Episode Spoiler - 30 July 2021 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Emotional manipulation is a real thing. That's what Pallavi is going through right now.

Same thing Raghav was experiencing in saving kirti from jail situation.

They are just creating curiosity in viewers about what will happen next.

Mandy will gain few victories before his downfall

Pallavi has been going through this since 1st episode. First d fam exploited her emotionally now bandar god know how much more.

N d only person who didn't emotionally exploit her was anna. He was right on her face i want this if u r ok we will do this if not fine. Let's leave it. 🤷

How can she do this yaar she s completely blind to his behaviour. I see some traits of kirti in present pallavi.

Good nature should make people strong and should not weaken them. She s practically helpless like a glass doll moving at hands of bandar. 😒😒😒

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

the only reason I see this happening is karma

he forcefully married pallavi, blackmailed her by making her feel helpless

now he's in the same situation, this relationship needs both people for it to work, Pallavi will have to open her eyes but until then Raghav will be helpless as well

Ya, karma is a good explanation for all this. Raghav's helplessness because of forcibly marrying Pallavi. Serves him right I guess.

Originally posted by: fria319

I'm watching the episode right now as I type this. I haven't even finished and I'm upset at everyone except Aayi and Raghav. I'm about to rant right now. Just excuse it but I gotta get it out LOL.

I'm sorry. I can't understand Pallavi right now. Why are you going somewhere that far without 1) letting anyone know or 2) not even checking your phone?! She continues to go against her gut instincts and it's going to land her in more tougher positions.

Mandar def faking or did lose his memory, regained it, and is now playing tricks to set this all up. He just happened to remember the bangles after being obsessed with her for 2 years? Wouldn't the Dr have told him she found bangles on him and he would've remembered that? How is someone so obsessed with the name Pallavi forget that Dr found bangles with him?

Also, if the bangles were with him, how is Pallavi wearing it going to jog a memory??? HE CLEARLY NEVER SAW HER WEAR THEM.

I'm not bashing, not hating, but am genuinely confused by the actions of this character at this moment in time & questioning everything she's doing. So don't come for me.

It's becoming harder and harder to understand her need to be Mandar's one and only savior.

Everything she's doing is clearly under the umbrella of helping her parents, but this is overkill. Other people can help him get his memory back. Other people can go with him to the dr. He's been alone for 2+ years and surviving just fine.

Ya'll I said earlier Pallavi has a lot of qadr for relationships, but it's been lately it's been falling short with Raghav. And that's just the hard truth.

She's not doing it intentionally but when you're married, you have to sometimes read what your spouse isn't saying and gage their reactions to whats happening and adjust accordingly. And even in this entire situation, it's clear to her that Raghav is uncomfortable with Mandar.

How do you wear your ex's jewelry gift in front of your current husband. How do you spend the whole day with your ex and not disclose that to your husband? Especially when you know your husband doesn't like the guy? I'm sorry, but where's Aayi, because she needs to teach Pallavi on what not to do as a wife. Next thing you know he's going to ask her to wear a mangalsutra. In any other scenario, any less of a patient guy, in any other ITV show, she'd be accused/suspected of infidelity at this point 🤣.

I get it, I know she's always going to pick Raghav. There's no scenario in which she wouldn't. But just because she says these things and tries to reassure him doesn't mean she shouldn't pick up on the small things he's swallowing to keep her happy. He's keeping quiet because he knows this is important to her, yet she's going and basically rubbing salt on his wounds by doing all this extra stuff. Also, it's not like he hasn't made his reservations about Mandar clear.

She's not seeing or being able to read Raghav's real emotions at all right now. She asked why he was upset - her first thought should've been those bangles after he asked earlier, "why are you wearing them".

I feel like Raghav knows Pallavi pretty well, but she doesn't know him as well. The fact she didn't even realize her wearing some other man's bangles would trigger him. It would trigger anyone. No spouse wants to see that. Its weird that a man is giving a married woman the gift of bangles of all things. How does that not register in her head as being odd? I just..

The first thing she should've done when she got to the kitchen was remove those bangles. It's fine, she accepted a gift. But, she doesn't have to wear them, that too in front of her husband.

