Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#76|Bairag Aur Shringar Ka Mel (GREEN) - Page 47

BTW piu, Aalu, Mahi- kept seeing the name of the show pop up in several of your discussions, so I started watching Diyar-e-dil

Two episodes I am getting the ShiVi parallels 🤣

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

am I the only one who thinks that raavi's pulling a classic 🥰a bandaid on a bullet wound🥰?

I thought the same too😆

She is trying to resolve things superficially, what she terms as "fights" without even trying to understand the root cause of why Shiva suddenly changed

She said today that he would care for her earlier when she fell but stopped now. Why not go a step ahead and think why this might have happened? I hope she gets there too, soon 😆

dear 🥰braincell saving squad🥰 (T, funbuns, avi, hails, eshu & others),

thank you so much for analysing stuff y'all ❤️

I'm very, very grateful for all you've done for me 🥺

thanks to you guys I have to just have to ✨quote✨ stuff 🤡

sincerely,

sara's last braincell 🤪

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

BTW piu, Aalu, Mahi- kept seeing the name of the show pop up in several of your discussions, so I started watching Diyar-e-dil

Two episodes I am getting the ShiVi parallels 🤣

Arjumad and Suhaib have a lot of angst. It was a good drama, and yes, Shivi parallels 😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Just saw the episode - Not too bad. Chikki... keep the chanting going 🤣

Can someone explain to me why Anita was mixing oil with the water. Creating a hole in a pot may not be caught, but how on earth can people not smell gasoline and coconut oil? 🤪

Also, was Motiben catching Anita scene meant to stop there? They are doing bad editing with Anita too 🤣 And I am not complaining- am weirdly feeling happy that it is not only ShiVi 😆

Coming to the ShiVi scene- ok so now my Raavi anger has simmered down. Might be the analyses over the previous day, but I liked today's scenes. She is definitely trying. She is ofcourse a Dobi and is not looking beyond the anger- but there we are, we have a not-so-bright FL, what to say. I atleast got assured today that she is affected by all this, and not in some lala land. For people who think that she can still be happy and chirpy irrespective of what is going in her life- that is some deep form of avoidance- precisely called "burying your head in the sand". You can only last on so much fake-happy till reality catches upto you. And unless you acknowledge things are wrong, you cannot work towards fixing issues.

I hated that she shared with Dev, but looking at the scenes, it made sense to me actually. Dev is literally the only one who is lending a hand of support. Ideally she should not share with him, but she is human. She needs someone to spill her heart to. If Anita was not such a idiot, Raavi may not have needed Dev to share her sorrows with 🤷‍♀️ That said, she and Dev are really not putting 2 and 2 together. Some of Shiva's words, more importantly, some of his pauses are telling.

Both Raavi and Dev really need to learn to read the room 🤔

Still heart broken for Shiva. All jokes on the EDT aside, atleast Dev is approaching Raavi and she cam talk to him like a friend. No one is approaching Shiva. Dev tried, but Shiva can't share his problems with the root cause. It still looks to me like they are heading to a separation- The ShiVi monologues were telling:

Raavi: " Mein giri aur toone mujhe ek baat tak nahin sunayi... Pehle toh ladayi mein bhi apnapan tha Shiva, Ab aisa kya ho gaya ki teri chuppi mein bhi dooriyan hain"

Shiva's "Ek pal ko tere kareeb aane laga tha. Par apne aukaad se bahar sapne dekhne ka koi fayda nahin... tujhme mujhme jo antar hai woh labhi katham nahin ho saktha.Bairag aur Shringar ka saath toh kisson mein bhi nahin hota"

Raavi is beginning to realize the difference in Shiva's behavior.

Shiva is coming to the conclusion their i'm compatibilities are insurmountable.

Note on Shiva's insecurities: I think people are taking his words at face value. My take is while he is harping on tel, masale or English, his thinking is more deep rooted. It is more about a personality change. He also knows he could learn English at any time or dress nicely(like the bonfire night). But he cannot not become "Prince Charming" day-in and day-out. At the end of the day he is a simple man, who is probably talks brashly with people(as opposed to being soft-spoken and polite). If he starts changing one by one, he will be unrecognizable at the end, and probably not comfortable in his skin.

Think of it like the introvert vs extrovert person- as an introvert I can maybe be outgoing and mix with a lot of people over one, may two evenings- maybe also say a few months. But very soon the facade will become emotionally draining. And I will want to revert back to my old self for mental sanity.

Shiva feels Raavi is looking for a band-aid fix for their issues. Either he changes or she changes. She can just compromise and suppress her desires. But how long would that last. When would the compromise start becoming a burden? Comprimising because you love someone might be different from compromising because you have no other option. The later becomes a unbearable burden very soon.

This is beautifully worded❤️❤️❤️

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Ahaa.. fir toh ek alag bonding dekhne ko milegi humein.. Dev aur Anita ki 🤣🤣

I think the pot which was leaking and anitha watching happily was of devs only frm the precap .😆

Dev singing YKB 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I can't! CV’s mercilessly trolling us!

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I thought the same too😆

She is trying to resolve things superficially, what she terms as "fights" without even trying to understand the root cause of why Shiva suddenly changed

She said today that he would care for her earlier when he fell but stopped now. Why not go a step earlier and think why this might have happened? I hope she gets there too, soon 😆

why is she such a ✨take things on surface value✨ girl ughh 🤡

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I thought the same too😆

She is trying to resolve things superficially, what she terms as "fights" without even trying to understand the root cause of why Shiva suddenly changed

She said today that he would care for her earlier when he fell but stopped now. Why not go a step earlier and think why this might have happened? I hope she gets there too, soon 😆

Maybe because she still can't imagine that someone like Shiva can really start falling for her. ..

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Page 32, Aalu 😆 I've copied and pasted every LU I did into a single post

Thank you Avi! I'm glad this episode can be classified Green, though it did have its issues 😆