Importance of saying 'No'

Before proceeding let me make it clear dt , this is based on today's precap and from the last few episodes too.

If the precap is anything to go by ,Mandar made Pallavi wear bangles. And bcz od dt he is now confident dt he will make her wear the magalsutra too in some days.

For the first time , I am not angry on Mandaar. Nope . Instead I am infuriated by Pallavi . Yes yes we all know her nature is to be all giving and forgiving and tolerating , .....but she has to learn to say NO. Every girl needs to learn this. I cant stress enough how important it for one to know when and more importantly How to say No.

There are so many creeps roaming out there in the real world and every girl has to face many such situations in her life , where if you dont make your stand clear people will take undue advantage of you. Pallavi here is setting such a bad example.

He is your ex husband and if his words are anything to go by , he wants you bck in his life. He said dt yesterday. And you are letting him do as he wishes. This way I wont be surprised if he actually ends up marrying her.

Forget Mandar , hell she cant even say No to Sulo or that Doc she met two days back. She was going to feed Mandar wid her hands. Not dt it is a big deal to feed someone but you are making yourself vulnerable and giving dt someone hopes .

Honestly now I dont want Raghav to do anything at all. Let Pallavi stand up for herself. Let her tell dt person NO. Let her tell Mandar , she doesnt want to be wid him. Let her tell the world she is in love wid Raghav in clear and loud words.

Pallavi 's fierceness seems only towards Raghav. I am trying very hard to be not disappointed by her. I hope she doesnt.

Edited to add : This isnt a bashing post for Pallavi. If you feel dts what I wrote.....sorry but dts not what I meant. Its a general opinion of mine for all girls. If you are uncomfortable wid something.....Speak up. Dts all I meant.

Yup it should Pallavi

Only she came take stand for herself and say no to all the things she feels not so good

No matter how much ever Raghav tries to support her she should know to stand by herself to say no..

Being stuck with humanity she is not saying so

Till Pallavi get a hint about Mandar creepiness

She will remain like this only ...

But will stand for herself whenever needed

BTW I don't think Mandar made Pallavi wore bangles

May be he tried but Pallavi would have not let it happen as he today also he went and sat with Raghav for pooja.

So I will wait for episode to comment abt it

Mandar is playing with insecurities of Raghav.

He must be saying lie just to make Raghav emotional week

Pallavi should be Raghav strength. And not weakness

That is possible only when Pallavi takes her stand then and when it's needed

I won't judge on basis of Mandy's words. He is delusional and just makes his own version of things. Just wait for scene to air.

Also today Sulo, baba and Mandar tried to make her sit in pooja with Mandy as wife but she clearly told them by sitting with Raghav that he is my husband now and i am sitting with him. So she is learning to draw the lines already.

Originally posted by: JayashreeR

Yup it should Pallavi

Only she came take stand for herself and say no to all the things she feels not so good

No matter how much ever Raghav tries to support her she should know to stand by herself to say no..

Being stuck with humanity she is not saying so

Till Pallavi get a hint about Mandar creepiness

She will remain like this only ...

But will stand for herself whenever needed

BTW I don't think Mandar made Pallavi wore bangles

May be he tried but Pallavi would have not let it happen as he today also he went and sat with Raghav for pooja.

So I will wait for episode to comment abt it

Mandar is playing with insecurities of Raghav.

He must be saying lie just to make Raghav emotional week

Pallavi should be Raghav strength. And not weakness

That is possible only when Pallavi takes her stand then and when it's needed

Raghav needs to let her know about Mandy's 7 day challenge. Raghav should not hide anything from her.

Mandy got to know about Raghav's weaknesses his anger and impulsive nature so he is gonna cash on it 😡

even I feel like Pallavi won't let Mandar put bangles on her

I agree that Pallavi will need to speak up, she will eventually she is already

but she won't immediately say no and be stern with him yet

she isn't as straightforward as raghav, she thinks with her emotions

she will come around, let's wait and see!

I agree with you completely

A girl should know how to say NO

Boys also needs to learn that NO means NO

that ghatiya idea that Bollywood has shown

Ladki ki na mein hi uski Haan hai

VERY wrong

What was the censor board doing then

This is what I've been saying all this week - she needs to learn to fight for her own rights, desires, self worth. She was able to do it with Raghav, idk why she goes mum in front of Mandar. All she's been able to say is Raghav is my husband. She hasn't even said I love Raghav, he is my husband to D fam/ Mandar.

