The Provocation Trap - Page 21

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Haq ki ladai nhi balki chipakne ke baahane sochri h yeh didi toh. Jaante hui bhi that Adi only prioritized Imlie, she said she "needed this" & thanking her mother lol. Needed what 😂 ? Such a chipku woman.🤣Chewing gum ki bubble ki tarah baar baar chop hojati h & mez pe chipak jaati h when she's unnecessary to be present lol.

Arre mez se toh phir bbi utterly jaati hai with gum remover yeh baalon main chippak gayi hai jitna bhi try kar lo nahi niklegi..and wohi chop karnaa padega ..apna nuksaan iska toh kuch nahi jaayega..yeh dusre insaan ko mentally drain karke emotional and physical trauma de ke jaayegi 🤣

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I agree with you that Didi does not have any leg to stand on as the wife because Imlie is the 1st wife whose marriage was not dissolved & who is the actual wife. But if she wants to fight for her relationship with Adi as the woman to whom promises were made & who was in relationship with Adi for 7 years, then also Didi needs to communicate it with Adi. Only Adi as the husband can give her the rights of the wife, not Imlie.

As you said Didi doesn't understand the basic concept of razamandi i.e. consent of the partners involved to be in a relationship. You cannot force someone to be in a relationship with you. She clearly sees that Adi is fully committed to his relationship with Imlie, but still tries to convince herself that she can try to win him back because he gave her support of his hand when she acted to faint. Matlab aisi inconsequential gesture ko she was comparing with the monumental gesture of Adi inviting Imlie into his room. And she is doing all of these cheap tricks by tricking Adi-Imlie that she supports their relationships while what she actually wants is to sabotage their relationship.

I read some comments that Adi was being insensitive to Didi by doing Imlie jaap throughout the epi. He should have kept lihaaz that he is still not divorced with her. But why? Didi has given him the impression that she is in love with someone else & she fully supports Adi-Imlie relationship. He believes that she has also moved on & considers him as a friend only. So why would he think that she would be sensitive about their past relationship.

@bold1: Again, that point is about JUSTICE....not HAQ......being in a 7 year relationship doesn't automatically give you rights.....the rights of a marriage supersede those and Imlie got those rights first. Bhaad mein gayi Didi ki 2 Rs. communication....gimme a break🤔.....Adi is not obligated to give her anything other than polite regard.....woh bhi bahut zyada hai for a cheapster like her. The window of communication has long since been closed and frankly never really opened in this equation.....so why scapegoat Adi for her own debilitations? She isn't CAPABLE of any MATURE adult behavior.....how do you communicate anything with such a person? Jis insaan mein TAMEEZ hi na ho, kya LIHAAZ dein use?

Malini could have demanded justice that Adi didn't keep his promises to her as a boyfriend, justice for making her a second wife.....but she isn't demanding any of that....she just wants to go sleep with the same guy she feels betrayed her.

@bold2: Wait....are we actually now giving CREDENCE to those ASININE arguments from social media? 😆

Ummm Adi has declared Imlie his wife to the whole world.😆....lol uske baad kausna lihaaz expect kar rahe hain yeh log? Woh jise patni maanta hai, usko prioritize bhi na kare? Apne past mein baitha rahe?

Btw Didi herself was calling him her ex-husband even before the divorce got finalized....also going around chipkoing to a stranger, hugging him, calling him baby etc. before her divorce with Adi got finalized.....woh sab LIHAAZ tha? 😛

Adi is treating her as a friend cuz that is the impression she gave to him when she told him she loves someone else.....lol but after all that also, onus is on ADI to read her third class mind and make accommodations around it? GTFO😆

Past relationship ki dignity uske saath rakhi jaati hai jismein Dignity ho.....not cheapsters who have no dignity to begin with.

And Adi who is still seeing his rightful wife facing so much injustice in his house should leave her to fend for herself and support this loser woman who herself is shameless enough to keep landing up in his house without hesitation? Spare me.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This whole sudden extra gratitude she's feeling for her Mom simply cuz her Mom helped her get token scraps of attention from Adi......lol it really shows Malini's character in a nutshell to be about clinging to whoever gives in to her demand. This is what must have happened with Adi....he must have done a few token polite gestures and she must have started treating those as the greatest proof of love ever and hyping them.....just like with her mom also she's so filled with gratitude over these lame things.....lol

The same Mom she was berating two days back for kidnapping and getting Adi beaten up is now her BFF cuz she got her an entry into Adi's house and tricks for how to make Adi give her some attention😕

The same Mom that Malini has claimed to be against for so long is now her greatest hero simply for giving in to her demand of "Mujhe Aditya dilaa do"......waah, strong mature Didi waah👏😆.....yeh sudhaarengi desh ka bhavishya? Those poor students of hers need to sent to therapy already cuz god knows what poison she's already filled in their minds.

