Heartbreaking. - Page 4

Originally posted by: ppnn7191

Paku's scenes and dialogues were so off! especially Kaku's dialogues to PP today were funny to say the least! Lol!

Also I feel the CVs are making sai come across as dumb! virat has told her so many times that he wants the marriage to be real, but she hardly pays attention to what he is saying! I really want to see virat ignore her a little and sai putting in a little effort to make him happy! that would also make for a funny and light track!

Actually, he has told her only once that he wants this marriage to be real, and she had just regained consciousness after a near-death causing accident. She was in no state to comprehend what he was saying. Yes, he has told her time and time again that he does not want her to leave. She pays attention to every single word he says... his words mean everything to her. That is why she is still stuck on the vaada in the first place. Virat has told her that he is not committed to anyone anymore, but has he clarified his past to her? Has he told her that he does not love Pakhi and that she means no one to him? These are the mental barriers that Sai needs to cross before she can accept her own feelings and his own....

And, I'm not saying that Virat hasn't tried to clear things from his end. In fact, today was the most honest he has ever been. My heart broke for him when he said this is us and this is our journey. But, these words were not enough for Sai. At this point in time, they are not understanding what the other person needs to hear and/or see....

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold this is exactly where she is stuck though nhee heart might say something else .

@italic - it was heartbreaking to see Sai recall those words by the sill yoga lady. Those were the 1st words which came to her mind 😢. How hurt she must have been 🥺.

I was also glad Sai brought up the silly story which Virat narrated. It was in no way a story you tell your wife you are trying to wooh whom you also told about the silly Vaada 🙄

Exactly a story where woman gets married to someone else...is he so dumb to not realise ye apni ek saal purani kahani suna raha hai...current love ki kahani nahi

Even women who are in a secure relationship with their husband won't like to be told about the love story and the chemistry that they are not told by their own husband on their anniversary or any random day as well.. Anniversary k din sun kar toh anybody would be boiling with rage and hurt knowing he had a perfect relationship with someone else...That's where husband address the issues..Yaha toh gifts laaya surprise diya..toh samajh lo that's my love only.. Women do need words of comfort and Sai toh is still in so much confusion about so many things..Just few days back, was Pakhi not standing outside and talking about her love with Virat and also how he ditched her...With Virat still not mentioning about the clarification he has already done ..what is she to think..Virat Sir gave me a surprise ..he loves me.. For freaking sake she has just been in platonic relationships ...and she has no clue that without confession of love ..one can have a relationship of love..You know at that age...love confessions were so special and so important..Today we know it's the actions that are.. But to reach this stage..one needs to be secured and told that there is love here and no other commitments at all..She does not want Virat to break his promise because he got attracted to her and is fond of her or be a compromise for him..She wants herself to be his love..

Originally posted by: tptwi

Just watched the episode again... a few more thoughts...

I think people need to understand, at a basic level, that it is easier for Virat to move on from the deal shaadi, because it was not Sai who put forth the conditions... it was him. Sai feels that Virat is moving closer to her and further from Pakhi, and hence her guilt is at an all time high for coming in between them. In fact, if I remember correctly, I think it was during the Ladhak fight when she told him that the way he was acting was like giving dhoka to Pakhi. She has felt him coming closer to her all along... she has sensed his love all along... and every time she starts giving herself permission to accept it, she is reminded in full force of the past and what she considers is the truth about Virat-Pakhi's relationship.

Yes she felt she came in between them based on her dialogue yesterday but I could never feel this in the past. This dialogue seemed more like a reaction to Virats suicide story he narrated and not what was ever on her mind. To me the bigger issue seems to be wrt to Virats pakki zabaan and she doesn't want him to break his vaada because of her. Even today her main dialogues were around the deal and Vaada and how she will keep her part of the deal.

Like you said Yes she does get effected by P's non stop manifestations and drama and she just doesn't know what to do, like the last drama p created right after her birthday 😢 and she just walked away.

@bold so true and this is Didi the biggest bone of contention between them

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Yes she felt she came in between them based on her dialogue yesterday but I could never feel this in the past. This dialogue seemed more like a reaction to Virats suicide story he narrated and not what was ever on her mind. To me the bigger issue seems to be wrt to Virats pakki zabaan and she doesn't want him to break his vaada because of her. Even today her main dialogues were around the deal and Vaada and how she will keep her part of the deal.

Like you said Yes she does get effected by P's non stop manifestations and drama and she just doesn't know what to do, like the last drama p created right after her birthday 😢 and she just walked away.

@bold so true and this is Didi the biggest bone of contention between them

But the deal in the first place was a result of his so-called commitment to Pakhi, so in a way all of these issues in her mind have gathered to create one huuggeeee jalebi of a mess 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

Just watched the episode again... a few more thoughts...

