Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3 Written Updates 09 Aug 2021 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Summerholiday

I think they may get to it by the end of this season. If not, there is always hope in season 4.🤣

Sach me, I don't see devakshi centric track will come any time soon. This week raksha bandan n another week ayu admission. Another 1 or 2 weeks, it will b ayush realising n calling mom n dad devakshi and probably 1 week dedicated to ayu calling esh dadi and her happy tears. And then probably another 1 month suhana getting to know that she is not biological daughter and making her understand how she is their daughter n not necessary to b biological. In betwn elina issue. Then probably after 2 months, if they dont find any other track they might think abt devakshi. In betwn they will give lollipops here n there 😆

Originally posted by: Summerholiday

I agree she is seeking attention from random strangers but I doubt it is because she is actually unhappy in her married life..

For me, the initial promo of Devakshi losing the spark in their marriage after some years seems more probable in Elena's case. Vicky, for all his flaws & faults, seems to have settled down comfortably his married life. They do have their share of arguments & fights as every married couple do but nothing major has really rocked their boat. Over a period of time, they have reached a plateau in their married life and Elena seems to be seeking an escape from the mundane life. She has always been an extrovert & fun loving girl. So she might have been yearning for something more exciting in her life. Her youtube channel has brought back some zest in her life along with the excitement of a newly found celebrity status. She is enjoying the attention she is receiving from her fans & chatting with them seems to have brought in some excitement & spice in her life & relieved her from the boredom of a mundane existance. However If in his obsession for her, the stalker ends up harming Vicky to get him out of the way or if it threatens their marriage, I am sure she will be the first one to fight tooth & nail against him & save her marriage.

Sonakshi on the other hand is married to the love of her life. But unfortunately for her, she has a MIL who has doesn't allow her son to live his life & keeps on interfering in their personal life to the extent that it has become difficult for Sona to even take any decisions relating to her family. Her MIL interferes even when Sona decides something for her children; - be it their upbringing or healthy food habits, etc. She is constantly accused of being a bad mother to her children by her MIL while her beloved husband just stands & watches the going ons. He hardly ever takes a stand for his wife when it comes to opposing his mom's wishes. He doesn't even hear her when she wants to share her feeling & fears with him nor does he want to share any of his ( personal or professional) burden with her. This is not how a successful marriage works. A marriage can be successful only if there is trust, two way communication, love & respect for each other, respect for the opinions expressed even if they agree to disagree on the right way of handling a certain situation. Dev seems oblivious to her fears, concerns & apprehensions even when it is concerning their kids. Sonakshi on the surface seems to have accepted her fate by compromising on her self respect but there is so much anger, hurt, frustration at both her MIL & her husband bottled down under the surface which is going to erupt one fine day when her tolerance point is reached. She seems really unhappy & feels unloved right now. Unloved because though Dev expresses verbally he loves her a lot & needs her in his life, it doesn't translate into action. Her kids are the only ones who seem to bring happiness & solace in her life. The only thing which most probably is stopping her from walking out of their marriage is her immense love for Dev & her belief & faith that Dev too loves her a lot. But however much in love they may be, a marriage cannot survive only on love. It needs all the ingredients mentioned above in bold for their marriage to succeed. It didn't survive in the 1st season when they both were so much visibly in love nor will it survive this time unless for a start they handle Ishwari's interference in their personal life as a team & Dev ensures he takes stands for her each time his maa insults her.

Ps : I should have said that Elena seems to be in a better space/ place in her married life than Sona instead of using the term " happily married " in my previous post. I apologize for that.😅🤗

Okay. Stand-alone, Dev-Sonakshi are much better matched and are a very good couple, compared to Vicky-Elena. Throw the mother-in-law into the equation, and Vicky-Elena trump Devakshi easily.

Look at Devakshi without Ishwari. During their dating period, they were very good at communicating. They disagreed strongly with each other in matters and they were not able to convince the other person of their viewpoint. But they agreed that it's okay to understand each other and disagree. Similarly, post leap, when Ishwari was not involved in their lives, they talked and dealt with situations very maturely. Like Nikki's live-in issue or Suhana. As individuals, they complement each other perfectly. They are both mature, responsible and very caring about their families as well as each other's families.

If you look at them without Ishwari in the picture, they are perfect for each other.

Vicky-Elena on the other hand, are both selfish and vain. I can't believe Elena ran away with a guy who had been eve-teasing her, then broke contact with her own family to live a life of comfort using Vicky's cousin's financial affluence. All the while, her own family had come to the streets. Vicky, less said the better. Together, they aren't really amounting to much either. Dev had given him a ready-made company to run. Otherwise the guy barely even went to college.

Now, with the mothers in the equation.

Though both Vicky and Dev were raised in not an affluent environment, there is a huge difference in Vicky's and Dev's upbringing: mental conditioning.

