Importance of saying 'No' - Page 4

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I hope so too

What I am afraid about is her ‘sometime’ is giving wrong signal to Mandar and increasing the fear and insecurity of Raghav and Pallavi isn’t understanding or addressing them

What wrong signal?

And if Raghav won't share with her what is bothering him how she is supposed to know

Raghav needs to let her know about Mandy's intentions so she will work on it.

Raghav voiced out his inner thoughts last time and she worked on it.

I am sorry but Pallavi is not in fault here alone. They both need to communicate

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

What wrong signal?

And if Raghav won't share with her what is bothering him how she is supposed to know

Raghav needs to let her know about Mandy's intentions so she will work on it.

Raghav voiced out his inner thoughts last time and she worked on it.

I am sorry but Pallavi is not in fault here alone. They both need to communicate

No no

Am not saying Pallavi is wrong, that’s not what I intended to say.

All I am saying is even though she is doing it on humanitarian grounds, Mandar is making it all about himself and giving the twisted facts to Raghav.

It’s ‘wrong signal’ in that way

Hope I could make some sense

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Exactly 👍👍👍Like Amma said it's testing time for them. This challenge going to make toll on raghav, he might not tell her but she will eventually know. Both should handle together like u said give and take.

Trust and communication go hand and hand on Marriage hope both do that.

they Learned that lesson and now they try to keep communication between them as key and also confront it then and now....

So misunderstanding will not be on board.... I feel so

Rather it will be fear of lossing each other will be the key aspect in this track

And really hope they continue this communication by open talks between them then and now whenever needed...

And Yup Raghav will not let her know abt challenge but Pallavi will eventually get it by reading his actions and behavior of being insecure ..

I feel that precap scene in kitchen Pallavi will get the clue abt challenge.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

No no

Am not saying Pallavi is wrong, that’s not what I intended to say.

All I am saying is even though she is doing it on humanitarian grounds, Mandar is making it all about himself and giving the twisted facts to Raghav.

It’s ‘wrong signal’ in that way

Hope I could make some sense

That is Mandar's fault not Pallavi's. Her stance is clear. Raghav is her husband and she is his wife. She is telling this in clearly but Mandy is in delusion so how can we blame Pallavi for that

Her conscience is clear.

If we need to blame someone its Mandar. He is the one who is not accepting her NO

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Pallavi would say all these things to Mandaar when she realises what he’s doing! Right now he’s playing the most innocent and confused person in front of her!

Infact raghav has all the red flags before him while Pallavi is still oblivious. Today he commented on his wife in such a creepy manner while eating that sheera, okay Raghav played it calmly. Still, doesn’t he think he needs to let his wife know, warn her a little because it’s about her and deal with it keeping her in loop as they promised each other?

But still not judging Raghav. He’s doing what he thinks is the best, just like Pallavi is doing what she thinks is the best. Please show them both the same leniency. We have enough of misogyny in real world to also deal with it at an entertainment forum!

But no, always a woman’s fault. Disheartened to see this coming from women.

It has nothing to do with it being a woman’s fault in my mind. It is the duty of a spouse, man or woman.

Does not matter if Mandar is playing an innocent and confused person, there are certain lines not to be crossed even if overcome with compassion for an ex-husband. I am giving Pallavi the benefit of the doubt here that she did not allow Mandar to put the bangles on her hands. If she did allow it, no amount of a giving heart or kind nature will make it right. If she considers Raghav as her husband, which she does, then she cannot let Mandar behave that way with her. Even the kitchen scene, allowing him to help her, was not wise on her part. She knows Mandar wants her, he came to Raghav’s house to take her with the DNA report in hand, he indirectly asked her to sit with him at the pooja. Most times a woman can tell when a man does not have the right intentions towards her. And Pallavi already knows Mandar’s intent. She did what she needed to do, helped Mandar find his family and reunited him with them. Her job is done. She is not Mandar’s wife, she is an outsider to Mandar and needs to behave that way, be kind but not over familiar. You have your own husband now.

I liked Aai telling her to go home. And telling off that Sanku man that their home is no longer Pallavi’s. A good twist would have been if Pallavi gave Raghav’s number to Mandhar instead of her own.

Why hold Raghav responsible? Pallavi will not believe Raghav or will think he is exaggerating due to his doubts. Raghav does not have proof to show her yet. She needs to sense her husband’s discomfort and know her position as Raghav’s wife and not go alone with Mandar under any circumstance. If there is an emergency, she needs to inform amma or Raghav himself before leaving.