RagVi Moment: sigh. super cute. the head tap Pallavi did. cute. They're a whole bunch of cuteness ok. I love them together, but man, anything she does seems superficial now in comparison to the hurt she's unintentionally causing him. She's oblivious and I'm worried that's going to cost the both of them.

Precap: Did I call it or did I call it. Of course they're going to use Mandar's health to bring Pallavi in.

Sometimes I think I treat Pallavi like a little sister advising her on how to navigate her relationship because this ain't it. LOL . I tried really hard to understand her - read everyones postivity posts, etc., and even eventually came around to really understanding her and in general I still do, but ya'll, I can't today. 🤣

I agree to your rant word by word. I mean it like seriously every single word especially the part about the bangles. No man gifts a woman jewelry unless he is her father brother husband or boyfriend. Also Raghav made perfectly clear with his actions he was uncomfortable about the bangles and Pallavi did notice that and still didn't remove them. She noticed the first thing he asked was the bangles and then when she handed him lemonade his eyes were fixated on the bangles and she noticed his eyes on the bangles uske baad bhi she didn't take them off. No man and I mean it NO MAN would tolerate his wife wearing jewelry gifted to her by her ex and you are definitely right had this been anyone else or any other serial she would have been accused of infidelity already.

@bold - exactly even I feel like sitting her down and advising her on her relationship just not as a little sister because I am younger than her in terms of age but have been in a relationship for a long time and so have experience about this stuff.

She definitely needs to learn non verbal cues of her spouse and guage his emotions from his expressions and reactions and in this case verbal cues too because when she asked why he is upset he immediately talked of the bangles and she should have understood.

And also the phone thing was totally unacceptable. How did you not check your phone all day. I mean forget boyfriend my mother would be the first one to skin me if she doesn't know whether I am safe or not and when she calls my phone to ask it is switched off.

You did not inform your husband anything neither amma as to your whereabouts. And when you got he and turned on your phone and it was charged and you didn't switch it off then immediately you should doubt Mandar.

Thank you for this post.

Even I was in need of this rant.

I just hope from the precap that at least at this juncture she takes a stand and if she really has to go then she insists on Raghav going with her otherwise it will give people a chance to question her character.

😡😡

Originally posted by: MsPrez

I think after Mandar's attack (in the precap) Pallavi will be asked to move to D house temporarily. It's very much needed for her to realize what kinda of creep Mandar is and where her true loyalty lies.

Btw, the attack seems like Mandar's desperate try to get Pallavi live with him before 7 days are over.

Agree needed for her to realise what a creep bandar is..

but why d need of mandar being bad to realise her love or loyality for anna. 🙄🙄.

I have been telling from so long. U don't need anyone to tell u d nature of a person.

Ur experience with that person should should shape ur emotions with him n not the comparison between two people.

If mandar was good should raghav be bad now🤷 why she has to compare n choose.

Let her choose her heart without needing anything else to give certificate of superiority regarding anna.

Originally posted by: fria319

I'm watching the episode right now as I type this. I haven't even finished and I'm upset at everyone except Aayi and Raghav. I'm about to rant right now. Just excuse it but I gotta get it out LOL.

I'm sorry. I can't understand Pallavi right now. Why are you going somewhere that far without 1) letting anyone know or 2) not even checking your phone?! She continues to go against her gut instincts and it's going to land her in more tougher positions.

Mandar def faking or did lose his memory, regained it, and is now playing tricks to set this all up. He just happened to remember the bangles after being obsessed with her for 2 years? Wouldn't the Dr have told him she found bangles on him and he would've remembered that? How is someone so obsessed with the name Pallavi forget that Dr found bangles with him?

Also, if the bangles were with him, how is Pallavi wearing it going to jog a memory??? HE CLEARLY NEVER SAW HER WEAR THEM.

I'm not bashing, not hating, but am genuinely confused by the actions of this character at this moment in time & questioning everything she's doing. So don't come for me.

It's becoming harder and harder to understand her need to be Mandar's one and only savior.