Vicky had a regular mother and father. Dev on the other hand had been raised with one thing drilled in him: guilt. Guilt that his mother is struggling, guilt that his sister can't have an education. Guilt over everything. Once he is rich, things are good. But Ishwari is like a live Guilt machine, constantly giving a significant dosage to Dev, if he even remotely starts to have any happiness aside from his family. And his biggest happiness that was separate from his family was Sonakshi. How could Ishwari let that happen? The guilt machine started working overtime, with Dev falling prey to it. That's the thing about mental conditioning. We don't realize it's happening. Dev never realizes how his mother is manipulating him.

Devakshi's every single issue started with Ishwari and her insecurities and superiority complex.

Right now, I agree with you that Elena seems bored and enjoying the attention from fans. And I also agree that when actually comes down to it, she would fight for Vicky. But there were also a couple of scenes where she was shown to be not very happy. So obviously after so long, they also have their spark fizzled out. But GKB has always been supportive of her and their relationship and doesn't interfere with Golu also much, although she did interfere in their sex life and forced them to have Golu.

Sonakshi has been in the toxic equation with Ishwari forever. I think hers and Dev's relationship would be a lot better if they lived separately in a nuclear setup with no interference from Ishwari in their marriage,, child-rearing or any other aspect of their lives. Because unfortunately Dev has been conditioned to not speak up against his mother. Even if he says a small, tiny thing,, she makes quite the face. So whatever she says, Sona is on her own to defend herself, which she does admirably. This adds stress to their relationship.

So yes, add Ishwari to the relationship, Devakshi's relationship points go way lower.

Devakshi>>>>>>>>>Vicky-Elena

Devakshi-Ishwari <<<<< Vicky-Elena-GKB

P.s. sorry for the long post! I just kept writing😬

Originally posted by: Doodle12

honestly i do agree with newbiewriter. vicky isn't very great. i mean he isnt as bad as dev is but he isn't great.

(low key feel both vicky and dev have inconcsistent writing, when not fighting dev is far better but he gaslightsetc. vicky however didn't let elena meet her family for years, didn't give her attention for years, is sexist and greedy)

so i do think elena did end up with a bad deal but she's equally as terrible a person so imo they fit, but she is stupid she putting her family also at risk. internet fans are toxic in general but her actions are also extremely problamatic.

she knows nothing about the guy, here he is a stalker, but vaise what if he was an underage kid.she is extremely irresponsible

I agree. Both Dev and Vicky have had some very inconsistent writing.

Elena is being really stupid here, encouraging some random person on dm, and then insulting him, not correcting him when he talks trash about her husband. She must be really dissatisfied in her life to go this far, as to not stop the guy from talking badly about her husband. She has a proper family and a kid. She needs to wake up.

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

Okay. Stand-alone, Dev-Sonakshi are much better matched and are a very good couple, compared to Vicky-Elena. Throw the mother-in-law into the equation, and Vicky-Elena trump Devakshi easily.

Look at Devakshi without Ishwari. During their dating period, they were very good at communicating. They disagreed strongly with each other in matters and they were not able to convince the other person of their viewpoint. But they agreed that it's okay to understand each other and disagree. Similarly, post leap, when Ishwari was not involved in their lives, they talked and dealt with situations very maturely. Like Nikki's live-in issue or Suhana. As individuals, they complement each other perfectly. They are both mature, responsible and very caring about their families as well as each other's families.

If you look at them without Ishwari in the picture, they are perfect for each other.

Vicky-Elena on the other hand, are both selfish and vain. I can't believe Elena ran away with a guy who had been eve-teasing her, then broke contact with her own family to live a life of comfort using Vicky's cousin's financial affluence. All the while, her own family had come to the streets. Vicky, less said the better. Together, they aren't really amounting to much either. Dev had given him a ready-made company to run. Otherwise the guy barely even went to college.

Now, with the mothers in the equation.

Though both Vicky and Dev were raised in not an affluent environment, there is a huge difference in Vicky's and Dev's upbringing: mental conditioning.

Vicky had a regular mother and father. Dev on the other hand had been raised with one thing drilled in him: guilt. Guilt that his mother is struggling, guilt that his sister can't have an education. Guilt over everything. Once he is rich, things are good. But Ishwari is like a live Guilt machine, constantly giving a significant dosage to Dev, if he even remotely starts to have any happiness aside from his family. And his biggest happiness that was separate from his family was Sonakshi. How could Ishwari let that happen? The guilt machine started working overtime, with Dev falling prey to it. That's the thing about mental conditioning. We don't realize it's happening. Dev never realizes how his mother is manipulating him.

Devakshi's every single issue started with Ishwari and her insecurities and superiority complex.

Right now, I agree with you that Elena seems bored and enjoying the attention from fans. And I also agree that when actually comes down to it, she would fight for Vicky. But there were also a couple of scenes where she was shown to be not very happy. So obviously after so long, they also have their spark fizzled out. But GKB has always been supportive of her and their relationship and doesn't interfere with Golu also much, although she did interfere in their sex life and forced them to have Golu.

Sonakshi has been in the toxic equation with Ishwari forever. I think hers and Dev's relationship would be a lot better if they lived separately in a nuclear setup with no interference from Ishwari in their marriage,, child-rearing or any other aspect of their lives. Because unfortunately Dev has been conditioned to not speak up against his mother. Even if he says a small, tiny thing,, she makes quite the face. So whatever she says, Sona is on her own to defend herself, which she does admirably. This adds stress to their relationship.

