Originally posted by: Inese_20
Abi, such kind words 🤗
thank you so much ❤️
in my case, this person tried to guilt trip me that he’s undergoing clinical depression because of me, also indirectly indicated suicide. But I am glad, even at that age(it was the very first year of the college) I was very firm about it, I shut him off completely within a day or two only. I told him in his face that nobody else is responsible for his mistakes. Be a man and own upto it. Then again a friend of mine (a girl only) tried to blame me for ‘what I did to him’. I told her off as well. I didn’t realise the concept of victim blaming till then, but according to me at that point the joke was on her- I was literally like you would be stupid if you don’t cut off someone like him! Well guess what, the joke is still on her 💁🏻♀️
So all in all, nothing turned too serious and today I am quite proud of myself that I could handle it ache so