I think people need to understand, at a basic level, that it is easier for Virat to move on from the deal shaadi, because it was not Sai who put forth the conditions... it was him. Sai feels that Virat is moving closer to her and further from Pakhi, and hence her guilt is at an all time high for coming in between them. In fact, if I remember correctly, I think it was during the Ladhak fight when she told him that the way he was acting was like giving dhoka to Pakhi. She has felt him coming closer to her all along... she has sensed his love all along... and every time she starts giving herself permission to accept it, she is reminded in full force of the past and what she considers is the truth about Virat-Pakhi's relationship.

It is not easy for Sai to accept the changing dynamics between them specially because of the reasons you cited and also due to Pakhi’s non stop reminders regarding her space in Virat’s life.

Virat unfortunately won’t give much thought to this and brushes off Pakhi’s presence in his life with monosyllables or single sentences. He needs to stress that by explaining what exactly happened at yoga resort and how he realised that he is not exactly in love with Pakhi.

Till then Sai wont connect the dots at all.

Virat’s move to distance himself will hopefully force her to analyse the journey so far. Eagerly waiting to reach that point ..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly a story where woman gets married to someone else...is he so dumb to not realise ye apni ek saal purani kahani suna raha hai...current love ki kahani nahi

Even women who are in a secure relationship with their husband won't like to be told about the love story and the chemistry that they are not told by their own husband on their anniversary or any random day as well.. Anniversary k din sun kar toh anybody would be boiling with rage and hurt knowing he had a perfect relationship with someone else...That's where husband address the issues..Yaha toh gifts laaya surprise diya..toh samajh lo that's my love only.. Women do need words of comfort and Sai toh is still in so much confusion about so many things..Just few days back, was Pakhi not standing outside and talking about her love with Virat and also how he ditched her...With Virat still not mentioning about the clarification he has already done ..what is she to think..Virat Sir gave me a surprise ..he loves me.. For freaking sake she has just been in platonic relationships ...and she has no clue that without confession of love ..one can have a relationship of love..You know at that age...love confessions were so special and so important..Today we know it's the actions that are.. But to reach this stage..one needs to be secured and told that there is love here and no other commitments at all..She does not want Virat to break his promise because he got attracted to her and is fond of her or be a compromise for him..She wants herself to be his love..

@bold exactly how could he not see she was upset is something I failed to relate to his character yesterday.

@bold italic- word, beautifully put ❤️❤️. This is exactly what Sai needs with so much going on around her , not to forget didis constant manifestations about their non existent love, dreams and kwaaishye and what not. What is the poor girl supposed to do😢.

Originally posted by: tptwi

But the deal in the first place was a result of his so-called commitment to Pakhi, so in a way all of these issues in her mind have gathered to create one huuggeeee jalebi of a mess 🤣

After watching this shows here are some words I am terrified off

Promise, friendship, deal, zimmedari, Farz , Jalebis🤣 , kwaaishye 🤢 , Mera pyaar 🤢

Originally posted by: Rdigest

After watching this shows here are some words I am terrified off

Promise, friendship, deal, zimmedari, Farz , Jalebis🤣 , kwaaishye 🤢 , Mera pyaar 🤢

add yoga + beizzati to the list 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

add yoga + beizzati to the list 🤣

How could I forget beizatti and do didis beizatti 😭😂

Originally posted by: tptwi

Just watched the episode again... a few more thoughts...

I think people need to understand, at a basic level, that it is easier for Virat to move on from the deal shaadi, because it was not Sai who put forth the conditions... it was him. Sai feels that Virat is moving closer to her and further from Pakhi, and hence her guilt is at an all time high for coming in between them. In fact, if I remember correctly, I think it was during the Ladhak fight when she told him that the way he was acting was like giving dhoka to Pakhi. She has felt him coming closer to her all along... she has sensed his love all along... and every time she starts giving herself permission to accept it, she is reminded in full force of the past and what she considers is the truth about Virat-Pakhi's relationship.

There has been hardly any monologue from her side Pooja.. You know you need to look at her very basic dialogues to understand that she is getting affected by the closeness Virat and she has it in her head that he loves Pakhi..Pakhi just few weeks back on her birthday was crying and telling her how Virat has ditched her and he makes her cry..What as per has changed.. When you see Sai talking to Aai the other day when he was taking her to Pakhi's house, well she did say they are having a lover's tiff.. There would be so many things going on in her head.. At times when she gets overwhelmed she gets scared of him trying to get more close to her.. She has "his" promise of commitment towards Pakhi, she sees Virat getting physically attracted to her and she also is guilty for spoiling it all for Pakhi...And in all this Virat has never said that he "does not" love Pakhi..All he does commitment nahi hai, kyu nahi hai, no answer.. Mere actions ko samjho.. Then that goes for you as well..Uske actions ko samjho!! And unlike Virat she has no one to talk to w.r.t. him, when she is ready to give up on him, Virat atleast has Sunny!!