Regardless of that though, I don't think she'll actually wear the bangles. That bedroom convo with Raghav really opened her eyes. She's going to do her best to make sure he doesn't feel insecure like that ever again. That much she's made clear not by just her words, but her actions these past 2ish episodes.

I think Mandar bluffed, he may have bought the bangles, but she may not have worn them, just accepted them in order to appease his mental fragility. OR, he forcefully put them on under the pretense of maybe buying bangles for his mom, etc., something dumb like that.

My main question is how/why Pallavi went anywhere with Mandar alone. She knows her husband is uncomfortable with Mandar, why does she put herself in these situations, idk. We'll have to wait and see how this goes down. Maybe she wasn't alone on the shopping trip itself, but just at the bangle store or something.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Before proceeding let me make it clear dt , this is based on today's precap and from the last few episodes too.

If the precap is anything to go by ,Mandar made Pallavi wear bangles. And bcz od dt he is now confident dt he will make her wear the magalsutra too in some days.

For the first time , I am not angry on Mandaar. Nope . Instead I am infuriated by Pallavi . Yes yes we all know her nature is to be all giving and forgiving and tolerating , .....but she has to learn to say NO. Every girl needs to learn this. I cant stress enough how important it for one to know when and more importantly How to say No.

There are so many creeps roaming out there in the real world and every girl has to face many such situations in her life , where if you dont make your stand clear people will take undue advantage of you. Pallavi here is setting such a bad example.

He is your ex husband and if his words are anything to go by , he wants you bck in his life. He said dt yesterday. And you are letting him do as he wishes. This way I wont be surprised if he actually ends up marrying her.

Forget Mandar , hell she cant even say No to Sulo or that Doc she met two days back. She was going to feed Mandar wid her hands. Not dt it is a big deal to feed someone but you are making yourself vulnerable and giving dt someone hopes .

Honestly now I dont want Raghav to do anything at all. Let Pallavi stand up for herself. Let her tell dt person NO. Let her tell Mandar , she doesnt want to be wid him. Let her tell the world she is in love wid Raghav in clear and loud words.

Pallavi 's fierceness seems only towards Raghav. I am trying very hard to be not disappointed by her. I hope she doesnt.

We have yet not seen tomorrows episode so too soon to bash Pallavi about bangles. We dont even know what they will show .

Second, how is it okay if Raghav can get insecure or manipulated by Mandar, but its not okay for Pallavi to get manipulated?

Lastly, Pallavi thinks of Mandar not as a ex husband but as a memory loss patient , who is trying to regain his balance and as Aai Baba's son. So she is genuinely being considerate of his situation on humanitarian grounds. She is under 3 pronged attack from Kaku, Mandar and Doc Amma..and she yet doesnt know Mandar is challenging Raghav. Remember she came and asked today to Raghav if all is fine. Raghav chooses to not tell her.

Again I repeat, at this point she is a pawn between Raghav and Mandar. Raghav did an investigation on Raja/ Mandar...he didnt disclose the findings to Pallavi. He didnt let her know of Mandar challenging him.

Both Raghvi have to understand the power that Mandar holds here and work together.

Why is she helping him heal is like asking ...if you saw a accident victim on the road, a man, will we not stop to help him irrespective of how much we love or respect our husband? Why because its humanitarian.

She is slowly starting to speak up, but it won't be an overnight development from her side, there will be angst for raghav coming up for sure

but yes the importance of saying NO is not clear for many people

you have the right to say NO and others need to understand that NO means NO

as for the challenge I don't think Raghav took it seriously in today's episode

he came home and started working on his jewelry, wasn't even thinking about Mandar

his turmoil and fear will start tomorrow, or whenever the precap scenes come

I hope atleast then he tells pallavi about the challenge but its ITV and he might not under the pretext of "he doesn't want to worry her"

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Raghav needs to let her know about Mandy's 7 day challenge. Raghav should not hide anything from her.

Mandy got to know about Raghav's weaknesses his anger and impulsive nature so he is gonna cash on it 😡

Hope Raghav stands by the Amma advice of facing the problem together ..

RaghVi is each other strength when they are in one team.. So Team RaghVi is needed to get rid of Bandar...

If Raghav does not say abt Challenge i want Pallavi to get clue abt this than only it will be interesting to watch ...

Than only it's tadka in dhal...

If not 'Its dhal in tadka 😳