The Provocation Trap - Page 19

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Let's be clear once and for all that Malini NEVER trusted Adi😆.....so the situations are not the same at all in my opinion cuz:

a) Malini was even jealous of Imlie's VOICE on the phone from PD😆....she didn't trust Adi simply over hearing a girl's voice in the background when he called her.

b) The first time Malini saw Imlie in T house, she had no context about Imlie other than the fact that Adi brought her over from PD and even then she was watching Imlie so warily.....so GHANTA trust😆......contrast this with how Imlie greeted Malini at the door today when Adi brought her from the hospital.....ekdum complete and open trust despite Malini giving her evidence just last week that she is angling to be Adi's wife again.

c) Imlie was Adi's valid wife before he even married Malini and even then she backed off and never imposed herself on Adi.....respected whatever his choice was and infact tried to support him in whatever choice he made. Yes, this was all before she herself fell for Adi but even after she started having feelings for him, for a long time she still continued to respect his choice about who he wanted to be with.....that is the KEY difference.

d) Imlie trusted Adi at every stage pretty much....even when he was pushing her away.....lol.....she trusted in his character, in his sense of loyalty.....she has never considered him a two-timer because he has been loyal to whoever he felt he was committed to at the time and he expressed this clearly to Imlie always. .....

So to say this is a parallel to how Malini supposedly had "naive trust" in Adi and then got betrayed......no, it's not even remotely the same case.

Malini never trusted Adi but she claimed blind trust in the face of seeing the signs of Adi-Imlie's connection.....now she's acting like they were cheating her behind her back the whole time but the truth is that they didn't actually carry on as a relationship behind her back.....that entire phase was simply about them trying to support each other on a human level.....they weren't trying to have some romantic relationship that supposedly Malini can claim as an act of betrayal while Adi was professing love to her. That is the big irony.....Adi-Imlie had the RIGHT to be together as husband-wife even then but they never did....the whole time they simply supported each other on a human level before Adi started to realize his feelings.

And by the time Adi started to realize his feelings for Imlie, he had stopped giving Malini any claims of grand love....so again, how does it become "two-timing" then?

This is why this is a totally different situation.......Adi has literally told the whole world that Imlie is his wife and that he is no longer with Malini.....He has clearly shown to Malini that he only loves Imlie, his every thought is only for Imlie.....He has given Malini no reason to believe that he is interested in her and still she's shown up with a FAKE illness to stay in his house and to even climb into his bed.

So the first big difference is in the form of imposition only....Malini is IMPOSING herself on Adi....Imlie NEVER did....even when she had first rights on him. The second difference is that in Imlie's case during the entire time Adi was with Malini, everyone didn't know the whole truth that she was actually Adi's first wife.....but in this case now when Adi is totally with Imlie, everyone knows the truth that Imlie is Adi's first wife and still Malini is doing acts like this......lol so more than a test of trust, it's a test of character.....and Malini has failed that test completely.

I'm just finding it hilarious that people think this is some form of "justice" that Imlie is being made to see AM together and this supposedly will show her what broken trust feels like......lol well I hope people get their answer soon about how the situations are totally different.

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Imlie can feel hurt obviously....but she will never be Malini who never trusted Adi to begin with so her claims of broken trust were bullshit to begin with.

Muje to ek baat samaj me aa rahi hai after reading their comments kis duniya ke hai ye log. If they can't understand reel characters. God save them. It shows their poor emotional IQ level. Sach apne apne ankho se tukodo me dhekhne se badalata nahi. Sach Sach hi hota hai.

Originally posted by: akipog

Her character would have been realistic if she hasn't forgiven Adi nd fought 4 her own rights but this is like 0 self respect and obsession to get something at the cost of own sister's happiness who sacrificed everything 4 d sake of her well being.Her saccharine nature covered with manipulation is what makes Malini a poorly written character. On insta all the comments are in favor of delusional dd that now Imlu will get a taste of own medicine nd all sorts of crap. All are hell bent on proving Imlu snatched Adi nd Adini deserves to be together coz of 7 yr relationship thing oh God I badly want Imlu giving a good lecture on how Adilie hppnd nd marriage wasn't in her mind nd her career nd dreams were above anything. She should openly say how it feels to c ur husband with someone even though dd came b4 her . She should say loud and clear Adilie tried separating but it never hppnd coz Adilie were meant to be. I will be happy if 23 mins of epi is dedicated for this. Elder ts are literally getting on my nerves nd this lecture by Imlu is much needed 4 delusional ts dd nd some delusional audience who still thinks Imlu is a home wrecker. I think this is much needed nd ST will nail it if such a sequence is planned. This is purely my opinion as certain comments hurt especially directed to actors in real.

