I'm starting to get annoyed at how Pallavi thinks its Raghav who needs to come and speak to her. It's like she still didn't even register what he said. There's a part of me that was always knew Pallavi had the upper hand in their relationship. It's not a bad thing - and can happen in a lot of relationships naturally. Here it happened naturally bc it was Raghav who was in the wrong for forcing marriage on her. So to make up for that, he gave her the reigns to their relationship. He allows her to guide him (for the most part) in their relationship progression. It's him who pacifies her 9/10 times. Again, this is not a bad thing.
It becomes bad when one party (Pallavi) becomes accustomed to this (Raghav fixing their issues) and then expects this despite being the one who "messed" up (even if unintentional - I don't blame her whatsover for getting drugged of course. But the onus is on her to figure out what happened and explain it to him if he doesn't have the right story.) I didn't want them to show Pallavi like this because I believe she was never like this in the beginning. But I'm getting annoyed that they (Siku and co) are handling R+P arguments this way for the sake of MUs and tadka.
I know Raghav has put her on a pedestal and maybe deepdown even believes that he is lucky to have her which he is but so is she and she knows that. I don't think she wants to have the upper hand, pull the strings, have the reigns in her hand, control things etc etc etc.. But yes, I agree right now I am not liking her way of handling things AT ALL. When she made the decision unilaterally to move to D house when it should've been discussed, debated and maybe even some terms and conditions laid for everyone's convenience..for instance- they could've agreed upon them meeting everyday or every other day either at D house or RR mansion even if for an hour.. point is she knows she did exactly the opposite of what she had promised him and that is not let her past come in the way of their present and future..and yes unfortunately how things turned out isn't her fault but it isn't Raghav's fault either. So I feel, the onus is more on her to make it up to him when things like what happened during Mangala Gaur happened.. Now she knows he is upset with her behavior..so why sit at home and leave things unresolved like this.. I am expecting more from Ayi at this point too.. though ideally Pallavi shouldn't have to be made to realize all this.. but if she isn't then I expect Ayi to talk to her.. even Amma.. Push her to go talk to Raghav personally.
