MHRW Ep 153 - Raat Gayi Baat Gayi - Page 5

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Finally watched the episode Jean just to tell you how I felt but sadly I didn't feel anything😆. Not even disappointment. Now I can give you honest opinion without being influenced by my feelings. 😆

I fast forwarded first few minutes. Sabse pehle RR ko hi dekhne tha. 😆

and there he was standing all depressed like a defeated man. Pallavi really became kaal for him. Successfully finished a man who fought valiantly against destiny and stood tall. Now he is nothing without her. Pyaar ne jaan le hi liya iska. Sai as usual was brilliant. Roz roz kya taareef karna..jab accha nahi karega tab bolenge😆

Pallavi...no words.There is no point discussing her behavior.

As much as I dislike this track for sloppy writing I can't help but point out Shivangi's performance in this track hasn't been up to the mark. I can clearly see her disconnection from Pallavi. It might be because of sloppy writing but I can't help but wonder if she ever truly understood the character. 🤔 Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings.

Today two people who totally rocked are Geeta mam and Asmita mam. What a beautiful scene it was. I wish we could get more scenes of them. I am really hoping for a RR- aai bonding in coming episodes. It's commendable how Asmita maam hasn't forgotten a single trait of aai despite being absent from the show for long time. A brilliant actress. 👏

The Raghav- Pallavi scene was 🤪

Farhad was ❤️. D house scene of aai and Sanki was great.

Thanks, Jia.

Ok, so I wasn't imagining things when I felt some scenes were lackluster.

I don't want to see their love story, just live a daily life without excessive drama for a couple of days. Sandip said there'd be comedy but even that thought is scaring me since of late comedy = clownery that feels out of character and out of scope. I wish they would binge watch their own episodes from the beginning to see what we're seeing.

+1 to having more of Geeta ji and Asmita ji on screen, especially in one frame. They are veterans and their craft needs to be on display more, better utilized.

Originally posted by: masin

I was initially not going to quote your post and just leave a generic reply, but you phrased everything SO well and I agree with every bit of it, that I figured it's best to respond to your points directly. I've only kept the bits I could appropriately respond to as I haven't seen the episode yet. 😊

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

What I find strange is that they aren't even living in typical joint families like we usually see on ITV where couples don't have privacy or freedom or both. Since they got married and then once they expressed their feelings to one another, it's been rollercoaster after rollercoaster ride. Some of the best moments on the show have been the subtle, quiet ones and I long for those. It doesn't have to be about romance all the time. It could just be them sharing some everyday moments as a couple or talking about their past or future together.

I want to hear about Pallavi and how she spent her growing years, etc. Let Raghav see that part of her life too and learn more about her past beyond her relationship with the Ds. I'm sure it would help with getting viewers to connect to her, i.e. what made Pallavi who she is today.

I also want to see her moving away from always identifying herself as Pallavi Raghav Rao to just Pallavi, naam hi kaafi hai. She doesn't need a specific surname to be her own person. Her strength of character should be enough. We saw a lot of that in the initial challenges and it was refreshing to watch how she conducted herself in times of adversity. I want to see more that not a bechari Pallavi. Don't get me wrong, I think it's great she loves Raghav and wants to be a Rao, but she doesn't need that to establish her identity.

(It's another matter that I still don't get why women need to take their husband's family name after marriage in 2021, but I don't want to start a war here).

Originally posted by: d.padmini

Same here...the passion which is so visible on raghav's face , his actions, reaction , even in his silence is completely missing in pallavi....

How much ever people try to justify Pallavi, through out this track , it was Raghav, who suffered the most, it was his heart that was bleeding, pallavi missed for what ever xyz reason , the important day in Raghav's life......and still he was the one who initiated the conversation....

Pallavi needs a reality check, she needs to come out of I am always right bubble..

seriously if they don't show pallavi realising and genuinely apologizing...the essence and feel will be lost ..

You made a good point here about silences, which have been some of the best on this show from the beginning both with Raghav and Pallavi. I'd rather have those meaningful silent moments than lofty-sounding dialogues that actually feel hollow. Some emotions are too precious and deep to articulate, and that's where the eyes and the silences do the talking. Some recent examples are the Tera Chehra sequences and the Kaise Mujhe Tum Mil Gayi one. So much was conveyed without words. I don't want the show to turn into sa re ga ma where all key scenes are just shown with songs from start to finish but I think there should be a healthy balance.

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

I have so many mixed thoughts about the makeup scene.

I was one hand happy that the misunderstandings cleared, and i loved seeing the 2 sensible women together with raghvi with patchup

I also liked the promises because it was a nice assurance and it was needed.

However

I did not like the presentation of raghav shown somewhat puppy dogging for pallavi. Wanting her to talk to him.. and her giving kinda cold vibes. Shouldnt it have been in reverse?

I also wanted it to be more emotional than it was. And more angry words said. But it wasnt.

Pallavi still shown disregarding raghavs words about mandhar. Raghav still not sharing about mandhar openly. Why best around the bush? Just openly say pallavi im sorry you need to hear this and it needs to be out in the open. Her saying.. "dont say mandhar is behind this" was STUPID.

She didnt applogize at all. And neither did he .. her for ignoring him.. recognizing it was good but im sorry never came out. He also didnt apologize for not trusting her and letting insecurity run between them.

