Sai's indifference towards Virat's feelings - Page 4

Originally posted by: sherry_24

This scene pops up in my head during Devyani’s wedding track, where she threatens to call the neighbours if Kaku and gang didn’t pick up the gifts. She is only short doing something like that now, because anyone who comes in her close vicinity and talks about them as a couple she has to state this statement. Maybe she she will up to a media house to flash this news or something 🤦‍♀️🤣. I faintly recall where she almost said something similar to Ajinkya also, when he is just a friend and not best friend. Something like a disclaimer for any Tom, Dick or Harry who crosses her path🤣🤣

Agree with you 100%.

Originally posted by: sherry_24

This is not about who is right or wrong, but more about the situation playing catalyst.
Virat has not been vocal about his feelings with Sai and we have time and again wanted to bash him up for it at every opportunity lost😜 . But his actions have spoken louder than words, and lately he has expressed it in so many words as well. The whole world around him can see that he is head over heals in love with Sai except her🤦🏻‍♀️. Sai, on the other hand has either programmed her mind, to ignore it or simply not register any such indications.

This has been a topic of discussion numerous times. And we have come up with various reasons for her indifference, starting from Sai's insecurity, Virat's jalebi talks, his vaada, the MU etc. But here I wanted to address one particular reason. Will start with a question.

With all the other facts in place as it is except that Pakhi was not in living in CN (she was either living with her parents or at Samrat's father's house), all the other issues wrt to Virat's past still exist between Sairat. Would the situation be the same?

Maybe yes, because Sai is insecure and she will guard her heart. But maybe NO

Because Pakhi acts as a constant reminder. Even if Sai gets carried away, Pakhi's taunts bring her back. But coming to Sai's indifference. She is not immune to his charms.. nope, he is here "celebrity handsome"🤣 how much ever she may tease him otherwise. And he means the world to her. But she turns a blind eye to his feelings. Because instead of understanding the underlying meaning of Virat's gestures or words, she is more convinced by Pakhi's actions and words. Pakhi had been very transparent with respect to her stand, and openly shows her jealousy. She expresses her emotions very strongly. And Virat has been very subtle with his actions. Maybe thats how they are as individuals. But then with so much baggage already, and with the existence of a past and promise that Sai was well aware of, Pakhi's actions only strengthen her take on Virat and Pakhi's relationship. Hence, Pakhi's actions and words weigh over Virat's actions for her, and she refuses to see the true intentions behind Virat's gestures and words. Pakhi's existence in CN and her behaviour supercedes and overshadows Virat's feelings for Sai and she ends up categorising everything under his responsibility (how much ever she hates it). Sai is only reading into Pakhi, and wrt Virat she has already established a verdict and she blindly goes by it. Like she has those blinkers on, which are used on racing horses for restricted view. Though she sees and appreciates everything, she fails to see through the true feelings behind it because she is clouded by Pakhi's overpowering existence in their lives.

Whatever said and done and how much ever you or anyone can justify Sais actions, feelings and indifference to Virat, I have only one thing to say, why is she staying with Virat still? If she is so convinced with what Pakhi says than with what virat does, she should have left him by now? Why is she still with Virat? What are her expectations from this relationship? Does she intend to go on like this forever? Bcoz Pakhi isn't going anywhere and will always continue to taunt her. Does she intend to leave Virat after her medical studies? I find her staying with Virat after so much that has transpired between them and after Virat even saying he wants a real marriage with her with all his heart, so absurd and ridiculous.😡

This is epic!! 🤣🤣

With her “Raag Deal” on loop, its pretty much possible that she pops this up even after they turn 70!! Consummation and having children will be their responsibility towards nature and mankind to save humans from getting extinct. And the sacrifice of didi to giving it up for such a noble cause😝

She has guarded herself too much from that feelings. She has a very conventional sense about love. She believes if didn't happen at first then it will never happen in the future. Sai has been living in his Aaba's bubble all her life so it's NOT easy for her to fathom that kind of love. Though I often get irritated with her zimmedari recorder in front of random people.

It's NOT easy to accept the partner having his past around them 24/7. And if that past keep on make you feel like third wheel no wife should be so cool with it. Virat is worse dealing with such insecurities. He couldn't even hear Sai talking to Aamey romantically even it was to trap him. So it's all part of love. It gives you the feeling of belongingness.

