.

@bold: Laksh, now that you say it this way, I can understand his POV a little bit better. But, my problem with Samrat as a whole still remains. I completely agree that it was utterly selfish and stupid of him to leave the house like this- I had bashed him a lot in a post yesterday as well. Ok, in the moment he was betrayed by Virat, the closest person to him. So, he left. He is impulsive, just like his brother. But yaar, he stayed away for an entire year. This is entirely shameless of him. He did not even think to check up on his widowed mother. In fact, he did not even melt at her pain when Sai was describing it. And, what you have said about Samrat freeing Pakhi is spot on. Despite my hatred for Pakhi, she deserves to hear that he has set her free from him. He cannot just disappear like this... he has run away from all of his problems, and is a complete coward.

Yes, exactly to Samrat giving a benefit of doubt to Virat. How can he forget that Virat is a man who loves with his whole heart and is loyal beyond measure? He knows Virat's character and how much he loves his jeeva... the very least he owed him was to hear his side of the story...all he heard was Pakhi screaming I love you on the phone... he actually has no idea about the entire situation and how Virat sacrificed his "love (barf)" for his happiness...

I made a separate post regarding this .. because I did not want to get influenced by all ur thoughts .. my initial thought after watching Ghum was

I felt it was a good episode .. no chillam Chili … obviously nothing good was spoken .. but even if words are spoken they are never understood..

Sairat have made a pact we will not understand each other ..

The first thing that was superb was Samrat 👏👏👏👏👏

I hope he remains like this seedhi baat no bakwas .. he cleared his point in one sitting why he left ,,, who hurt him .. what did he misunderstand…and whether he is blaming anybody or not ..

Virat was definetely guilty in this issue ..Till he had fallen in love with Sai .. which was during medical admission time .. he definitely had an emotional relationship with pakhi ..

So samrat was not wrong in interpreting .. it .. can he deny that he called pakhi to GC with Sunny .. without revealing that he is getting married ..

Pakhi took it as some cosy time spent with virat .. and Sunny aided him .. at that moment wasn’t she samrat’s wife??? .. yes he didn’t mean what he said .. but it was definitely interpreted like that .. Ashwini was offended and sent Mohit n Karishma along ..

today if ajinkye calls Sai like this to kolhapur to attend something .. won’t he take offence .. Hiw is samrat wrong and how has he Misinterpreted????

Virat can calmly say this because the status quo is he has outgrown his feelings for pakhi .. realised it as infatuation and is now deeply in love with Sai his wife ..

so Sai was right when she said it his Karma which has come to bite him .. he has hurt his big brother in a profound way so till that gets sorted he cannot get peace in his marital life ..
his relationship with samrat has to get better .. Samrat has to forgive him then he can build his happily after .. m

Virat was obviously stressed that nobody understands him .. and sai added ghee to the fire .. nothing much was said which had not been said before ..

But virat conveyed the message that he is done with doing things for sai abd getting flak .. she never takes it in the positive way ..so he will stop trying ..

this was the crucial part it was very much needed .. it cannot be a one way traffic where Sai puts him under the bus when things don’t suit her ..

She is trying to be an anupama always giving gyan .. without having the maturity to see both sides .. things are never so black n white ..

Sai has done a lot for his family .. but meeting pulkit n samrat has been by chance.. she didn’t go on a search to find them ..

getting Devyani pulkit married was totally her efforts ..

she has to get the message you have to appreciate your husband as a husband ..right now she has kept him as a mentor or guardian .. expects a lot of things but when it gets clubbed as a hubby thing immediately rejects it ..

Virat is not her father .. even he has expectations from her as a wife .. he has his needs .. has she ever considered what Will virat get by 5 years of platonic marriage..

It’s easy to say you can flirt with anybody which decent girl will agree for a hole in the corner relationship with him when his official relationship is with Sai ..

and why should a 28-29 year man agree to a platonic relationship.. she does not have the maturity to understand this ..

I am glad virat told her stop interfering in my life .. whether he chooses to stay with pakhi z, break up with samrat or have a relationship with someone else .it is life .. since it’s a deal marriage..,stay away ..


I loved it .. that things were said in a calm way without crying or shouting .. hopefully the message was understood

Originally posted by: bhanu

Even i said the same in my previous post, I think this is all the buildup to make pakhi mahan in the coming episode ,

Smart audience for sure will not look at Pakhi as a bechari. She is far from being a bechari. Today I felt for Virat and Sai, but Pakhi and Samrat I cannot sympathize with at all, as Samarat left the moment he heard Pakhi's one sided conversation of how she can only love Virat and not his brother. Pakhi thus far have done nothing but make Sai's life a living hell. And created a lot of MU between the couple with help of c-gang. So how can anyone feel sorry for her? Show one example of a selfless deed done by her. I can't think of anything.

As many of you stated Samrat too was selfish in a way for living everyone behind just for a girl he met and "feel in love with" in a day or two. Honestly had either Virat or even Samrat dated Pakhi for a longer term would they have still fallen in love with her? My guess is no, as the true nature always comes out. Pakhi is not as mature as Virat claims, as so far there has been 0 action for her that shows level of so called maturity. Infact only mature person out of Sai, Virat, Samrat and Pakhi is - Sai. I know she is harsh at times, does not think before speaking something (well most of the time) but she has heart of gold, just like Virat and Samrat. All three are willing to sacrifice their love for the other to keep the other person happy. Virat for Sai, Sai for Virat, Samrat for Virat and Virat for Samrat. Sigh what a mess. If Pakhi leaves all the MU can get cleaner between the trio (SaiRat and SamVir) given Virat does not go into Devdas mod with Pakhi leaving. And he needs to stop calling her a friend.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Samrat is still in shock as this is the first time he is meeting Virat after the incident. He is still enraged and it’s quite understandable. Once he calms down, I think he shall give him time and will listen to both sides of the story.

All things aside: when two people whom you love the most misunderstand you to such a big extent, would it not be appropriate to introspect?

Anyway will Sai pack her bags as soon as she reaches Pagal Niwas? I vote she stay till Didi samrat tamasha happens. She should get some relaxation time and watch a tamasha from the side, rather than cause the tamasha!

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I don’t think he understands or rather listens to Virat as per KD. He continues his way of thinking according to which Virat is the offender.

🤦🏼‍♀️ I didn’t see KD., then he too is a lost cause!!

Has anyone heard the saying brides are like new born child because as they enter to this new world she cries out of amusement, out of fear..

I remember during the time of their marriage he wouldn't even extend the hand of friendship to Sai ..what he thought that he would maintain emotional bonding with brother's wife and expected his brother tolerate these all..though Samrat is nothing less than a juvenile delinquent..

All her insecurities bottled up today made her saying those words that she shouldn't have uttered.. Karma was just hitting below the belt.. Hope Sai apologize Virat ,I felt truly bad for virat.. He finally gave up and his eyes looked lifeless.Virat is back to his shell and looks like Sai will draw into huge depression..

I understand Sai's feelings right now with Samrat in picture and now that she has fallen deeply for Virat without knowing it, she is not able to deal with and in process losing her sensibilities and coming across extremely insensitive. She needs to keep a check on her self. She crossed her limits today and I cannot support that. Virat needs to show her what a deal actually means.. I am with Virat in this today.