Mandaar is a sociopath? - Page 2

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Well trauma can change some parts of personality not the core. Mandar's core personality or nature is psychopathic there is no trauma induced change here.

This is not ordinary trauma; this is brain trauma.

Brain damage can even make us paraplegic; how could it not change the core of someone's behaviours.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

This is not ordinary trauma; this is brain trauma.

Brain damage can even make us paraplegic; how could it not change the core of someone's behaviours.

See as per an article I read some changes do happen when trauma happens but core of the personality remains same as it is impossible to change the foundation. But here Mandy is too evil and vile to be affected and changed by trauma.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

See as per an article I read some changes do happen when trauma happens but core of the personality remains same as it is impossible to change the foundation. But here Mandy is too evil and vile to be affected and changed by trauma.

I think it could affect more than mild changes

https://www.brainline.org/article/tbi-101-behavioral-emotional-symptoms

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Well, they have been in a long distance relationships before they married and he left during their wedding night. It's a little bit weird to me that he left under such circumstances but I think he was trying to leave Pallavi on their wedding day. He was walking in the middle of the road with big storm and cat and dog rain that driving was not safe itself. Now he only cares about Pallavi because he thinks she is his possession who has to stay loyal even though he's not by her side and left her.

@bold: He considers her a play thing and possession. I don't really think that he actually respects or cares about her. He considers her a challenge to be won and he wants to win at all costs. No son kills their own mother. He is a clear psychopath. There is no proper reason for leaving on their wedding night. How do we know he actually married her with good intentions? Yeah I agree, it seems very weird indeed. He had always suppressed his emotions. I think that is the main reason of his domineering characteristics.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

@bold: He considers her a play thing and possession. I don't really think that he actually respects or cares about her. He considers her a challenge to be won and he wants to win at all costs. No son kills their own mother. He is a clear psychopath. There is no proper reason for leaving on their wedding night. How do we know he actually married her with good intentions? Yeah I agree, it seems very weird indeed. He had always suppressed his emotions. I think that is the main reason of his domineering characteristics.

I guess with a father like Vijay, it's natural that a person like Mandhar will try to suppress his emotions. However, Nikhil grew up with the same parents as Mandhar and in the same environment too; it's really a wonder to see how Nikhil grew up to be a good person who cares about others whilst Mandhar only cares about himself. So, what changed between raising Mandhar and raising Nikhil? Or does it also mean that Nikhil is also hiding his feeling and is a psychopath like Mandhar?

It has been mentioned several times in the show by Sharda and Millind that whatever Vijay did when Mandhar was growing up affected Mandhar in a way. I wonder what did Vijay do that made Mandhar the psycho he is.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

@bold: He considers her a play thing and possession. I don't really think that he actually respects or cares about her. He considers her a challenge to be won and he wants to win at all costs. No son kills their own mother. He is a clear psychopath. There is no proper reason for leaving on their wedding night. How do we know he actually married her with good intentions? Yeah I agree, it seems very weird indeed. He had always suppressed his emotions. I think that is the main reason of his domineering characteristics.

I also think that Vijay only sees Pallavi as a possession. When Pallavi was drugged by Mandhar and he took her to his room and Raghav was trying to see her; Vijay said that Pallavi is the daughter in law of this house and now that Mandhar has returned, Raghav has no rights towards her and she has responsibility as being Mandhar's wife and the daughter in law of the house. It doesn't matter to him that he had kicked Pallavi out of the Deshmukh house.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

I guess with a father like Vijay, it's natural that a person like Mandhar will try to suppress his emotions.

Exactly. His emotions were suppressed from his childhood, he did not have a good childhood which we can relate, according to Aayi's comments to VD. There is usually a saying that one day the suppressed becomes the oppressor. Until now, he has been nothing but a mystery and there is no backstory so I would think slowly these feelings gave way to psychopathism or something similar. He could have fallen into bad company. It could also be because of the childhood trauma he experienced. The way he is behaving lets us know that he did not have any noble intentions for marrying Pallavi.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

I also think that Vijay only sees Pallavi as a possession. When Pallavi was drugged by Mandhar and he took her to his room and Raghav was trying to see her; Vijay said that Pallavi is the daughter in law of this house and now that Mandhar has returned, Raghav has no rights towards her and she has responsibility as being Mandhar's wife and the daughter in law of the house. It doesn't matter to him that he had kicked Pallavi out of the Deshmukh house.

Exactly. Like father like son. Vijay is as much as a self-centered, selfish and domineering person. His traits are well known by his family members. Mandaar was the most affected because of this behavior. Pallavi was always a use and throw article for Vijay. He wanted to keep her in the house for his own profit and nothing else. He doesn't have an iota of gold intentions. Maybe Vijay didn't transform into a psychopath but Mandaar surely did. He doesn't care that he kicked her out of the house. Since his son has returned back today, he needs a free, 24/7 caretaker for him. He thought she was having an illicit affair with Raghav, he didn't even bother to support her. He took the word of an outsider as opposed to his own. I think we can the judge what type of person he is from that one instance itself.

We can and cannot say that.

His tendencies are sociopathic though.

When Pallavi told Mandahr to find his own way to find his memory back he was so surprised. I reckon he was thinking that if he pretends to forget his memory back then Pallavi will always stay by his side and return to the Deshmukh house. Remember how he said it so convincingly that he will make Pallavi comes back to the Deshmukh house in 24 hours to Sunny. He was so sure that whatever he is doing will touch Pallavi's humanity and made her stay. He doesn't expect Pallavi will say something like I can't do anything more and don't want to do anything more.

Also, in all this I think Mandhar was thinking that even though Pallavi had moved on, married someone else, and in love with someone else; Mandhar is her priority no matter what. Yet, when Pallavi said that now she only thinks about aayi and nobody else, not even Mandhar he was surprised as hell.