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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MissWiseUnicorn

I’m sorry if you thought that I was tagging your post as a bashing post!

I do agree with you that she should voice out her discomfort and simply say no. She has started to take steps towards it and hopefully it won’t take her too long to do so either.
I wrote what I did only because after your original post I saw a very long string of posts blatantly bashing Pallavi for her behaviour.

But you are absolutely right about being able to say no in uncomfortable situations.


I am extremely sorry too. I hope I wasnt too rude . Just dt so many here thought and replied dt I was bashing Pallavi and dt too on the basis of the precap .......dt when I read your post....I thought you were saying to me too.


Again sorry if I hurt you in any way.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Only to say this

The point you raised 2 days ago today many pallavi supporter raising same issue on twitter and forum both

Pallavi should say NO when she is not comfortable

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Only to say this

The point you raised 2 days ago today many pallavi supporter raising same issue on twitter and forum both

Pallavi should say NO when she is not comfortable

Chalo der aaye par durust aaye😆

2 din se yehi samjha rhi hoon

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Chalo der aaye par durust aaye😆

2 din se yehi samjha rhi hoon


Many are frustrated to with this Mandar track and Pallavi behaviour

Same fans who wanted Mandar so raghav will value pallavi 😆

In the name of drama they are making mockery of huminity so this is the way they will show Mandar pallavi scene 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Let the episode air. That’s what asked for in my original post. Why panic already? I don’t think Pallavi has done anything wrong till now.


if anything, she’s being emotionally manipulated right now from many fronts. And emotional manipulation is very real. Some fall victim to it and learn. Some already know. Pallavi is just too kind to see through it. Need I remind that had it not been fore this kindness of Pallavi, she would never have that soft corner for Raghav after all what he continued doing with her and there would be no Raghvi at all.


Not judging Raghav, just saying he needs to go with the promise they made to each other. Keeping other person informed. How can we say for sure that Pallavi won’t believe him? The amount of love she has for him, she walks away with him holding her hand no matter what he says to anyone. She would definitely believe. What has Pallavi done to earn this disbelief you have in her character? She is infact the one who believed in him when his own family didn’t. Pallavi is the one who believed in him even when he himself said he’s a murderer! She really loves him a lot and yet she gets judged like that?


Did she counter him when he said that something’s weird with Mandaar? That it’s his sixth sense speaking? No. She registered it. Wait and watch our girl going all out for Raghav very soon 😎



Pallavi is not only being judged, but being judged even before the episode airs, before she has done anything at all!


And Mandaar is just an innocent confused victim to her right now. She doesn’t know yet. Period.

Lol, don’t get me wrong. I love Pallavi’s character. And she was already shown feeling uncomfortable at that chai place with Mandaar. I had written Raghav probably feels Pallavi will not believe him or think he is exaggerating, not that she will not believe him.

Should Raghav tell Pallavi about his misgivings? Absolutely. Should he have confessed about the cellphone switch and why he did it? Surely yes. But this is a soap and even in real life, people have insecurities which don’t let them come clean. Is that an excuse for not being honest? No. Is that dishonesty a lie, I don’t think so but it will surely lead to problems which will keep the drama going.

As for Pallavi, she needn’t follow her mother in law’s every gesture. Me personally however did not like Pallavi going with Mandaar in the auto and stopping at the chai place. The guy is cunning, he puts the onus on her and says if you don’t want to stop we don’t have to, putting Pallavi in an awkward spot. Always go with your gut feeling and her gut is already telling her all is not as it seems with this creep.

As for Pallavi trusting Raghav, the girl had a soft spot for him from the get go. She would go to his house several times unannounced with not a fear of being mishandled. He did not give out creep vibes to her. That is what I meant when women can usually tell, she has to sense the evil vibes emanating from Mandaar. Yes, Raghav was horrible in manipulating her to marry him but she had a choice to walk away. She didn’t confide in Aayi or Kaaku and went along with the marriage. She was also bold to show his true colors at the reception party. Pallavi instinctively knows Raghav for all his bark has no bite when it comes to her. And a man like that is incapable of murder, she rightly surmises.
But in her effort to bring closure to Aai and Sanki Budda, she should not put Raghav second. She needs to figure out ASAP that Mandaar is not okay and put him in his place. Let’s see if she confides her misgivings about the binna address ki envelope to Raghav.