Just my 2 cents … Imlie doesn’t owe any explanation to anyone anymore … they have said their truth and she can’t keep proving or telling how it happened her dadda mentioned it … Adi mentioned she also mentioned it to T ladies … they are deaf … regarding DD trying these tricks it is her track of realization she is obsessed she did a big mistake by telling KC’s lie she should had fought then itself or spoken the truth to Adi as he spoke … she did not pave the path for them they were already on tht path … all of them think this is daya and not pyaar eventually they will get a proof of it ….check tht parallels are getting drawn now the walk … where Imlie entered the room DD did similar wslk to her way to guest room … This precap bed scene can be compared to one after marriage Adi pounced on Imlie thinking she is DD under the bedsheet … they will try to draw parallel and state tht fair chance given to both they performed the same task … but Imlie’s place in Adis heart is intact …if they meant by doing all this Imlie lured Adi fine DD performed the same task but no effect on Adi … I feel tht would b the track but Imlie would get DD’s intentions and here it may go 2 ways makers can make her stand for her rights and sshhh DD away or she may step behind for her DD by putting a gifting bow on Adi and walk away ….

Adi who was just being blind to DD’s feelings …will have to face it and clear it out No means No …

DD never ever considered Imlie her younger sister … she was just her step to become mahaan … get praises for helping her and b the GB…later after Adi disclosed the truth Initially Imlie was a her ticket yo T house now Apu is her ticket ..

regarding SM abt Adini … those guys keep making VM even if these guy are not in a single frame so now we will have to bear more useless VMs floating around … 😂

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

Imlie 100% trust Adhi so I think there will no issues. But she cannot easily neglect the red signal from Malini’s behaviour. More than that I think she will not take Character of Adhi to be questioned , like even half of family members including his father accepted her as dil of house and even all elders have some extent accepted imlie as Adhithya’s wife. If the scene in precap is visible by anyother member that may definitely affected Adhi’s reputation, that imlie will not take… she may take precautions to avoid such situations.

KC’ s truth revelation is not on cards I think Malini still not revealed anything more and even I think she kept him as backup. If her plan doesn’t work she have to go for KC.

I feel Imlie may find out about the KC truth and that combined with all these despo things that Malini is doing will convince her Malini still loves Adi.....so she may back off and leave again because of that.

Imlie was always more worried about this whole "behen ka suhaag cheen liya" stuff than Adi was.....the only thing that made her relax about it a little was Malini claiming she has no problem and saying yeh haq Imlie ka hai blah blah.....toh Imlie believed all that after a while. Now if she learns that KC was a lie and Malini still wants Adi, she will struggle again about accepting this relationship. This, along with AC or Aparna saying some bakwaas to her about 7 saal ka rishta being bigger than everything will again hurt Imlie, so she is capable of backing off again.

Remains to be seen if it comes to that.

Imlie's issue is not about trust....she does trust Adi.....her issue is that she doesn't feel comfortable claiming her happiness at the cost of someone else's happiness.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I feel Imlie may find out about the KC truth and that combined with all these despo things that Malini is doing will convince her Malini still loves Adi.....so she may back off and leave again because of that.

Imlie was always more worried about this whole "behen ka suhaag cheen liya" stuff than Adi was.....the only thing that made her relax about it a little was Malini claiming she has no problem and saying yeh haq Imlie ka hai blah blah.....toh Imlie believed all that after a while. Now if she learns that KC was a lie and Malini still wants Adi, she will struggle again about accepting this relationship. This, along with AC or Aparna saying some bakwaas to her about 7 saal ka rishta being bigger than everything will again hurt Imlie, so she is capable of backing off again.

Remains to be seen if it comes to that.

Imlie's issue is not about trust....she does trust Adi.....her issue is that she doesn't feel comfortable claiming her happiness at the cost of someone else's happiness.

But now if she will do this its not right too.

Isme glti adi ki to nhi h ki malini jhut boli.

Jha sari duniya ko pta chl gya h they are husband wife.. adi ko fir chod ke jana just bcoz of sister ye kon sa insaf h .

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I feel Imlie may find out about the KC truth and that combined with all these despo things that Malini is doing will convince her Malini still loves Adi.....so she may back off and leave again because of that.

