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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: -abz-

Ashi.

Since he himself gave the slipper shot, I save a tiny whiny bit of hope but I'm not keeping that stable either.

These people will never understand. Bashers will find reasons to bash. We can let that pass.

But not when it comes to harrasment, and never. Anybody who wishes for that to happen even to a fictional character should not be spared. We should stand together as women, above everything as humans. (I'm still mad at them for spiking up my temper, harrasment is not funny.)

That's what I'm saying na Abi...Pallu bashing toh roz ka hai. We had a previous AT titled 'Hungama Ho Gaya' because irrespective of what she does or doesn't do, hunagama ho jaata hai. I don't take that stuff seriously.

But jab se all these demands for Pallu being assaulted to set her straight have happened (and it wasn't one post, one got more attention, but I saw so many people asking for this, here and on Twitter), I'm just angry and disappointed. This is a fandom that's 99% women. We've all been in scary situations at one point or the other, be it a guy who just can't take no for an answer or creepy insta DMs or an overfriendly colleague with no respect for boundaries. We all know of at least one friend who's been seriously harassed. We all know the rules of staying safe- raat ko baahar jaao toh kissi ko bata ke. Phone humesha charged rakho. Location humesha on rakho. Uber mein ho to map pe nazar rakho. If possible, go out with men you trust. Self defense seekho. Pepper spray rakho.

When us women, who live lives like this on a daily basis, to an extent that all this is second nature, can wish such ill on another woman, fictional or real, it breaks my heart. And not that there is anything that can make one 'deserving' of such treatment- never, ever is it the victim's fault, but what has Pallavi done to warrant such ill will?

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Posted: 4 years ago

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Garam Sitara ko rishwat dena padega😆

Aao paise ikattha karen because they are laalchi

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Yes and i can't wait for that to happen

We haven't had many functions on our show and i think such events increase trp

his answers when people asked for promo, repeat telecasts and time change🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

thank you so much Sama--I wasnt able to watch the whole live--just few minutes in beginning

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: -abz-

Yes. We can't let that pass. It's not funny at all.


True. I now want to go and say few words there. I had a hint of something like this existing but didn’t know how bad it was. I will curse and then sleep over it.


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Thank you🤗.

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Congratulations reem, you are rocking now

Thank you Jhanvi🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

That's what I'm saying na Abi...Pallu bashing toh roz ka hai. We had a previous AT titled 'Hungama Ho Gaya' because irrespective of what she does or doesn't do, hunagama ho jaata hai. I don't take that stuff seriously.

But jab se all these demands for Pallu being assaulted to set her straight have happened (and it wasn't one post, one got more attention, but I saw so many people asking for this, here and on Twitter), I'm just angry and disappointed. This is a fandom that's 99% women. We've all been in scary situations at one point or the other, be it a guy who just can't take no for an answer or creepy insta DMs or an overfriendly colleague with no respect for boundaries. We all know of at least one friend who's been seriously harassed. We all know the rules of staying safe- raat ko baahar jaao toh kissi ko bata ke. Phone humesha charged rakho. Location humesha on rakho. Uber mein ho to map pe nazar rakho. If possible, go out with men you trust. Self defense seekho. Pepper spray rakho.

When us women, who live lives like this on a daily basis, to an extent that all this is second nature, can wish such ill on another woman, fictional or real, it breaks my heart. And not that there is anything that can make one 'deserving' of such treatment- never, ever is it the victim's fault, but what has Pallavi done to warrant such ill will?

We cannot keep quiet.

Itne din se, I was okay with ignoring. Now even if it compels me to join twitter back, I'm ready. Whatever they believe or think about Pallavi is their opinion. Yehan, the talk has come to sexual harassment.

Even if the show makers portray it, these people donot have the rights to wish for it! Period.

If anybody sees anybody demanding for harrasment, give them black blue and purple! Their lack of brains should not instigate the promotion of sexual violence.This is sick. 😡

We are fans for a reason too.

We can have hundred reasons to hate somebody but that hatred should not be expressed like this. This is not funny and this should not be supported.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Sama, hugs for you🤗🤗you’re such a strong person. So proud. ❤️

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