Lmao you forgot to add the same mom who poisoned her a night before and to whom she was saying mom how could you by giving her those usual sade expressions.. 🤣 that is her best friend and thank you mom I really really needed this and whatever you will tell me will I be able to do that...uhhh yeah caz you are beyind pathetic

Originally posted by: Lodestar

You know who actually loves Didi unconditionally like she wants? Imlie.

Imlie is the only person in Didi's life that loves her genuinely but sadly Didi can never recognise & appreciate this fact. Her own family do not understand how to love anyone, all Loservedis are selfish only. Adi never loved her as a partner should & right now he only cares for her as a friend but given Adi's detached personality, his friendship is also very surface level. The elder Ts have their own agenda for loving Didi as she is the high status bahu.

Imlie is the only one who loves her unconditionally like she desires. She loves her as a sister even if Didi barely does the minimum gestures. If Didi genuinely established sister wala relationship with Imlie, she would receive so much love from Imlie. But sadly Didi runs after what is unattainable & rejects what is genuinely & freely given.

Bandar kya jaane Adrak ka swaad😆

Jis aurat mein capability hi nahin hai genuine emotions ko perceive ya value karne ki, woh kya samjhegi Imlie ka saaf dil pyar which is without expectations.....sab pe pyar lutaane ko tayyaar hoti hai Imlie without keeping any grudges. But Malini is a forever bitter and insecure woman....and such people cannot value a selfless love. Unki samajh se pare hai yeh.

Imlie deserves better than wasting her selfless love on such a person. It is costing her the relationships that she actually should be treasuring. Yeh matlabi log toh apna matlab nikaal ke nikal lenge......par jo ladki puri zindagi pyar ke liye tarsi hai, she deserves to savor apne hissa ka pyar and parivaar now.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Lmao you forgot to add the same mom who poisoned her a night before and to whom she was saying mom how could you by giving her those usual sade expressions.. 🤣 that is her best friend and thank you mom I really really needed this and whatever you will tell me will I be able to do that...uhhh yeah caz you are beyind pathetic

Don't you know her mom is her inspiration 🤣🤣🤣. So of course everything is maaf for Mom even if she poisoned her😂😂😂.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold1: Again, that point is about JUSTICE....not HAQ......being in a 7 year relationship doesn't automatically give you rights.....the rights of a marriage supersede those and Imlie got those rights first. Bhaad mein gayi Didi ki 2 Rs. communication....gimme a break🤔.....Adi is not obligated to give her anything other than polite regard.....woh bhi bahut zyada hai for a cheapster like her. The window of communication has long since been closed and frankly never really opened in this equation.....so why scapegoat Adi for her own debilitations? She isn't CAPABLE of any MATURE adult behavior.....how do you communicate anything with such a person? Jis insaan mein TAMEEZ hi na ho, kya LIHAAZ dein use?

Malini could have demanded justice that Adi didn't keep his promises to her as a boyfriend, justice for making her a second wife.....but she isn't demanding any of that....she just wants to go sleep with the same guy she feels betrayed her.

@bold2: Wait....are we actually now giving CREDENCE to those ASININE arguments from social media? 😆

Ummm Adi has declared Imlie his wife to the whole world.😆....lol uske baad kausna lihaaz expect kar rahe hain yeh log? Woh jise patni maanta hai, usko prioritize bhi na kare? Apne past mein baitha rahe?

Btw Didi herself was calling him her ex-husband even before the divorce got finalized....also going around chipkoing to a stranger, hugging him, calling him baby etc. before her divorce with Adi got finalized.....woh sab LIHAAZ tha? 😛

Adi is treating her as a friend cuz that is the impression she gave to him when she told him she loves someone else.....lol but after all that also, onus is on ADI to read her third class mind and make accommodations around it? GTFO😆

Past relationship ki dignity uske saath rakhi jaati hai jismein Dignity ho.....not cheapsters who have no dignity to begin with.

