Public humiliation DT Note Pg 10

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A thought came to my mind after watching today’s episode.. Sai always had the habiit of washing dirty linen in public or reveal too much personal info in public from the GC days even before she got married . Few are listed below and today she experienced what she always did to others . Bring out the personal matters in public and question the other person . I felt bad for Ajinkya as he is an innocent but it’s a reality check for Sai how it feels when you discuss personal matters in front of neighbors , co workers , extended family members . Discussing in public only gives others a chance to gossip and it doesn’t help in solving the issue .This habit of Sai has not only caused public humiliation to others but she has caused self embarrassment . I hope after this incident we see a change in both Sai and Virat


Few incidents where she has washed her dirty linen in public


1, The GC days where she used to insult Virat infront of his and her father’s subordinates. Despite KJ clarifying that it was his decision to come to work , Sai had misbehaved and shouted at Virat multiple times .


2. Blackmailing CN gang to humiliate them in public when they threw Pulkit’s gifts ( no one is supporting CN gang act but want to highlight that she choose to resolve by threatening about public humiliation)


3. Blackmailing CN to attend college feast and revealing the entire plan infront of whole college ( I thought it was a dumb move ) . Why would she make herself look bad by revealing everything


4. In famous neighborhood drama after Dev’s marriage : The way she choose to discuss about Devkit and blame Virat in public by only revealing half truth and not disclosing how she betrayed his trust .


5. When she moves to hostel , the way she announced to her roommate whom she met only once about her broken marriage by declaring it as a breaking news


6. Revealing it to Ajinkya on the college feast day how she and Virat are not a couple . It was not needed . He was just a friend not even close then why reveal such personal matters .


7. The confrontation and questioning Virat’s feelings for Pakhi during lunch drama and after Harini’s birthday.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

A thought came to my mind after watching today’s episode.. Sai always had the habiit of washing dirty linen in public or reveal too much personal info in public from the GC days even before she got married . Few are listed below and today she experienced what she always did to others . Bring out the personal matters in public and question the other person . I felt bad for Ajinkya as he is an innocent but it’s a reality check for Sai how it feels when you discuss personal matters in front of neighbors , co workers , extended family members . Discussing in public only gives others a chance to gossip and it doesn’t help in solving the issue .This habit of Sai has not only caused public humiliation to others but she has caused self embarrassment . I hope after this incident we see a change in both Sai and Virat .


Few incidents where she has washed her dirty linen in public


1, The GC days where she used to insult Virat infront of his and her father’s subordinates. Despite KJ clarifying that it was his decision to come to work , Sai had misbehaved and shouted at Virat multiple times .


2. Blackmailing CN gang to humiliate them in public when they threw Pulkit’s gifts ( no one is supporting CN gang act but want to highlight that she choose to resolve by threatening about public humiliation)


3. Blackmailing CN to attend college feast and revealing the entire plan infront of whole college ( I thought it was a dumb move ) . Why would she make herself look bad by revealing everything


4. In famous neighborhood drama after Dev’s marriage : The way she choose to discuss about Devkit and blame Virat in public by only revealing half truth and not disclosing how she betrayed his trust .


5. When she moves to hostel , the way she announced to her roommate whom she met only once about her broken marriage by declaring it as a breaking news


6. Revealing it to Ajinkya on the college feast day how she and Virat are not a couple . It was not needed . He was just a friend not even close then why reveal such personal matters .


7. The confrontation and questioning Virat’s feelings for Pakhi during lunch drama and after Harini’s birthday.

So you mean to say that she deserves getting into an accident and getting into coma or even death??

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

A thought came to my mind after watching today’s episode.. Sai always had the habiit of washing dirty linen in public or reveal too much personal info in public from the GC days even before she got married . Few are listed below and today she experienced what she always did to others . Bring out the personal matters in public and question the other person . I felt bad for Ajinkya as he is an innocent but it’s a reality check for Sai how it feels when you discuss personal matters in front of neighbors , co workers , extended family members . Discussing in public only gives others a chance to gossip and it doesn’t help in solving the issue .This habit of Sai has not only caused public humiliation to others but she has caused self embarrassment . I hope after this incident we see a change in both Sai and Virat .


Few incidents where she has washed her dirty linen in public


1, The GC days where she used to insult Virat infront of his and her father’s subordinates. Despite KJ clarifying that it was his decision to come to work , Sai had misbehaved and shouted at Virat multiple times .


2. Blackmailing CN gang to humiliate them in public when they threw Pulkit’s gifts ( no one is supporting CN gang act but want to highlight that she choose to resolve by threatening about public humiliation)


3. Blackmailing CN to attend college feast and revealing the entire plan infront of whole college ( I thought it was a dumb move ) . Why would she make herself look bad by revealing everything


4. In famous neighborhood drama after Dev’s marriage : The way she choose to discuss about Devkit and blame Virat in public by only revealing half truth and not disclosing how she betrayed his trust .


