Originally posted by: Transference
I know I haven’t been posting much given my exams, work schedule and, of course, the next level of detachment which I have these days with the Pandya store. 😆
But, I would like to discuss a small dialogue where Shiva mentioned that Ravi was always like this from childhood; only Dev didn’t understand her that well.
I know it outrightly came as disgusting from Shiva, who blatantly dissed Raavi in front of everyone.
If you notice both their patterns, Shiva and Raavi are far from being husband and wife. I have reiterated that it happens with couples who have a childhood history, and a sense of over-familiarity washes over the entire marital relationship.
A spousal obligation changes the way Society sees you, you also tend to have a different way of living, but it doesn’t change the way one behaves with an acquaintance like that.
Shiva and Raavi both share such a vivid history that its impossible for them to distinguish that from their character and current marital status.
Raavi, ever since she was a child, had a habit of complaining about Shiva to Dhara; we see her doing that very often.
Shiva, on the other hand, also complains about her and openly reprimands her. It’s a constant pattern between them, and also may look normal to people around them. Today’s statement was a subtle hint towards Ravi and her behaviour.
In her life, Ravi tends to live in a fictional world with perceptions about people. Hasn’t it always been like this? Whether it’s misunderstanding Shiva at every second or blind trust in her evil set of Maami and Anita, it's a pattern with her ‘ulti khopdi’.
Whether misunderstanding Dev to be in love with her or blaming everyone around her for her miserable plight, Raavi lives in a fairly strange world or her own. I think a push is needed some growth in Raavi’s character or maybe not!

I love the familiarity with which Dev addresses her, saying that he knows her well!!

Did I sense a triumph in Shiva!! See, brother, I knew her better than you. Honestly, if it's an undercurrent written like that, then they conveyed it very well!

Ulti Khodi thinking ulta about people 🤣