And Adi who is still seeing his rightful wife facing so much injustice in his house should leave her to fend for herself and support this loser woman who herself is shameless enough to keep landing up in his house without hesitation? Spare me.

Lmao such nonsense..the girl who is already isolated by all should be isolated by the only person she is here for and jiske bharose hain bhi wah wah kya sensitivity expect kar rahe bain ..and then these same people claim that they care for imlie so much adi should be the last person to show any sensitivity to didi. Eso after this new kaand jo lihaaz sharam parda rakh raha tha iski galazat ka eoh bhi end karo she is not worthy .. and should be even more laser focused on imlie infact mera bas chalta and main imlie ki jagah hoti toh baazu se pakkad ke iss harkat ke baad isse bahar phenkti..woh toh imlie and adi ki courtesy and sensitivity hi hai ke abhi bhi rakhe huye hai uss manhoos cheez ko jisko uske khid ke maa baap na rakhna chahte.

Jab aapki aukaat 2 rs bhi na ho and you would pretend to be the queen of the world oh well kya bolein..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Bandar kya jaane Adrak ka swaad😆

Jis aurat mein capability hi nahin hai genuine emotions ko perceive ya value karne ki, woh kya samjhegi Imlie ka saaf dil pyar which is without expectations.....sab pe pyar lutaane ko tayyaar hoti hai Imlie without keeping any grudges. But Malini is a forever bitter and insecure woman....and such people cannot value a selfless love. Unki samajh se pare hai yeh.

Imlie deserves better than wasting her selfless love on such a person. It is costing her the relationships that she actually should be treasuring. Yeh matlabi log toh apna matlab nikaal ke nikal lenge......par jo ladki puri zindagi pyar ke liye tarsi hai, she deserves to savor apne hissa ka pyar and parivaar now.

Sahi main Didi aisi specimen hai ki usse koi basic expectations bhi nahi rakh sakti audience. She can never be happy & will always wallow in her own self pity. Chaddo isse😆

Imlie is such a pyaara character man. Itni saaf dil hain yeh ladki & literally chidkaoes her jaan on people that she considers her own. How genuinely worried was she for Didi throughout the epi & so happy to have her back in T house. She even offered to sleep with Didi in her room on the floor so that Didi doesn't feel alone. Itna pyaar aaya mujhe Imlie pe & fierce protectiveness bhi to safeguard her from a dhokebaaz like Didi. This girl deserves all the love & happiness in the world & she should not sacrifice any little bit of her own happiness for such undeserving tucche log. Puts kaala teeka on her❤️.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Lmao such nonsense..the girl who is already isolated by all should be isolated by the only person she is here for and jiske bharose hain bhi wah wah kya sensitivity expect kar rahe bain ..and then these same people claim that they care for imlie so much adi should be the last person to show any sensitivity to didi. Eso after this new kaand jo lihaaz sharam parda rakh raha tha iski galazat ka eoh bhi end karo she is not worthy .. and should be even more laser focused on imlie infact mera bas chalta and main imlie ki jagah hoti toh baazu se pakkad ke iss harkat ke baad isse bahar phenkti..woh toh imlie and adi ki courtesy and sensitivity hi hai ke abhi bhi rakhe huye hai uss manhoos cheez ko jisko uske khid ke maa baap na rakhna chahte.

Jab aapki aukaat 2 rs bhi na ho and you would pretend to be the queen of the world oh well kya bolein..

Wohi toh....I'm like kahaan se aate hain yeh mahaan log? 🤔😆

Sab chochle hain.....just like Didi, har 2 days inke excuses badalte hain....lol abhi bol rahe hain divorce ka lihaaz karo, baad mein bolenge woh tumhaari ex hai, uska lihaaz karo, dost hai uska lihaaz karo.....haan bhai, puri duniya ka lihaaz kare aur apni actual wife ko bhool jaaye? 😕😆

Pathetic Didi type mentality hi hai ki khud ki koi self respect toh hai nahin ki apni life kuch izzat se jee lo....khud hi aakar Adi ki life/ghar/kamre mein ghusna hai aur phir LIHAAZ ka expectation karna hai ki woh apni wife ke baare mein baat bhi na kare tumhare saamne😕😆

