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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: fria319


Oh I don't think it'll go that far. Raghav still shows up drunk at D house to take her home. If there's one thing I have assurance of is Raghav will not turn his back or let Pallavi go unless she wants him to. And this is why he was so taken aback and angry during kheer kaand bc to him it now appeared that she wanted someone else or was starting to care for someone else - which played to his deepest insecurities. I still maintain she holds the upper hand in the relationship and she always will because that's the kind of lover Raghav is - he's willing to take a step back and let her take over. That's a-okay by me until she starts to, unintentionally or not, take advantage of it.


*That doesn't mean Pallavi knows or is aware of the fact that she has the upper hand. I don't think she does at all or is intentionally using it to get her way. She's not like that whatsoever. And maybe it sounds a bit crass to even say she has the upper hand but that's just human dynamics. Its rarely ever equal footing all the time.

At this point both their characters look unrecognisable to me. If Pallavi is shown being shallow, Raghav is being shallow equally.

@bold- Raghav's insecurities are now beyond a tolerable board. It's intensely out of character too. Trust is above everything, insecurity above trust in a relationship is a dilution to the character development. Raghav's insecurities seem like a mice cry infront of Pallavi's extreme trust for Raghav during the hit and run track. She single handedly rescued her husband, not letting him down even when the evidences stood against him. In front of that, Raghav's actions are childish.

I want them to explore insecurities but definitely not this way. Raghav was the person who called Mandaar and Pallavi's marriage invalid. Pallavi confessed his love to him. What more is needed? Yes I want Pallavi to take over the problems from here but Raghav is being a dumb wit for a grey character. The first loophole got bigger because he hid the entire thing from her and used a tracker to find her location. Ethical or unethical, Pallavi is bound to be mad, again Raghav is bound to be mad about the fiasco that happened in D house with Mandaar and Vijay; but there is something called conversation. They should have spoken this out. Pallavi has become unrecognisable since she entered D house. But Raghav's character butcher was done the moment he took their selfie and sent it to Mandaar.

They could have brought the best out of the both, they simply wasted a potential plot.

And if Pallavi continues to be like this; I'm surely dusting this show for good.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Haina?

Abi and I are a better story than ITV could ever write 😉

Ek chiz suggest karu?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I totally get what you're saying...that's something I've also felt time and again in the past, but I'm on the fence on whether or not I agree. He's totally happy to let her take the wheel on their relationship, that I agree. I also think that's a spillover from the fact that he seemed to have fallen a bit harder and faster than she did- understandable, since there was nothing he was forgiving her for in the first phase of their marriage, while she obviously was, so while they both clearly had both attraction and an emotional investment in each other, I understand why he got there faster, and waited patiently for her to catch up.

I do think that needs to change now though- let him let her take the lead, but also I want him to express his own wants and expectations from the partnership too. Which is why I loved his outburst on the phone that day- it was the first time he did so! And with Pallavi, the writing for her in the last week has been disappointing to say the least, but if I do look at her as what we've seen throughout, she's the kind of person who seeks out love so much, she'll give back what she receives 10-fold. Unfortunately, that's what led her into this mess with the Deshmukhs- she can't break out of the feeling of gratitude for the scraps of love and affection they gave her. Pair that with the kind of immense love Raghav is capable of (without the 'ehsaan' of the love like others have), it will make for a beautiful, and I'm pretty sure balanced relationship- they just need to work themselves out of this current mess, and learn to talk to each other.


Agree with you Ashi - Raghav fell harder and faster because Pallavi literally filled his life with love and happiness. He married her only to get amma and keerti to live with him. Because of Pallavi he not only got his mother back in all senses, he was absolved of the huge guilt and baggage he had been carrying on for the past 10 years. Yes he was attracted to her but now she has become his center of existence.


Pallavi really needs to break out of the horrible Deshmukh ka ehsaan mess. That is where the writing for the character faltered. They have not given any valid reason as to why Pallavi is overtly obsessed with happiness of the D house given that she was thrown out in middle of the night by the FIL. I think that is why the trps are not going up because trp aunties also are having problem understanding the reasons why Pallavi is doing so much for someone who has been so bad to her in the beginning. It looks idiotic to them also and now we have hard core fans also pissed off at the track. That is why the whole screenplay looks bland because there is no reason to justify the crap they are showing.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Yup. Kya beizzati huye ha uff.😆

Ghamand ko bhasm kardiya. 🤪

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I totally get what you're saying...that's something I've also felt time and again in the past, but I'm on the fence on whether or not I agree. He's totally happy to let her take the wheel on their relationship, that I agree. I also think that's a spillover from the fact that he seemed to have fallen a bit harder and faster than she did- understandable, since there was nothing he was forgiving her for in the first phase of their marriage, while she obviously was, so while they both clearly had both attraction and an emotional investment in each other, I understand why he got there faster, and waited patiently for her to catch up.

I do think that needs to change now though- let him let her take the lead, but also I want him to express his own wants and expectations from the partnership too. Which is why I loved his outburst on the phone that day- it was the first time he did so! And with Pallavi, the writing for her in the last week has been disappointing to say the least, but if I do look at her as what we've seen throughout, she's the kind of person who seeks out love so much, she'll give back what she receives 10-fold. Unfortunately, that's what led her into this mess with the Deshmukhs- she can't break out of the feeling of gratitude for the scraps of love and affection they gave her. Pair that with the kind of immense love Raghav is capable of (without the 'ehsaan' of the love like others have), it will make for a beautiful, and I'm pretty sure balanced relationship- they just need to work themselves out of this current mess, and learn to talk to each other.



@bold: 100% Agree. I think it was clear that she was falling slower - he's liked her probably even before they got married but lost sight of that bc of all the other MUs. At the very least he was aware he was always attracted to her so given how much she cared for his well being and his family, it is no surprise how quickly that turned into love for him. He was just waiting for her because after what he did about the wedding, he never would push her like that again.


I do agree that he needs to communicate his needs better & more - I'm also glad that he finally spoke out - he needed that and Pallavi needed to hear that.


@italics: I said I was ok with the previous imbalance because it's never truly a bad thing to be accommodating to your partner and its near impossible to always have a balanced give and take. So I don't mind that he lets her have the upper hand bc he doesn't mind. It's as you said - when that also means he silences himself and his needs and expectations - I have an issue with that. When Pallavi thinks she shouldn't be the one to apologize first - I have an issue with that. For a long time we've been shown the imbalance so I'm hoping we do get the balance you're talking about soon.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Anyone here into cricket? What just happened to Aussie? Didn't follow this series.


I just follow the Indian Team 😃

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Posted: 4 years ago

Hahaha go for it

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Posted: 4 years ago

You guys write so many nice things/plots...and I personally don't want it to be lost in between so if you want we can create a separate topic where only those scenes can be placed

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: SONIA441


Tum dono apna bhi ek thread banalo.

Besties from ITV karke😆


How cute

Look what she is saying 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

"Mehndi Hai Rachne Waali: Don-giri se Piracy ka Safar" sirf aur sirf Star Plus pe, somwaar se shaniwaar, shaam 6.30 baje.


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