Originally posted by: Wanderbug
Totally agree. I just gee so irritated that Pallavi still feels obligated to Deshmukhs. When have they been nice to her except kaka and aai. What they did for her when mandar was missing n raghav was not in picture was just give n take. She was the earning member n they were simply not killing the egg laying murgi so to speak. The day things went south these deshmukhs turned 180 quicker than owl’s head. Why should Pallavi feel any responsibility for them is beyond me.
Coming to saying no part. Yes. Absolutely. The most firm no should come from pallavi. Even if pallavi doesn't know the truth about Mandar. He has been just fine these past years without her n would be fine there after. What would she do? Play governess for him and deshmukhs the whole life? Why just because they kept their widowed dil at home which they should have done anyways? Be nice to ur Dils even when she is a widow! Isn’t that the only decent and human thing to do? So how are Deshmukhs so special? Exception being aai. She is a gem.
To some extent I do get her obligations.....but after a time....she has got to stop. Her care for aayi , kaku and even Sanki is fine. Its bcz they cared for her nd she probably feels indebted on top of actually caring foe them . But there should a limit to all this. Do everything in a limit. I dnt understand why she lets these people walk all over.
@ Bold : 👏. Couldnt hv said it better. The most stern No should be hers. She is being forced to be a babysitter for Mandar and she is readily doin it.