5. When she moves to hostel , the way she announced to her roommate whom she met only once about her broken marriage by declaring it as a breaking news


6. Revealing it to Ajinkya on the college feast day how she and Virat are not a couple . It was not needed . He was just a friend not even close then why reveal such personal matters .


7. The confrontation and questioning Virat’s feelings for Pakhi during lunch drama and after Harini’s birthday.


@bold: everyone thinking this post is justifying the male lead Kindly read the text in bold!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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So you mean to say that she deserves getting into an accident and getting into coma or even death??

Did I say that anywhere in the post ? It’s the post about Sai and her nature of resolving issues . Where did accident , coma or Virat come into picture .
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So true . Other then everything is surprise for her and that creates scenes at home . In normal house if we ask our kids where you went aren’t we expecting answer or they can sau I will not tell you 🤦‍♀️

Why she is not getting it take time to make space and her marriage was not normal she herself keep saying deal hai I will leave that’s most annoying thing .

No one is 100% correct so it’s ok to have some flaw in fiction character 🙂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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what changed do you want to see in virat after this?

Sai I can understand

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Originally posted by: ppnn7191


@bold: everyone thinking this post is justifying the male lead Kindly read the text in bold!

Thank you for highlighting this . Gaslighting is so common these days
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

A thought came to my mind after watching today’s episode.. Sai always had the habiit of washing dirty linen in public or reveal too much personal info in public from the GC days even before she got married . Few are listed below and today she experienced what she always did to others . Bring out the personal matters in public and question the other person . I felt bad for Ajinkya as he is an innocent but it’s a reality check for Sai how it feels when you discuss personal matters in front of neighbors , co workers , extended family members . Discussing in public only gives others a chance to gossip and it doesn’t help in solving the issue .This habit of Sai has not only caused public humiliation to others but she has caused self embarrassment . I hope after this incident we see a change in both Sai and Virat


Few incidents where she has washed her dirty linen in public


1, The GC days where she used to insult Virat infront of his and her father’s subordinates. Despite KJ clarifying that it was his decision to come to work , Sai had misbehaved and shouted at Virat multiple times .


2. Blackmailing CN gang to humiliate them in public when they threw Pulkit’s gifts ( no one is supporting CN gang act but want to highlight that she choose to resolve by threatening about public humiliation)


3. Blackmailing CN to attend college feast and revealing the entire plan infront of whole college ( I thought it was a dumb move ) . Why would she make herself look bad by revealing everything


4. In famous neighborhood drama after Dev’s marriage : The way she choose to discuss about Devkit and blame Virat in public by only revealing half truth and not disclosing how she betrayed his trust .


5. When she moves to hostel , the way she announced to her roommate whom she met only once about her broken marriage by declaring it as a breaking news


6. Revealing it to Ajinkya on the college feast day how she and Virat are not a couple . It was not needed . He was just a friend not even close then why reveal such personal matters .


7. The confrontation and questioning Virat’s feelings for Pakhi during lunch drama and after Harini’s birthday.

Great post.

When Sai met Pulkit the first day in College and he praised her in laws she told him that her in laws haven't supported but it was her husband. And, she went on to say that this was a deal marraige. During that time she didn't even know he was the son in law of Chavan family, then how could she share these things?

When she entered Chavan Niwas after marriage she told Pakh that this was a deal marraige. Why did she have to disclose this secret?

She feels by washing dirty linen in public is doing something great,but she doesn't know people can take advantage of the situation. The best example is....you know who.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Great post.

When Sai met Pulkit the first day in College and he praised her in laws she told him that her in laws haven't supported but it was her husband. And, she went on to say that this was a deal marraige. During that time she didn't even know he was the son in law of Chavan family, then how could she share these things?

When she entered Chavan Niwas after marriage she told Pakh that this was a deal marraige. Why did she have to disclose this secret?

She feels by washing dirty linen in public is doing something great,but she doesn't know people can take advantage of the situation. The best example is....you know who.

I am completely forgot about this incidents. I agree it’s gives others an opportunity to exploit her and I hope she realizes this soon . Washing dirty linen in public is not an solution to any problems
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am completely forgot about this incidents. I agree it’s gives others an opportunity to exploit her and I hope she realizes this soon . Washing dirty linen in public is not an solution to any problems

Yes, it's so true. I've got a friend who lives in a joint family. She stays with her 2 devars, devranis , their kids and mother in law. It looks as if they get along very well,but once she told me Band muthhi lakh ki, khule toh khaak ki and I realised everything is not rosy. It's simply that we choose not to disclose everything to everyone. I hope Sai realises her folly and stops doing these mistakes everytime.

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