These people behave like life mein tumhara koi ex ho jaaye toh tumhari zindagi should forever be on eggshells after that and apne current partner ko bhi prioritize nahin karna chahiye😆

Waise I have to laugh ki just hearing Adi do this much Imlie jaap is lagaaoing so much aag to some folks😆.....not like he's doing PDA or anything jiska itna halla kar rahe hain.....lol waise toh woh bhi karne ka haq hai uska but he is already showing kaafi lihaaz I feel😛

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Sahi main Didi aisi specimen hai ki usse koi basic expectations bhi nahi rakh sakti audience. She can never be happy & will always wallow in her own self pity. Chaddo isse😆

Imlie is such a pyaara character man. Itni saaf dil hain yeh ladki & literally chidkaoes her jaan on people that she considers her own. How genuinely worried was she for Didi throughout the epi & so happy to have her back in T house. She even offered to sleep with Didi in her room on the floor so that Didi doesn't feel alone. Itna pyaar aaya mujhe Imlie pe & fierce protectiveness bhi to safeguard her from a dhokebaaz like Didi. This girl deserves all the love & happiness in the world & she should not sacrifice any little bit of her own happiness for such undeserving tucche log. Puts kaala teeka on her❤️.

She doss everything so genuinely but I get pissed off at her itna pyaar esp on losers like didi..I mean yeh log toh value karte nahi tih yeh kyon jaati hai outage...it is kinda annoying ke yeh kabhi nahi dekhegi how didi is and how lowly she thinks of imlie I mean at this point it is not even a secret phir bhinyeh baar baar jaake apna hi izzat first hai and gets hurt..I get it iska itna bada dil hai and yeh hai hi itni pyaari but I would wish and hope ke she stops doing that leave her alone and value herself...bohat ho gaya courtesy and pyaar but agar nahi aa raha toh na sahi she is better without any pyaar in return not her loss

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh....I'm like kahaan se aate hain yeh mahaan log? 🤔😆

Sab chochle hain.....just like Didi, har 2 days inke excuses badalte hain....lol abhi bol rahe hain divorce ka lihaaz karo, baad mein bolenge woh tumhaari ex hai, uska lihaaz karo, dost hai uska lihaaz karo.....haan bhai, puri duniya ka lihaaz kare aur apni actual wife ko bhool jaaye? 😕😆

Pathetic Didi type mentality hi hai ki khud ki koi self respect toh hai nahin ki apni life kuch izzat se jee lo....khud hi aakar Adi ki life/ghar/kamre mein ghusna hai aur phir LIHAAZ ka expectation karna hai ki woh apni wife ke baare mein baat bhi na kare tumhare saamne😕😆

These people behave like life mein tumhara koi ex ho jaaye toh tumhari zindagi should forever be on eggshells after that and apne current partner ko bhi prioritize nahin karna chahiye😆

Waise I have to laugh ki just hearing Adi do this much Imlie jaap is lagaaoing so much aag to some folks😆.....not like he's doing PDA or anything jiska itna halla kar rahe hain.....lol waise toh woh bhi karne ka haq hai uska but he is already showing kaafi lihaaz I feel😛

Not that am a fan but ab toh karna hi chahiye😆 this didi was burning just seeing them walk side by side in the hallway and smiling at each other casually when adi said imlie ke saath koi depress nahhi reh sakta bas utne main hi aag lag gayi didi ko..and adi simply saying he is gonna check on imlie for college.🤣 haan I guess lagni hi thi caz he never wanted to drop this didi to college ever isko toh apne maayke se cars mangaana padti thi toh lagna hi hai aag 🤣 but ok how adorable were adi imlie in itni normal routine things and man woh domestication in it even thought they technically are still not fully normal.. but I was like awww he gotta check on imlie

And then him getting mad seeing her clean again esp vis a vis didi ki return ke yeh khudse apne aap ko below rakh rahi hai and imlie ka itna sweet sa apne ghar ko saaf karne ke liye kisi ko bulayein kya. ... again to be noted that instantly triggered adi even though it was such a normal thing and koi bhi karta hai saaf the counter but it was esp triggering given what they are told day in and out and esp now caz didi had arrived direct nahi tha but it showed his thinking immediately too and I liked that focus on imlie too ke uhhh not now honey