Again not having seen tomorrow’s episode, it is early to conjecture if Pallavi left without letting Raghav know or if she in fact let Mandar put those bangles on her. I hope Aai realizes that things are not as it seems about her supposed son and warns Pallavi. Amma is useless as she is the one who asked Pallavi to go make the sheera. Sulo could have made it or bought it, God did not ask for Pallavi’s sheera. Just my two cents.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Even i don't understand this unnecessary Pallavi bashing on presumptions

Let the episode air first before making any judgment.

Mandy is hitting on Raghav's weak points so i don't trust his words at all. Biggest example is today's episode where he is saying Pallavi made sheera for him but actually she did it for pooja on Amma's insistence 😆

Mandy is delusional so he is making his own version of things

This is what I want to say

Almost all of us read literture till 12th standard be it English hindi or any regional language. There used to be a question .Analysis the plot in your view and what to do you think about it. There was never any question of write the negative things about the story or why this character is better than other. Just like this literature we have to watch the show. Analyse as much as you want but unnecessary bashing is totally wrong.

I am seeing this unhealthy criticism on twitter for some days. At least this forum is very much mature to handle everyone opinions in decent manner

Even if god forbid pallavi falls she wouldn't be like this forever. She would too face the consequences along with raghav. Why does people forget this. And the most important thing that writers have the supreme power to change the story or character in one line. This is the power of pen. Why are we being inpatient. This is their story. They are investing their money and resources. We are not They have all the right to do what they want

Based on Sandeep sir live , if fans think he will bend to their demands then their are living in delusion. This dude will show what we want. He indirectly told that if you are liking what we are showing then good for you continue watching it and enjoy but if not you can leave 🤣

Let the episode air. That’s what asked for in my original post. Why panic already? I don’t think Pallavi has done anything wrong till now.

if anything, she’s being emotionally manipulated right now from many fronts. And emotional manipulation is very real. Some fall victim to it and learn. Some already know. Pallavi is just too kind to see through it. Need I remind that had it not been fore this kindness of Pallavi, she would never have that soft corner for Raghav after all what he continued doing with her and there would be no Raghvi at all.

Not judging Raghav, just saying he needs to go with the promise they made to each other. Keeping other person informed. How can we say for sure that Pallavi won’t believe him? The amount of love she has for him, she walks away with him holding her hand no matter what he says to anyone. She would definitely believe. What has Pallavi done to earn this disbelief you have in her character? She is infact the one who believed in him when his own family didn’t. Pallavi is the one who believed in him even when he himself said he’s a murderer! She really loves him a lot and yet she gets judged like that?

Did she counter him when he said that something’s weird with Mandaar? That it’s his sixth sense speaking? No. She registered it. Wait and watch our girl going all out for Raghav very soon 😎

Pallavi is not only being judged, but being judged even before the episode airs, before she has done anything at all!

And Mandaar is just an innocent confused victim to her right now. She doesn’t know yet. Period.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Let the episode air. That’s what asked for in my original post. Why panic already? I don’t think Pallavi has done anything wrong till now.

if anything, she’s being emotionally manipulated right now from many fronts. And emotional manipulation is very real. Some fall victim to it and learn. Some already know. Pallavi is just too kind to see through it. Need I remind that had it not been fore this kindness of Pallavi, she would never have that soft corner for Raghav after all what he continued doing with her and there would be no Raghvi at all.

Not judging Raghav, just saying he needs to go with the promise they made to each other. Keeping other person informed. How can we say for sure that Pallavi won’t believe him? The amount of love she has for him, she walks away with him holding her hand no matter what he says to anyone. She would definitely believe. What has Pallavi done to earn this disbelief you have in her character?

Did she counter him when he said that something’s weird with Mandaar? That it’s his sixth sense speaking? No. She registered it. Wait and watch our girl going all out for Raghav very soon 😎

Pallavi is not only being judged, but being judged even before the episode airs, before she has done anything at all!

And Mandaar is just an innocent confused victim to her right now. She doesn’t know yet. Period.

emotional manipulation is very strong tool. It can break the strongest of minds. This is what is happening with pallavi. People need to realise it before passing judgement on her.

It legitly happens in real life. Example being how an innocent person takes extreme steps of killing her own child for selfish reason(I have seen a crime patrol episode on this)

Originally posted by: AnOptimist

I am replying to another comment that was borderline victim blaming which was triggering. Not to the TM. For TM I just said let’s watch the episode.

if victim blaming doesn’t trigger someone, idk what else will!

Originally posted by: Inese_20

I am replying to another comment that was borderline victim blaming which was triggering. Not to the TM. For TM I just said let’s watch the episode.

if victim blaming doesn’t trigger someone, idk what else will!

Gotcha! My comment was not directed at you particularly but a general observation. It's futile to even share your opinion here because people only hear and understand from their level of perception.