I get sickand wants to move on and i guess i can forgive and forget also since this track was rushed to be closed and changed but they really could have taken some time and wrote it well.

Oh well.. move on i guess. 😵

They can still salvage things by addressing the issue that they didn't in the make up scene, when the time comes. The writers often do a good job with throwbacks.

As for apologies, I don't think Pallavi is meant to realize the depth of the issues until much later. This is probably for her character growth, going by what Sandip said.

Originally posted by: Sana_Jannat

👏👏nicely point out everything.

As we know it was last minute change

but unfortunately that haphazard every things especially RaghVi .

Even I wanted to hit writer for putting such weird lines in script , from where they got idea Yaar

after yesterday scene/ Raghav's breakdown today pallavi's reaction/response even RaghVi's patch or That nibba nibbi Code language in their own room at RR Mention ...I don't know how to put /express my disappointment..sorry , neither I could connect them nor I'm satisfied..

Of course sameone had to pay for pallavi &RaghVi foolishness (pallavi for considering everything as Simple as it was shown by Mandar-Dr , Somewhat taking Raghav -amma for granted & giving royal ignorance to aayi's advice + Raghav's warning

And Raghav For putting his brain and heart in Liquid bottle ,I know he was hurt but instead of liquid couldn't he focus on Mandar -Dr or their motives Or was it really difficult to company Pallavi to D house when she was adamant to Go there ,Atleast for her safety you can manage Aayi & stay there )

Unfortunately it's Aayi who will pay 😭...and viewers/fans who hope for an apology a better patch💔 ..

but it happen when Creative Vision (CV) lost their mind while throwing Tarka in Daal result Daal bcm tasteless & completely useless that's why Fans throw that to Chef😆 ....

Really hope That CV will learn their lessons..

It's hurting me to think that Ayi would be treated this way by her returned from the dead son. I don't know why I have a feeling that he had this whole other dual life that his parents didn't know about.

I'm really missing Nikhil in all this. Hope he comes back soon and helps Pallavi out.

Originally posted by: Phoenix_Fire123

Not shivi's fault when her character is butchered to the point that even she can't relate with it . Standing with ayi she looked liked that baccha who has created some serious mess and has got her aayi to do vakalat for her which is actually kinda true.

Not surprised if she feels this way but I think she's trying to be patient and work with the team on the change in direction based on feedback and reviews. Let's hope she finds her mojo eventually.

Also, this sudden change in direction can kill the vibe, but I will say that at the end of the day it's up to the actors to deliver what's in the script. Sameer ji is the best example of this. 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

They can still salvage things by addressing the issue that they didn't in the make up scene, when the time comes. The writers often do a good job with throwbacks.

As for apologies, I don't think Pallavi is meant to realize the depth of the issues until much later. This is probably for her character growth, going by what Sandip said.

Yh.. im cutting slack becauae they changed the storyline so quickly and it may not have been well written because it was just thrown in there

But they have to get back on track even with the characters. Everything feels disjointed like you said.

I still have interest in watching but i feel like its slowly decreasing day by day.

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

The problem I majorly find with her action is that she is thinking from prospective of pallavi deshmukh (the widow of mandar and DIL of deshmukh) and not as pallavi rao.I think makers intended to do in this way only but it backfired.

Whenever raghav say something suspicious about mandar , her subconscious mind doesn't register it because his image is like a perfect human being in her mind. She had this great guy notion about him and somewhere also feels guilty for moving on with raghav.

She had lived 2 years as mandar widow and his mother had treated her like more than real daughter. It doesn't matter ti her how other d family members treated her. It's only Aayi who was most important to her and she desperately wants to give her son.

Whenever raghav tries to show her mandar evil intentions and burst her bubble , she herself chose to block it as she feel it will invalidates her pain of 2 years of being this good man mandar widow.She wants to protect herself from the reality check.

In her heart the romantic love will always be raghav and he will be till her last breathe on this earth.

Yup these subconscious feelings will come to bite her back d hard way when truth comes out in open..

N the hurt it ll cause her for hurting rao's for d fam will break her beyond repair.

Jab kuch toot ta hai to chubhan hamesha k liye reh jati hai. 🤷🤷 Even tough healing happens it ll remain forever itched in d heart. Mind might forget but the heart won't.

This scares me how she ll react to Mandy truth. 😢😢

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Yh.. im cutting slack becauae they changed the storyline so quickly and it may not have been well written because it was just thrown in there

But they have to get back on track even with the characters. Everything feels disjointed like you said.

I still have interest in watching but i feel like its slowly decreasing day by day.

If it weren't for Sai, I would have left a long time ago. He deserves the support, in my opinion.

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Yup these subconscious feelings will come to bite her back d hard way when truth comes out in open..

N the hurt it ll cause her for hurting rao's for d fam will break her beyond repair.

Jab kuch toot ta hai to chubhan hamesha k liye reh jati hai. 🤷🤷 Even tough healing happens it ll remain forever itched in d heart. Mind might forget but the heart won't.

This scares me how she ll react to Mandy truth. 😢😢

I want the writers to do justice to Pallavi's character and her collapsing under the weight of the ugly truth. Remember her dialogues with Krishna before the wedding, how she had wanted to live up to her promises to Mandaar and look after the family. To think it was all for nothing is going to be earth-shattering for her, at least it should be, and far worse than the maar daalo mujhe Raghav scene where she said she was nothing without the Deshmukh identity.