Originally posted by: MistyDawn
I will give it to you...that's not a bad theory at all to make some sense of her behaviour. I remember how she had gone all soft on Vijay when she brought Mandhar home. She empathises with the man who lost his son and now with Mandhar back, she is mentally associating with a grieving helpless father who just wants his son back.. I just wish they have her talk about all this with Raghav (when they get time) That'l not only clarify her stand for the audiences but also for Raghav.. Not that he doesn't understand why she is doing what she is doing..but he still needs to know the reason for her going to this extent ..besides maybe then he will ignore VD instead of humiliating him which is only making matters worse for them.
I think one of the reason why she always complies with Deshmukhs is because of the fact that she found a family in them which she didn't have as a child
She found a father, mother, uncle, aunt, sister, brother
Almost a complete family which she craved for always
But never the respect and freedom and thus she never knew that
Rao family gave her love, respect and freedom
So she did what she did for Raghav
But now she fears losing the family she always had a dream of
So when VD came and begged, she didn't pay heed to other things and went off
Am not justifying her behaviour because she definitely needs to take Raghav and amma into consideration as now their life is also interwines with her but am just trying to understand why she is doing what she is doing