Imlie was always more worried about this whole "behen ka suhaag cheen liya" stuff than Adi was.....the only thing that made her relax about it a little was Malini claiming she has no problem and saying yeh haq Imlie ka hai blah blah.....toh Imlie believed all that after a while. Now if she learns that KC was a lie and Malini still wants Adi, she will struggle again about accepting this relationship. This, along with AC or Aparna saying some bakwaas to her about 7 saal ka rishta being bigger than everything will again hurt Imlie, so she is capable of backing off again.

Remains to be seen if it comes to that.

Imlie's issue is not about trust....she does trust Adi.....her issue is that she doesn't feel comfortable claiming her happiness at the cost of someone else's happiness.

Of course what you said makes sense logically and in a way it is better KC truth also comes out soon - but the only reason I feel it may not is Malini won’t have anything else left to guilt trip Adi imlie later on- she can’t release all her weapons in this track.
It all depends on KC’s reaction if and when Adi goes and talks to him- I still get the feeling KC will protect Malini. And he needs to be ready when didi finally leaves and looks for the next shoulder to lean on 😆

Originally posted by: girdharmona

But now if she will do this its not right too.

Isme glti adi ki to nhi h ki malini jhut boli.

Jha sari duniya ko pta chl gya h they are husband wife.. adi ko fir chod ke jana just bcoz of sister ye kon sa insaf h .

It's not about right or wrong.....when she will feel hurt and dejected, she won't be thinking logically obviously😆.

Last time also when she left, she wasn't thinking logically.....she just felt hurt and confused so she walked away.

It wasn't Adi's fault previously also when Imlie laid down the condition about wanting to meet KC and basaao Didi ka ghar😆.....he was clear then also that he can't give Malini what she wants regardless of KC ho ya na ho.....but Imlie always kept insisting ki KC sach hua toh hi woh aage ka sochegi.....so if she finds out that Malini lied about KC for whatever reason, she will again go back to her guilt trip of feeling like she took Malini ka pati away blah blah.

Adi has explained it to her a 100 times ki she hasn't taken away kisi ka kuch bhi but dusro ki baatein end up getting to Imlie.....that is why she was so hurt on learning that Malini is her sister cuz she knew how people will always perceive her as having broken her sister's home.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Of course what you said makes sense logically and in a way it is better KC truth also comes out soon - but the only reason I feel it may not is Malini won’t have anything else left to guilt trip Adi imlie later on- she can’t release all her weapons in this track.
It all depends on KC’s reaction if and when Adi goes and talks to him- I still get the feeling KC will protect Malini. And he needs to be ready when didi finally leaves and looks for the next shoulder to lean on 😆

LOL naa, there are still plenty of other things for her to use to guilt trip them regardless of KC truth.....har baat pe ghumaa phiraa ke behen ya dost hone ka haq jataati rahegi to guilt trip ki main bechaari akeli reh gayi, aao meri sevaa karo😆.....2-3 aur suicide attempts kar degi casually🤔

Waise bhi she can just as easily go back to KC later and claim ki NOW she feels something for him FOR REAL 😆......and yeh log sab maan bhi lenge ki haan chalo theek hai she might be trying to move on for real this time even if pehle jhoot bola tha.....lol just see how casually they are all behaving after her SECOND suicide attempt🤔....you really think they will care if she turns around and says pehle KC jhoot tha lekin ab sach hai? 😆

Adi may not find out the truth from KC.....shaayad kisi ki convo overhear karke pata chale at some point.....and I think ab zyada chances hain of Imlie finding out KC truth before Adi.

Originally posted by: Dreamer007

Just my 2 cents … Imlie doesn’t owe any explanation to anyone anymore … they have said their truth and she can’t keep proving or telling how it happened her dadda mentioned it … Adi mentioned she also mentioned it to T ladies … they are deaf … regarding DD trying these tricks it is her track of realization she is obsessed she did a big mistake by telling KC’s lie she should had fought then itself or spoken the truth to Adi as he spoke … she did not pave the path for them they were already on tht path … all of them think this is daya and not pyaar eventually they will get a proof of it ….check tht parallels are getting drawn now the walk … where Imlie entered the room DD did similar wslk to her way to guest room … This precap bed scene can be compared to one after marriage Adi pounced on Imlie thinking she is DD under the bedsheet … they will try to draw parallel and state tht fair chance given to both they performed the same task … but Imlie’s place in Adis heart is intact …if they meant by doing all this Imlie lured Adi fine DD performed the same task but no effect on Adi … I feel tht would b the track but Imlie would get DD’s intentions and here it may go 2 ways makers can make her stand for her rights and sshhh DD away or she may step behind for her DD by putting a gifting bow on Adi and walk away ….