Sai often choses the most chaotic way handling things but her actions never have put anyone in trouble.on top of that there are no better ways teaching chavans than what Sai does to them.

But but as audience it's not always fun watching the story is moving in same circle... 😵

BTW a little tips for Viru boi to stop his Baiko nonstop zimmedari records 😆

Viru : Sai suno Uss bargat ki peir ka jo chudail hai na woh saare Ladkyon ko Le jati hai jo apni Paati ko pyaar nhi karte or Apni paati so door chali jati hai.😳😆

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Ye apt hai

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

sairat.fond on Twitter: "Humare yeha ayisa hi hota hai.. Meri marzi.. 😌 #GhumHaiKisikeyPyaarMeiin https://t.co/ve5GrdQVtR" / Twitter

Ye apt hai

Ab tu maar jaa saale cliff se kud ke. 🤣

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Well explained. Sometimes both of their actions makes us go and

Especially Sai's constant mention of Pakhi having such a place in Virat's life, has been receiving eyerolls coz after his confession in ghe hospital viewers expected some change. But to no avail. She is still stuck in the deal marriage and Virat and Pakhi having feelings for each other. But it's been so long, Virat has moved on, when Pakhi hasn't. Thus her presence and behaviour is always a reminder for Sai and she turns blind eye towards Virat's heart eyes. Need to wait and watch how long this goes on 🥺

Main reason for sai repeating that ignorance toward virat's actions/indicaitons / hints is: pp and virat's vaada.

Sai beleives virat can NOT break promise... as for another promise given to her aaba ... he married her.

Hence sai is not thinking /seeing that virat wants to break that vaada given to pp... virat never mentioned to sai about it.

Sai is convincing/holding her self from.... virat... trying NOT to attach emotionally to virat... as she knows she will get hurt... as far virat mentions.... sai knows that he cares for her... a little more than responsibility.... he never said that I am in love with you... or I have feeling for you... to sai.... did not confess ..... that's biggest stopper for sai.

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Hats off to the guy to still take it in his stride and smile at all her deal wala talk. He used get so irked, he still does, but now he has started to poke and tease her as well. Guess its the excitement about his plans to propose. Someone ask him to hold the horses 🐎 🛑 Major spoiler on the way.. none other than his dearest brother🤣🤣

Is bar bhi bechara propose nahi kar payega🤣

Shaapit hai virat🤣

Samrat- main pakhi ko divorce de raha hoon. Virat tum use apna lo

Virat- aur ye tu ek saal baad bol raha hai. Abe itne time se kya hibernation mein tha.

Sai- virat sir main bhi aapko apni jimmedari se aazadi deti hoon. Jaiye jee lijiye apni life pakhi didi ke sath

Virat- are magar mujhe azaad hona hi nahi hai

Samrat and sai- jao virat jao pakhi ke pass jao.

Virat- chup karoge tum dono. Nahi to organ trafficking ke jurm mein dono ko arrest kar lunga.

Samrat and sai- what? khushi ke mare pagal ho gaya lagta hai virat. Humne kaunsi organ trafficking ki hai?

Virat- kyu tum dono ne apna dimag nahi bech khaya hai?

Samrat and sai shocked, virat rocked.

🤣

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

sairat.fond on Twitter: "Humare yeha ayisa hi hota hai.. Meri marzi.. 😌 #GhumHaiKisikeyPyaarMeiin https://t.co/ve5GrdQVtR" / Twitter

Ye apt hai

This is perfect, Veeru needs to frame this 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: sherry_24

This scene pops up in my head during Devyani’s wedding track, where she threatens to call the neighbours if Kaku and gang didn’t pick up the gifts. She is only short doing something like that now, because anyone who comes in her close vicinity and talks about them as a couple she has to state this statement. Maybe she she will up to a media house to flash this news or something 🤦‍♀️🤣. I faintly recall where she almost said something similar to Ajinkya also, when he is just a friend and not best friend. Something like a disclaimer for any Tom, Dick or Harry who crosses her path🤣🤣

She should come with a warning note. If she was a product her advertisement would be like-

Presenting Sai Joshi, pakde sachhe doshi

Tall, fair, slim and beautiful, your very own sanskari kanya with a spark

Note- product involves heartbreak risk. She can be really dumb when you try to convey your feelings and will share your bedroom details with everyone she crosses path with.