Everything she's doing is clearly under the umbrella of helping her parents, but this is overkill. Other people can help him get his memory back. Other people can go with him to the dr. He's been alone for 2+ years and surviving just fine.

Ya'll I said earlier Pallavi has a lot of qadr for relationships, but it's been lately it's been falling short with Raghav. And that's just the hard truth.

She's not doing it intentionally but when you're married, you have to sometimes read what your spouse isn't saying and gage their reactions to whats happening and adjust accordingly. And even in this entire situation, it's clear to her that Raghav is uncomfortable with Mandar.

How do you wear your ex's jewelry gift in front of your current husband. How do you spend the whole day with your ex and not disclose that to your husband? Especially when you know your husband doesn't like the guy? I'm sorry, but where's Aayi, because she needs to teach Pallavi on what not to do as a wife. Next thing you know he's going to ask her to wear a mangalsutra. In any other scenario, any less of a patient guy, in any other ITV show, she'd be accused/suspected of infidelity at this point 🤣.

I get it, I know she's always going to pick Raghav. There's no scenario in which she wouldn't. But just because she says these things and tries to reassure him doesn't mean she shouldn't pick up on the small things he's swallowing to keep her happy. He's keeping quiet because he knows this is important to her, yet she's going and basically rubbing salt on his wounds by doing all this extra stuff. Also, it's not like he hasn't made his reservations about Mandar clear.

She's not seeing or being able to read Raghav's real emotions at all right now. She asked why he was upset - her first thought should've been those bangles after he asked earlier, "why are you wearing them".

I feel like Raghav knows Pallavi pretty well, but she doesn't know him as well. The fact she didn't even realize her wearing some other man's bangles would trigger him. It would trigger anyone. No spouse wants to see that. Its weird that a man is giving a married woman the gift of bangles of all things. How does that not register in her head as being odd? I just..

The first thing she should've done when she got to the kitchen was remove those bangles. It's fine, she accepted a gift. But, she doesn't have to wear them, that too in front of her husband.

RagVi Moment: sigh. super cute. the head tap Pallavi did. cute. They're a whole bunch of cuteness ok. I love them together, but man, anything she does seems superficial now in comparison to the hurt she's unintentionally causing him. She's oblivious and I'm worried that's going to cost the both of them.

Precap: Did I call it or did I call it. Of course they're going to use Mandar's health to bring Pallavi in.

Sometimes I think I treat Pallavi like a little sister advising her on how to navigate her relationship because this ain't it. LOL . I tried really hard to understand her - read everyones postivity posts, etc., and even eventually came around to really understanding her and in general I still do, but ya'll, I can't today. 🤣

I definitely understand your frustration - Palls baby was moments away from her first kiss with hubby and instead she stopped to text Mandar and even I was like damn girl, priorities!! Your charity case can wait for a text - poor Raghav 🌵

But I can see from her perspective - that to her Mandar means nothing, she is doing this out of a sense of obligation and has nothing to hide, has clearly stated to him and D fam that Raghav is her husband and she is his wife. And because she doesn't know about Mandar's little challenge, his victim persona ticks all the boxes for her bleeding heart - she is a sucker for this stuff. She reamed out poor Harish for following poor innocent Kirti and refused to back down in the face of Raghav's subsequent don giri. Part of her forceful rejection of VD was realizing how he relished debasing Raghav and when she stood up to him I think it was as much for Raghav as it was for herself.

So it will be a tough lesson for her to learn, not only that Mandar is manipulating her, but that she is hurting Raghav with her altruistic behavior - that it's ok to be selfish when it comes to their relationship, because making him her priority means that too.

I definitely don't agree with her actions, and there are only so many times that Raghav can ask her for reassurance before he starts to doubt her intentions, but I see this as consistent with her character especially considering this is a new relationship for her to navigate.

