Raghav's Redemption vs. Pallavi's Redemption - Page 5

Originally posted by: nooriex

Ah, Sony always produces good content 😆 I started watching ITV with one of their shows (Yeh Pyaar Nahin Toh Kya Hai, I believe). Anyways, thanks for recommending! Will definitely check it out :)

YPNTKH is great! I've watched the entire thing a few times, never gets old.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Seen them all, hence stating that he has done some terrible terrible things which no woman can forgive. It's a different thing that he reformed but that's only because she gave him a chance. In real life, women walk away and men like Raghav don't reform. All said and done, I truly like the character arc or Raghav hence my favorite!

Pallavi at this point has not done anything that needs a redemption arc.

Also, want to add that she didn't just give him a chance because of her generosity. She'd fallen for him a long time ago and that has a big part to play.

The fact that a 'good girl' fell for a 'bad guy' is nothing new but they sugar coated it on the show because ITV isn't mature enough for these things.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Seen them all, hence stating that he has done some terrible terrible things which no woman can forgive. It's a different thing that he reformed but that's only because she gave him a chance. In real life, women walk away and men like Raghav don't reform. All said and done, I truly like the character arc or Raghav hence my favorite!

It was all back and forth till what he did for getting married and at after that also he gave her the choice. The things he did for redemption was also no less. The position which he holds, still he did all upto the level of agreeing to wash VD's leg and drink. And he didn't forced her for anything in marriage too. So I m not sure what is being claimed here. And IRL worst ppl get much btr but I m not here for anecdotes so lets stick to show.

And he never spent time, talk to or went to them in ungodly hours when he in marriage. So thats that.

Originally posted by: nooriex

I understand her not listening to Raghav but her not listening to Aai was kind of dumb of her to do, considering Aai is Mandar's mother and she's herself saying that Mandar isn't Pallu's responsibility. But that doesn't mean Pallavi has to redeem herself...because what exactly has she done that's so bad? Mandar is the really culprit here.

As for respect, Pallavi has respected Raghav by telling him about what she does and information regarding Mandar when she remembers to. And, respecting a relationship is not about telling your partner every single detail about your day. It's about trusting one another, understanding one another which Raghav and Pallavi do. It's unfortunate, however, that due to Raghav's insecurities, he acted like he didn't trust his wife with another man.

And, is it bad for Pallavi to trust Mandar? Probably. But does trusting someone make her a bad person? No. Of course, all actions have reactions but whether those actions are intentional or unintentional matter. Pallu shouldn't have to redeem herself for something she unintentionally did especially when it wasn't targeted at Raghav. She shouldn't be trying to please Raghav when Mandar is the one doing wrong. Pallavi needs to take care of herself and look out for herself if she's not going to listen to advice from others. But making one mistake (of trusting Mandar) does not "stain" her personality.

For what u redeem actually? Do she needs to murder someone to redeem? Raghav redeemed for ruining her reputation and forcefully marrying her. She decided to be in marriage but is prioritizing her ex over everything and cheating 'unintentionally' on him. And yes being in marriage and spending whole days ,any and everytime visiting ex, doing all stupid things is cheating. And no doing nd telling doesn't mean u r right. It means u r a sadist who will do nd rub it. Its not humanity. Boundaries r to be drawn everywhere. What she is doing is cheating. U can sugarcoat it or play victim card for her but she is not victim here.