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Posted: 4 years ago

There are so many instances where Pallavi could have shut down Mandhar. She knows his intentions, he already mentioned it when she had gone there to feed him. He openly told Raghav that he will bring her back after the DNA test proves who he is. So she should know what his intention is. Also the doctor says she will stay there, why doesn't Pallavi answer and say I will stay with my husband at his house and can come and visit if need be. Also the whole feeding part, doesnt Pallavi see that drama and then when Raghav shows up, magically Mandhar is perfectly fine and even says Pallavi you dont need to come here till DNA test is done. Why does she not answer back then too? She did say to Mandhar when he brought the DNA results that Raghav is her husband now and then later at the pooja that she is with her husband but doesnt mention his name. I feel like she should be open and say that she Raghav is her husband and she loves him. NO one knows that yet. Poor Raghav is so insecure and believes Keerti when she dramatizes that Pallavi is enjoying with her ex-husband. He could have asked his mom to verify.

Also how did Mandhar get Pallavi's phone?

This whole thing will be like with Sunny when Pallavi knew his truth but Raghav didnt and she kept it from him and now Raghav is going thru the same thing.

Also I find Keerti and Sunny scenes a little out of place at the moment especially with all else going on.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...


Many are frustrated to with this Mandar track and Pallavi behaviour

Same fans who wanted Mandar so raghav will value pallavi 😆

In the name of drama they are making mockery of huminity so this is the way they will show Mandar pallavi scene 😆

Sometimes I wonder why does Pallavi think making sheera , feeding him wid her hands , sitting besides him.......will help him in regaining his memory ??

Humanity ke naam pe Mandar ke obsessive msges raat ko answr kr rhi thi. Ek baar, do baar thik hai but the phn was buzzing wid msges. Thoda toh apna privacy bhi maintain karo. Next day answer kr deti.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: farheenbachani

There are so many instances where Pallavi could have shut down Mandhar. She knows his intentions, he already mentioned it when she had gone there to feed him. He openly told Raghav that he will bring her back after the DNA test proves who he is. So she should know what his intention is. Also the doctor says she will stay there, why doesn't Pallavi answer and say I will stay with my husband at his house and can come and visit if need be. Also the whole feeding part, doesnt Pallavi see that drama and then when Raghav shows up, magically Mandhar is perfectly fine and even says Pallavi you dont need to come here till DNA test is done. Why does she not answer back then too? She did say to Mandhar when he brought the DNA results that Raghav is her husband now and then later at the pooja that she is with her husband but doesnt mention his name. I feel like she should be open and say that she Raghav is her husband and she loves him. NO one knows that yet. Poor Raghav is so insecure and believes Keerti when she dramatizes that Pallavi is enjoying with her ex-husband. He could have asked his mom to verify.

Also how did Mandhar get Pallavi's phone?

This whole thing will be like with Sunny when Pallavi knew his truth but Raghav didnt and she kept it from him and now Raghav is going thru the same thing.

Also I find Keerti and Sunny scenes a little out of place at the moment especially with all else going on.


Yeah I dont know either why she is unseeing the truth dts infront of her eyes. Fine she doesnt know he is a creep who is obsessing over her but she can mark how that person's behaviour , voice and actions change depending on whether Raghav is presnt or not.


Also I dont think Raghav believed Keerthi. He just understood Mandar was der in his house and he certainly doesnt trust Mandar's intentions for Pallavi. Dts why he panicked. He doesnt want tht creep near Pallavi.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Sometimes I wonder why does Pallavi think making sheera , feeding him wid her hands , sitting besides him.......will help him in regaining his memory ??

Humanity ke naam pe Mandar ke obsessive msges raat ko answr kr rhi thi. Ek baar, do baar thik hai but the phn was buzzing wid msges. Thoda toh apna privacy bhi maintain karo. Next day answer kr deti.


I said many time sandip overboard with third angle

During yhm too ishita long lasting best friend came and they were also chatting and ishita praising mani in front of raman and his situation was the same as raghav

That's why I was never in favour of 3,rd angle

Fans will do bashing critism apna dil jalayeg

At the end me aise batayege male lead ki hi galti hai female lead innocent hain

Pallavi is dumb and stupid in this track and because of this Mandar pallavi I am taking break from this show 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Totally agree. I just gee so irritated that Pallavi still feels obligated to Deshmukhs. When have they been nice to her except kaka and aai. What they did for her when mandar was missing n raghav was not in picture was just give n take. She was the earning member n they were simply not killing the egg laying murgi so to speak. The day things went south these deshmukhs turned 180 quicker than owl’s head. Why should Pallavi feel any responsibility for them is beyond me.

Coming to saying no part. Yes. Absolutely. The most firm no should come from pallavi. Even if pallavi doesn't know the truth about Mandar. He has been just fine these past years without her n would be fine there after. What would she do? Play governess for him and deshmukhs the whole life? Why just because they kept their widowed dil at home which they should have done anyways? Be nice to ur Dils even when she is a widow! Isn’t that the only decent and human thing to do? So how are Deshmukhs so special? Exception being aai. She is a gem.

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