So yes, add Ishwari to the relationship, Devakshi's relationship points go way lower.

Devakshi>>>>>>>>>Vicky-Elena

Devakshi-Ishwari <<<<< Vicky-Elena-GKB

P.s. sorry for the long post! I just kept writing😬

The root cause of all the problems in Devakshi's life is undoubtedly Ishwari :- be it her controlling, interfering & manipulative ways or her toxic upbringing of Dev as a result of which he is unable to balance his relationships with others. No arguments about that. Take away Ishwari & also Dev's toxic upbringing by her from the equation and we have a man who is smart, intelligent, good hearted, loving, caring, responsible, respectful etc., most of qualities we can expect from a good husband. I am sure most of us loved the pre leap Dev for all his good qualities inspite of his flaws & his greatest weakness ( & also his strength) - his mother.

Ishwari is too much involved in her son's life, she needs to let go & find something to occupy her time & divert her attention. She has such a thick skin that even if Dev makes it clear to her that she is interfering too much into his personal life, it will bounce off her. Hopefully the cvs end this track soon & start a more progressive track for Ishwari after she realizes ( If at all she realizes it.😅) how her obstinacy of having her own way & her interfering & controlling nature is causing unhappiness & misery in the lives of her loved ones. Maybe she can involve herself in some social work or even better, the makers can start a parallel story for Ishwari meeting someone of her age who is at the same crossroads of life as herself & connecting with him & maybe marrying him for companionship/ love. ( This is just me thinking of a permanent solution to the Issuworry problem in Devakshi's life. End result - Ishwari / Devakshi / kids all happy in their respective lives.😜🤣) This can actually be made into such a beautiful, progressive & interesting track - a new colour of love in the life of the Dixit family if the makers really want to make this show relatable & not drama for trp driven .

Originally posted by: Summerholiday

The root cause of all the problems in Devakshi's life is undoubtedly Ishwari :- be it her controlling, interfering & manipulative ways or her toxic upbringing of Dev as a result of which he is unable to balance his relationships with others. No arguments about that. Take away Ishwari & also Dev's toxic upbringing by her from the equation and we have a man who is smart, intelligent, good hearted, loving, caring, responsible, respectful etc., most of qualities we can expect from a good husband. I am sure most of us loved the pre leap Dev for all his good qualities inspite of his flaws & his greatest weakness ( & also his strength) - his mother.

Ishwari is too much involved in her son's life, she needs to let go & find something to occupy her time & divert her attention. She has such a thick skin that even if Dev makes it clear to her that she is interfering too much into his personal life, it will bounce off her. Hopefully the cvs end this track soon & start a more progressive track for Ishwari after she realizes ( If at all she realizes it.😅) how her obstinacy of having her own way & her interfering & controlling nature is causing unhappiness & misery in the lives of her loved ones. Maybe she can involve herself in some social work or even better, the makers can start a parallel story for Ishwari meeting someone of her age who is at the same crossroads of life as herself & connecting with him & maybe marrying him for companionship/ love. ( This is just me thinking of a permanent solution to the Issuworry problem in Devakshi's life. End result - Ishwari / Devakshi / kids all happy in their respective lives.😜🤣) This can actually be made into such a beautiful, progressive & interesting track - a new colour of love in the life of the Dixit family if the makers really want to make this show relatable & not drama for trp driven .

Bold 1: That's it! Sona told so strongly that she didn't want to become another Dev-Ishwari combo. What happened? Nothing. She just called the pandit and made name-change plans. Then Sona told not to do that. What happened? She is going to go ahead with it anyway. Dev said don't force the child. Will she listen? No way.

Because she thinks that she and only she is correct and that gives her the right to do whatever she wants. Her obstinacy knows no boundaries! Therefore no respect to her son as an individual, let alone his wife.

Bold 2: man, I would love it if they had her parallel track of her doing some social work.

I would love it even more if they had a track of her finding a companion and having a life for herself, for a change, instead of just living for her children. Then KRPKAB would truly be a revolutionary ITV serial. An elderly mother finding a companion in the later stages of her life. How progressive would that be! Ishwari had started working in Lakshya's startup and had started doing things for herself. This would have been awesome next step!

But no, Mamta has decided to go in the other direction and make her a typical MIL. How terrible is that.

Originally posted by: Hari73

Sach me, I don't see devakshi centric track will come any time soon. This week raksha bandan n another week ayu admission. Another 1 or 2 weeks, it will b ayush realising n calling mom n dad devakshi and probably 1 week dedicated to ayu calling esh dadi and her happy tears. And then probably another 1 month suhana getting to know that she is not biological daughter and making her understand how she is their daughter n not necessary to b biological. In betwn elina issue. Then probably after 2 months, if they dont find any other track they might think abt devakshi. In betwn they will give lollipops here n there 😆

You are so on target!!! Bravo!!👏👏👏