Adi who was just being blind to DD’s feelings …will have to face it and clear it out No means No …

DD never ever considered Imlie her younger sister … she was just her step to become mahaan … get praises for helping her and b the GB…later after Adi disclosed the truth Initially Imlie was a her ticket yo T house now Apu is her ticket ..

regarding SM abt Adini … those guys keep making VM even if these guy are not in a single frame so now we will have to bear more useless VMs floating around … 😂

The theme of yesterday's epi was "haq ki ladaai".

AC was urging Didi to do the fight for her rights as a wife & now Didi has also started doing her cheap tricks with the same justification. What both of them do not understand is that this haq ki ladaai should not be with Imlie but with Adi. For them Imlie is the enemy with whom Didi needs to fight for her rights while in actuality it is only Adi the husband who can give her the rights of being his wife. This simple thing they do not understand. For them, enemy is always the woman & not the man. So much internalised patriarchy.

Didi just doesn't get it that Imlie has never done the haq ki ladaai with her. After AM got married, Imlie never intentionally tried to win back her rights nor did she try to make Adi fall for her. Adi-Imlie never ever intentionally tried to make a go if their husband-wife relationship. But their personalities are such that they fell in love with each other without even wanting to. They were simply destined to be together. But even after Adi fell in love with Imlie, she never tried to take her rightful place as Adi's wife which he was ready to give her. In fact Imlie for the longest time fought with Adi for Didi's haq ki ladaai. She has never ever fought with Didi for anything. If Didi would have wanted to continue her relationship with Adi, Imlie would have accepted that & left AM. She has only now after so much assurances from Didi started fighting for her place as Adi's wife & that too with the family. Her fight is now to be accepted by the family.

Didi ki mindset is that she needs to fight with Imlie to gain back Adi. But the actual solution for her troubles is to speak honestly with Adi & to fight with him for her so called rights. But no, she won't do that because she wants to maintain her mahantaa ka mask. And she is the only one responsible for that. No one asked her to be mahaan. Adi-Imlie, SK-Meethi, Tripathis, everyone would have no issue with Didi not wanting to leave her marriage & to fight for it. But the reason she never fought for it from the start when she came to know the truth is because she always knew the reality of her own relationship with Adi even if they both tried to hype it. She always knew Adi was not in some grand love with her. And now if a person like Adi who fights for the rights & upholds justice above all, claimed to love Imlie & wanted to give her the rights of his wife leaving Didi, then he has truly fallen in love with Imlie. Didi could never hold him.

This is the reason why Didi targets Imlie & not Adi. She knows Adi won't budge. So she is trying to make Imlie leave using underhanded tactics because mahanta needs to be maintained at all costs. Didi even knows that if she honestly tells Imlie her feelings, Imlie will actually leave Adi & go but that won't really bring Adi back to her. Hence all these tucche attempts to somehow phasao Adi & to make Imlie leave. She knows that Adi really doesn't love her whatever she momentarily tries to pacify herself by deluding herself by hyping Adi's gestures. Because if she was so confident in her own self to win back Adi she would have directly & honestly communicated with Adi. All of these 2rs cheap harkatein Didi is doing only to gain the momentary delusional happiness & attention. Nothing more. Tukke se agar kuch hua & Adi-Imlie break up toh sone pe suhaga for Didi.

Yesterday in the episode, Imlie might have told Adi that she will bring tea for Malini and that is why Adi was in room making small talk with Malini, but when he saw Aparna brought the tea he immediately asked about Imlie and as soon as he got a chance, he went after Imlie to talk with her in private and make sure she is comfortable. Itne mein hi he was concerned why Imlie didn’t come.. now Imagine what would this guy do after the precap scene plays out. He knows very well seeing him with Malini bothers Imlie, he knows she won’t say anything but will cry in a corner and the last time Malini forced herself on Adi, after Imlie’s admission argument, Imlie distanced herself and stopped talking with him and he became sick. I am very curious to see what he would do now.. the more Malini tries her desperate attempts, the more Adi runs after Imlie. Nazara dekhne layak hoga.

Whatever happens, for once I do not want Imlie to run away from her relationship with Adi. She knows what happens to Adi if she leaves him.. he fainted with fever last time just at the thought that Imlie left him.. after all that Imlie should give priority to Adi above all else. Yes she would feel bad for Malini, but she should learn how to cope up with her guilt and prioritize Adi, she should learn that Adi is not a toy that can be thrown from one sister to other. she ran away enough number of times and saw the consequences, hope she learned atleast something from that. Then she took the decision without consulting Adi and she shouldn’t do it now, it would be just insulting him after everything they went thru. Let’s see how the makers will show Imlie’s character growth