Reoccurrence of events

Its ironic that all the things that happened in past and the very reason Vijay Deshmukh was angry on Pallavi they are repeating now on Raghav. Pallavi has been a girl who does her own thing. Despite how much she said that the Deshmukhs are important to her, she never stopped meeting Raghav. Because she knew that was the right thing. The only difference here is she never told about Raghav’s 30 day challenge to Deshmukhs but she tells everything about Mandaar to Raghav. Now I am really curious to know how Raghav behaves differently. Because if he doesn’t then all the bashing that VD got in a way turns meaningless. Because the way VD wanted to control his bahu similarly it will seem Raghav wants to control her. She went missing from Mansi’s sangeet and now she went missing from Raghavs party. She is at fault too for not being able to decide her priorities but again i wish cvs make Raghav act differently. He has to fight his daemons and keep up his trust.

But there was a difference.Ragahv does not want to control pallavi.but he can sense that uski achai ki wajah se any one can easily manipulate her.And he knows Mandars intention also.he trust pallavi very much.but he don't trust pallavi.Ragav wants to protect pallavi.but timing and actions are against Raghav to kya karen🙆🙆🤦🤦

Originally posted by: _symphony

Its ironic that all the things that happened in past and the very reason Vijay Deshmukh was angry on Pallavi they are repeating now on Raghav. Pallavi has been a girl who does her own thing. Despite how much she said that the Deshmukhs are important to her, she never stopped meeting Raghav. Because she knew that was the right thing. The only difference here is she never told about Raghav’s 30 day challenge to Deshmukhs but she tells everything about Mandaar to Raghav. Now I am really curious to know how Raghav behaves differently. Because if he doesn’t then all the bashing that VD got in a way turns meaningless. Because the way VD wanted to control his bahu similarly it will seem Raghav wants to control her. She went missing from Mansi’s sangeet and now she went missing from Raghavs party. She is at fault too for not being able to decide her priorities but again i wish cvs make Raghav act differently. He has to fight his daemons and keep up his trust.

I know we are talking about parallels here, but I think we all should consider that pre wedding pallavi has to go out due to her helplessness… the shop was in loss and she was trying to make both ends meet and that is why sometimes she had to make sacrifices and questionable choices. that was race against time because Raghav has pushed her against the wall and threatened her to leave hyderabad…

here there is no compulsion, she is going out willingly… she always has a choice here … she has a choice to say no or yes she can’t come at the moment but she will visit later.. but she runs at the exact same moment with the same urgency as she used to have when it was a financial matter..despite losing on precious moments… I think my problem is not that she kept on visiting trashmukhs or that bandar but apart from health emergency if a guy just want to check his old wedding photo album with you (no matter how weird it sounds) and your own wedding photoshoot is going on… do you really have to go at the same moment? you can choose to visit later and be with your spouse to enjoy the moment …also when your own ex-MIL is telling you not to visit that often as it is unnecessary… you are giving lecture to her.. of your preconceived notions that Raghav trust you so he will not have any problems … trust, jealousy and insecurity are different things..

the person you are helping out is not your friend but your ex husband for god sake and in order to help him you kept on leaving your present husband hanging…

why can’t she put herself in Raghav’s shoes and try to understand his POV… not defending Raghav here but her assumptions are baseless…

totally my opinion… criticism is welcomed…