But yes the phone thing drove me nuts 😆

Pallavi - Mai Apne past Ko mere aur tumhare Rishtey par ASR padne na dungi

Le Fandom- Rehne de behen tujse na ho payega badu badi batein fekna band kar

About why raghav not telling about 7 days challenge seriously ha jaise raghav bolega ans she will believe she may believe but she will lecture in return Mandar bimar hai raghav tum to nahi and she will joke and brush it off 😡😔😡

Such a callous idiot she is ..By god I gave full trust on her on this matter

Originally posted by: ShyNomad

I definitely understand your frustration - Palls baby was moments away from her first kiss with hubby and instead she stopped to text Mandar and even I was like damn girl, priorities!! Your charity case can wait for a text - poor Raghav 🌵

But I can see from her perspective - that to her Mandar means nothing, she is doing this out of a sense of obligation and has nothing to hide, has clearly stated to him and D fam that Raghav is her husband and she is his wife. And because she doesn't know about Mandar's little challenge, his victim persona ticks all the boxes for her bleeding heart - she is a sucker for this stuff. She reamed out poor Harish for following poor innocent Kirti and refused to back down in the face of Raghav's subsequent don giri. Part of her forceful rejection of VD was realizing how he relished debasing Raghav and when she stood up to him I think it was as much for Raghav as it was for herself.

So it will be a tough lesson for her to learn, not only that Mandar is manipulating her, but that she is hurting Raghav with her altruistic behavior - that it's ok to be selfish when it comes to their relationship, because making him her priority means that too.

I definitely don't agree with her actions, and there are only so many times that Raghav can ask her for reassurance before he starts to doubt her intentions, but I see this as consistent with her character especially considering this is a new relationship for her to navigate.

But yes the phone thing drove me nuts 😆

@bold: For sure this will be a learning lesson for her. People as naive as she is (not an insult), sometimes have to learn the hard way, as Amma once put it. I just hope nothing drastic happens on her way to learning it.

I get why she sees no harm in helping Mandar. It's her lack of regard (she reassures him yet has not followed it up with action) of how her own husband feels about the situation and her disregard for her own lack of comfort (she clearly is not easy about being around Mandar yet ignores her own feelings) that has been irking me.

I know this will definitely pass but man it's hard to watch lol.

Originally posted by: fria319

@bold: For sure this will be a learning lesson for her. People as naive as she is (not an insult), sometimes have to learn the hard way, as Amma once put it. I just hope nothing drastic happens on her way to learning it.

I get why she sees no harm in helping Mandar. It's her lack of regard (she reassures him yet has not followed it up with action) of how her own husband feels about the situation and her disregard for her own lack of comfort (she clearly is not easy about being around Mandar yet ignores her own feelings) that has been irking me.

I know this will definitely pass but man it's hard to watch lol.

Agreed, she is not being empathetic towards how Raghav must be feeling in this situation and can't read his cues. I am hoping maybe Amma or Aayi or even Krishna can open her eyes to that before things further deteriorate. I can see her ignoring her own feelings, that was her default setting with D fam 😒

It's definitely hard to watch, I skipped a decent portion of the episode. But even as cute as they were in the kitchen, the way Raghav reached for Pallavi, like he had to hold her when he asked her that question, broke my heart a little 😔

Originally posted by: Debasmitbha1234

Episode is such a crap...such a weak female character they are turning to Pallavi...can't bear this...will be reading updates only till this bandar track is over

Pallavi also needs to feel the fear of losing Raghav

Probably then she will understand how unnecessarily she is hurting him

What was the need to remain wearing the bangles even after entering RR mansion?

Originally posted by: fria319

@bold: Good Point. He needs to just tell her already. He's not trusting that she would believe him. But the one saving grace one could say is, she kind of dismissed his earlier concerns. He has no proof to show her and that's I think his real hesitancy. He doesn't want to come off looking like a jealous husband with no basis. But he also just should just do it and let the pieces fall where they may.

@ bangles: I don't think she forgot, I think she didn't even realize it was not an ok thing to do (i.e. to keep wearing them).

@bold - exactly but how can she not realise that. Even the most calm man on the planet if he loves his wife would lose his mind over this.

But I did see her noticing Raghav staring at the bangles when she handed him the lemonade that too twice.

So in total thrice because he did straight out ask as well ki why are you wearing them.

I am hoping she has taken notice and takes them off in tomorrow's episode.